Ngokuvamile abazali abangabantwana abavame ukujabulela amamaki okuhle esikoleni, umbuzo uvela - yini evimbela ingane ukuba ifunde kahle? Othisha banamuhla nabazali bayaqhubeka bekhononda ngokushiyeka kwehlelo lethu lemfundo, ngezindleko eziqhubekayo ezibonakalayo zokufunda esikoleni ngokungabikho kokuthuthukiswa kwesakhiwo semfundo esikhungweni semfundo kanye nokungahambi kahle kwezindlela zokufundisa. Noma kunjalo, izazi zengqondo zithi akulungile ukubeka lezi zici njengento ebalulekile, njengabazali abaningi. Inkinga kufanele icatshangelwe ngendlela ephelele, kucatshangelwa isimo sangaphakathi somphefumulo wengane kanye nemvelo yayo yomphakathi.
Imvelo yangaphandle
Abantu babantu bezemvelo kanye nemvelo yethu ithonya elikhulu kithi ngamunye. Uma sizungezwe abantu abanobucayi nabangenasimilo, ngokuzibandakanya siqala nokuba nobuvila futhi siwele esimweni sokunganaki. Kwenzeka okufanayo nezingane. Iklasi lapho ingane yakho ifunda khona inganciphisa isifiso somntwana sokufunda kahle uma iningi labafundi kulo "libuthakathaka." Ungaba yinto yokuhlekwa usulu nokukhishwa, isikhala esimhlophe sokuzama ukufunda kahle.
Ukuqala ukuthola izizathu zokumisa ingane kungcono kusuka engxoxweni. Funda kusuka kwengane ukuthi ucabanga ngokusebenza okungalungile? Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Gwema izinsolo nemibuto eyingozi, ungavumeli imizwelo yakho ihambe. Isigaba esilandelayo yingxoxo nothisha. Thola uma kukhona ukungqubuzana nengane yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi uthisha angase ahlehlise umfundi, ngakho-ke angenza ukuthi ahluleke, okusho ukuthi ingane ingafunda kangcono. Kodwa lokhu kungaholela ekudambiseni umfundi omncane, ukwenza umqondo wokungabi namandla: ufundise noma ungafundisi - bazobe bebeka ezintathu.
Uma imbangela ivela ekubeni isiyalo, ngakho konke kucacile: umkhuba uhlose izenzo, futhi izenzo zakha uhlamvu. Umkhuba wokufunda, ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole njalo, ophethe umsebenzi ufunde umkhuba wokusebenza. Esikhathini esizayo, kuyoba lula ukuba ingane ifunde esikhungweni semfundo ephakeme, bese iba isisebenzi esisebenzayo esenza imisebenzi yakhe yansukuzonke nsuku zonke.
Kukhona umqondo wokugqugquzela. Umuntu ngamunye unesisusa sakhe, esishukumisela ukuba ahambe ngendlela ethile. Esikhathini sokuqala sokufunda, isisusa sokufunda singaba nesithakazelo kolwazi. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umntwana unesithakazelo kukho konke okusha, ukuze athande ukuthola ulwazi.
Izimbangela zangaphakathi
Ukuntuleka kokutadisha kungabangelwa impilo embi nempilo yengane, engaxhomeki kuye. Ngokuvamile izingane ezigulayo zibi nakakhulu ekufundeni ikharikhulamu yesikole kunontanga enempilo futhi esebenzayo. Usizo lokugcwalisa izikhala kolwazi kuzosiza izifundo ezengeziwe zabazali ekhaya nomntwana noma ukuheha abafundisi.
Kubalulekile ukucabangela isimiso sezinzwa zomntwana nokulungela kwakhe esikoleni kusukela eminyakeni engama-7. Ukusebenza kwengqondo kungakalungi esikoleni ngeke kube lula. Kulokhu, othisha bakhuluma ngokubambezeleka kokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo (PPR). Ezinganeni ezinjalo, ukuthuthukiswa kwesimiso sezinzwa kuyi-spasmodic, izintambo zesibindi asinaso isikhathi sokwakha ukuxhumana okusha phakathi kwezindawo ezibalulekile nezindawo zobuchopho ezidingekayo ekufundeni.
I-DET yinto ekhona kuze kube neminyaka engu-12. Ngale minyaka, ingane ibambelela ekuthuthukiseni ontanga, kepha ukuqonda kwengane njengokushiya ngemuva kwezifundo kungase kuhlale isikhathi eside. Lokhu kuthinta ukuzethemba, ukuzethemba wena kanye nokuphumelela komsebenzi wakho siqu.
Kukhona isigaba sezingane ezikhathazekile futhi zisengozini ngokwemvelo. Babesaba ukuhlekwa usulu, bazwela amaphutha abo, ukugxeka, bakhathazeke kakhulu ngokulawula noma ukuhlolwa. Lokhu kuvimbela ingane ukuba igxilise, okuthinta kabi imiphumela yezifundo.
Ukusebenza ngokweqile kwe-psyche kuhlangene nokunciphisa okunciphise ukukhathazeka ngokuvamile kuvimbela ukusebenza, ingane inganaki kulezi zifundo, ayikwazi ukugxila. Ekubukeni, lezi zingane azifani nezezontanga zabo, ziphawulwe ngaphandle kokuthi ukungabi nabulungisa nokuvinjelwa. Ukuba nengqondo ehlakaniphile, ingane iletha amamaki amabi, futhi abazali bavame ukuqonda isizathu salokhu - ukungabi nalutho kwengane, uma ulwazi lubonakala ludlula.