Shayela endaweni ethile ngempelasonto
Lesi seluleko asisho ukuthi uhambo olujwayelekile endaweni yokuvakasha ngezimpelasonto. Vumelanisa, akunakwenzeka ukuthi lokhu kungasiza ukuvuselela ubuhlobo. Kungcono ukuya endaweni ethile lapho ungakaze ube khona, isibonelo, ekuvakasheni endaweni ethile ekude. Njengendlela ongakhetha kuyo - ungahamba lapho, lapho behlezi khona ndawonye, lapho kugcwele khona izinkumbulo, bahlala endlini efanayo noma ehhotela, njengalapho. Lokhu kungase kubonakale kungavamile, kodwa uhambo olunjalo lwama-nostalgic lungasiza ekuvuseleleni imizwa.
Yenza isimanga
Awusoze ucabange ukuthi ungakanani ukuvuselela izimo zakho zengqondo ngezidakamizwa ezimnandi ezingalindelekile. Ungazitholi kunoma yiliphi izinsuku ezingakhohlwa noma amaholide, kodwa unikele okuthile kumlingani wakho njengamangalisa. Uma isipho singalindelekile, khona-ke siyothola ngisho nokubaluleka okungaphezu kwalokho okujwayelekile. Isipho singaba yinoma yini - ngisho nelekholethi ngaphansi komcamelo, nakuba ikhadi leposi lapho utshela umlingani wakho ukuthi kuyithande kangakanani kuwe.
Buza imibuzo
Izazi zengqondo zithi ukuthi ukusondelana, abashadile bavame ukuthakazela ezindabeni zesigamu sabo sesibili, hhayi ezingamaphesenti angamahlanu esikhathi sonke sokuxoxa. Zama ukuthuthukisa umkhuba wokubuza umlingani wakho ukuthi usuku lwakhe luhambe kanjani, yini eyamjabulisa, yini eyamcasula. Yethula imibuthano encane yasemakhaya ekhishini ukuze uthole inkomishi yetiye kanye nengxoxo enhle. Into esemqoka akumele ithathwe - uma i-interlocutor ekhathele, akudingeki umgcine, uqhubekele ingxoxo, engasayikuzijabulisa, kodwa iyakhathaza.
Yithinte
Ukuxhumana akubandakanyi amagama kuphela. Thinta isigamu sesibili kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka nangaphezulu. Qala ngemisindo elula-uhlale eduze kwakho, ubeke ikhanda lakho ehlombe, ugibe, ushaya izinwele zakho. Lezi zimpawu ezicacisiwe zokunakwa zizosiza umlingani wakho ukuba aphumule kancane emsebenzini womsebenzi onzima.
Khuluma ngawe
Ungathuli. Uma kukhona okukukhathazayo, yiba nesibindi ukuveza imicabango yakho nemizwa yakho, ngisho noma uqinisekile ukuthi umuntu okhuluma naye akavumelani. Ngokuvamile ukungqubuzana kwemibono kungabangela ukucasula, kuvuselele ubuhlobo bomkhuba. Unganqikazi ukukhombisa umlingani wakho ukuthi nawe u-leech naye.
Zinakekele
Ungazigijimi! Enye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokuvuselela ubudlelwane ukukhathalela ukubukeka kwakho. Uma uqaphela ama-kilogram engeziwe ngaphezu kwesikhumba - ngokushesha ukuya ejimini. Buka izinwele zakho, ukubukeka kwakho konke - umlingani uyinto enhle kakhulu ukukubona ngesimo esihle, kunokuba usebenzise impela.
Shintsha indawo
Uma ufuna ukuvuselela ubuhlobo bakho obuseduze, ungakhumbula ukuthi ikamelo lokulala akuyona indawo kuphela endlini lapho ungazinikela ezithombeni zobulili. Ungazami ukuhlela okuthile kusengaphambili-zama ukubhekana nomfutho osheshayo, ngokuvamile kungcono kakhulu kunangaphambili.
Hlala ukulala ndawonye
Lesi seluleko sinikezwa isazi sengqondo-isazi esivela e-United States of America Mark Goulston. Uphika ukuthi uma umbhangqwana ulala ndawonye, ubapha ithuba lokuzizwa ngokungenalwazi ukuthi bazizwa kanjani phakathi neminyaka yokuqala yomshado wabo, bezolala ndawonye. Isazi sezengqondo sithi ngokusho kwakhe, iningi lamabhangqwana eshadile ajabulayo aziphatha ngendlela efanayo, noma ngabe kufanele avuke ngezikhathi ezahlukene.
Chaza othandweni
Ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kungukuthi noma ku-banal, kufike emigodini? Kusobala neze. Lena enye yezindlela ezilula futhi ezifanayo ngesikhathi esifanayo zokuvuselela ubuhlobo - vele utshele umngane wakho omthandayo ukuthi uyathandeka kuwe njengasekuqaleni kobudlelwane bakho, njengosuku ngosuku lwakho lokuqala.