Indlela yokuthola ukushaya kwakho

Uyazi uBarbara Cher? Lona umbhali oshukumisayo owaziwayo - umlobi we-bestseller "Ukuphupha akuyona eyingozi" - incwadi ehunyushwe ngezilimi ezingu-20 futhi iye yaba ohlwini olungcono kunazo zonke iminyaka engu-35. Nakuba isiphetho sikaBarbara kunzima ukuba nomona.

Washiya ekuseni ngezingane ezimbili ezandleni zakhe, wasebenza njengesikhonzi semishini iminyaka engu-7 ukuze athole umndeni wakhe. Konke lokhu isikhathi eside futhi kunzima ukuya ephusheni lakhe - wabhala izincwadi futhi wabasiza abantu. Incwadi yokuqala kaBarbara yaphuma lapho eneminyaka engu-45 ubudala. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, uBarbara uye wasiza abantu abayizigidi emhlabeni wonke ukuthola umsebenzi wabo. Futhi sikukhethele amathiphu ambalwa avela ezincwadini zikaBarbara ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani lokhu.

Indlela ye-Feline

Ngakho, ukuqala kuphi ukufuna ikholi yakho? Njengoba udinga ukuphumula. "Ngezinye izikhathi sinezinkinga kakhulu ukuthola indawo esiya kuyo, ngoba kubonakala ngathi kuzodingeka ukhethe ukukhetha impilo. Futhi-ke isifiso sethu sibaluleke kakhulu kithi kangangokuthi asikwazi neze ukuhamba, "- kubhala uBarbara Cher encwadini ethi" Ukuphuka akuyona eyingozi. "

Futhi ucabange ukuthi kuzokwenzekani uma unempilo eminingi, njengekati? Ake sithi emihlanu. Ungayilahla kanjani? Thatha i-leaflet ne-notebook okwamanje bese ubhala isihloko esithi "izimpilo ezingu-5." Futhi manje cabanga: unemipilo emihlanu, futhi yonke impilo ongayisebenzisa ngendaba ethile. Kuzokwenzekani? Ake sithi unolwazi olunjalo: Umethuli we-TV, isazi semvelo, udansa, uthisha nodokotela wezilwane. Kusho ukuthini lokhu? Lolu hlu lubonisa ukuthi iziphi izindawo ezikugqugquzela ngempela. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele usebenze kuzo zonke lezi zikhombisi-ndlela. Okuthile kulolu hlu kungaba, isibonelo, ukuzilibazisa. Ake sithi ungaba umethuli we-TV wokudluliswa kwemvelo noma intatheli yezokuvakasha. Ngesikhathi esifanayo ngesikhathi sakho samahhala ungahlala udansa futhi usize izilwane. Ukuqaphela isifiso sokuba "uthisha" kubuye kube lula: ungakhuluma nabantu futhi ukhulume ngamazwe ahlukene. Qiniseka ukwenza lo msebenzi, futhi uzoqonda ukuthi iyiphi indlela ongayenza.

Akuwona umsebenzi, kungukuthi isihogo!

Encwadini ethi "Yini Okufanele Yiphume" UBarbara unikeza umsebenzi obizwa ngokuthi "Umsebenzi we-Infernal". Manje ake sicabange ukuthi hlobo luni lomsebenzi ozondayo. "Ngokuvamile abantu abakwazi ukusho ukuthi hlobo luni lomsebenzi lungaba ipharadesi kubo. Kodwa bayazi kahle ukuthi yini abayifunayo. Yingakho indlela ephikisana nami kakhulu, "- kusho uBarbara. Ungakwenza kanjani lokhu? Ngakho-ke, bhala zonke izici ezimbi kakhulu ukuthi umsebenzi wakho wesi-hellish ungaba nawo. Isibonelo, "Ngihlezi egumbini elincane, elincane, ngaphandle kwamawindi. Sekupheleni kwezinsuku, ngenza amarekhodi ephepha ukuthi akekho othanda, ongenalo ithonya. Umphathi wami uyindodana yomqondisi jikelele. Uzenzisi futhi uyisiwula. Osebenza nabo kuphela futhi bangakwazi, ukuthi baxoxisane ngezihloko zalabo abaye bachitha ubusuku nokuthi bazokwenza kuphi manicure ngama-pastes ยป. Uke wakwenza? Kuhle! Futhi manje ake siphendule le ncazelo ukuze siqonde ukuthi yini oyifunayo. Kungenzeka ukuthi kuyoba kanje: "Ngifuna ukusebenza ekamelweni elihle, kungcono ngisho noma lihhovisi lekhaya. Ngifuna ukwenza izinto ezithile eziwusizo, ukuze ziwusizo emhlabeni. Kubalulekile ukuthi ozakwabo kanye nomphathi wami bafundiswe futhi bathuthukiswe abantu. "

Iyini umqondo oyinhloko lapha? "Izinto eziwusizo." Ake sicabange ngokuthi yiziphi izinto "eziwusizo" okusho kuwe. Bhala uhlu lwemisebenzi ocabanga ukuthi uyayenza. Ungabheke amaphethini nokuziqhenya, ngoba, mhlawumbe, kulokhu odokotela nabacimi bomlilo bazofika engqondweni, kodwa, mhlawumbe, kuwe lokhu kungenzi lutho. Uma ucabanga ukuthi izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu abalobi abazenzayo, kusho ukuthi kufanele uhambe lapho.

Ama-Scanners noma i-diver?

Futhi esinye isiqephu esithakazelisayo esivela encwadini nguBarbara Cher "Angiyikukhetha." UBarbara uhlukanisa abantu abe yizinhlobo ezimbili: ama-scanners kanye nabahlukahlukene. Ama-Scanners yibo abangakwazi ukuyeka kuphela into eyodwa, futhi bayathanda ukutadisha umhlaba kuzo zonke izinhlobo zazo. Futhi abambalwa labo ababhapathizwa into eyodwa ngamakhanda abo.

Ama-scanners aphezulu: Goethe, u-Aristotle, uMikhail Lomonosov, uBenjamin Franklin, uLeonardo da Vinci. "Bonke babenomqondo omuhle, futhi ngamunye wabo akavelele kuphela endaweni eyodwa. Futhi ubani owakutshele ukuthi kufanele ukhethe inkundla eyodwa kuphela? Ezweni lethu lokudonsa, ama-scanner kufanele abe nzima kakhulu, ngoba baphoqeleka ukuba "banqume", - UBarbara ubhala. Ingabe nawe uzama ukwenza ngokwakho kuchazwe? Ungalaleli muntu! Thatha amazinga ambalwa ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi wenze indlela yakho ephusheni! Yenza zonke izinto ezikukhuthazayo ngisho nemizuzu engu-15 ngosuku, futhi uzobona ukuthi uyazibona eziningi zazo! Zonke izincwadi ezintathu zikaBarbara Cher - "Ukuphupha akuyona eyingozi," "Yini ongayiphupha ngayo," nokuthi "Ukungafuni ukukhetha" kuzokunika impendulo ephelele mayelana nokuphela kwakho.