Indlela yokuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo eqenjini

Ungayithuthukisa kanjani isimo sengqondo eqenjini, kanjani ukufeza ukuqonda okubili kuwo? Emsebenzini, ngifuna ukwenza into engiyithandayo futhi ngilethe ekhaya imali enhle. Kodwa esikhundleni sokusebenza kanzima, ozakwabo baqala ukuthola ubuhlobo babo. Omunye wabonisa ukungafani kwabo bonke abanye, futhi akekho okhulumayo, omunye ohlukumeza ngokubambisana kwakhe, okwesithathu ubulalayo, obhekene nokubukeka komholi, kanti okwesine kuphazamisa kakhulu izindaba ngenkathi wonke umuntu ephikisana. Futhi konke, ngoba ekungabikho kwengqondo nokuhlangenwe nakho, umzamo owandayo ufana nokuqhuma kwezikhali zenuzi. Ngenxa yalokho, angifuni ukuya emsebenzini, akukho ukusebenzisana ekusebenzisaneni ndawonye, ​​umoya osebenzayo uyabuhlungu. Indlela yokusebenza kule ndawo? Kudingeka ucabange futhi unqume ukuthi ingabe usongo omkhulu kunabo bonke ohlangothini oluhlangene, futhi uthathe zonke izinyathelo zokuthola i-neutralization.

"Dushechka"
Lo wesifazane onobungane, owamukelayo nowomnandi olungele ukusiza wonke umuntu. Impikiswano encane kunazo zonke kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kuyingozi. Uzibophezela ekukholiseni, akakwazi ukuthi "cha", ozakwabo abashisekayo bafaka amahlombe akhe, izinto ezihlukahlukene futhi eziphuthumayo. Into embi nje iphuma, futhi ayinaso isikhathi sokwenza noma yini ngesikhathi. Iziphathimandla zithukuthele, wonke umuntu uhlambalaza, uyashaqeka.

Iqhinga lakho. Ngefomu elibuthakathaka, chaza lesi sidalwa esiphundu ukuthi "umbuso" kanye nokuthobeka okunjalo kuholela kuphi. Ukucindezela ngamandla imizamo yabalingani bakho ukubeka umsebenzi wabo kulo muntu. Uma usebenza njengomvikeli wesifazane onokwethenjelwa nonomusa, iziphathimandla zizokubonga ngokuthi inkinga ixazululwe yedwa, futhi akudingeki aphazamise, ngakho-ke uzowuthola inhlonipho yabanye. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi noma yikuphi imenenja engakhathaleli ukuthi iqembu lakhe lihlelwe kanjani, udinga ukuthi zonke izisebenzi ziphikisana nomsebenzi wakhe, nokuthi icala ligcwaliswe ngesikhathi.

"Waba nolwazi"
Le "mpilo yokusebenza" yomama ithi ngaphambili zonke zasebenza ngendlela ehlukile, kodwa zenzeke kangcono. Uyesaba kakhulu ukulahlekelwa yigazi lakhe, wabe esehlala endaweni yakhe ukuze afinyelele isikhundla sakhe samanje, wasebenza ingxenye yengxenye yokuphila kwakhe. Wonke umsebenzi omusha kuye uyincintisana eyingozi. Imishwana ngayinye iyisimangalo ekufanelekeni kwayo kwamanje. Futhi-ke uthi isisebenzi esincane nesethembisayo "siyisiphukuphuku", futhi sibiza ukuthi ama-novelties achitha isikhathi nemali. Kancane kancane azungezile baqoqiwe abasekeli: izimo ezikhathazayo; Akuqiniseki ngamakhono abo, ukuthi bangakwazi ukubhekana nezimo ezintsha; abathandi poshumet. Umsebenzi awuhambanga kahle futhi ithimba liyanda.

Iqhinga lakho. Njalo uxoxe naye ezindabeni ezihlukahlukene, umbonise inhlonipho anikwe yona. Futhi akudingekile ukulandela iseluleko esitholiwe. Zama ukukuletha eduze kwentsha. Ncoma ukuthi isinyathelo esisha sabantu abasha sibe nomusa kwabakhulile, tshela "impisi endala" ukuthi ozakwabo abasha bahlonipha kanjani abanye. Qaphela ukuthi le ndlela ye "ukuxhumana ngokweqile" isebenza kuphela uma "abanolwazi" begula ngenxa yezizathu zabo ezivamile. Uma ecabanga kuphela ukuthi angaphila ngokuthula nangokuthula kuze kube yilapho ehlala khona, khona-ke kuyadingeka ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokuqondile neziphathimandla.

"Ama-lenivets"
Uhlala ephuzile njalo nsuku zonke, kodwa ushiya umzuzu ngomzuzu ngomzuzu, udinga izingxoxo ezingapheli nezingavumelekile ezintweni ezincane ezinikezwe zona, uxoxe ngezihloko ezingaphandle, shirks ibhizinisi. Wazikhulula ebhizinisini, kodwa udinga imali, kodwa ukuthi konke kuvimbela futhi uhlale edeskini. Lapho imisebenzi isatshalaliswa, i- "sloth" cishe iyancipha ngaphansi kwetafula, ukuze kuphela ingayiboni. Kuhlala nje ukuthi ucabange ukuthi bavelaphi: mhlawumbe iziphathimandla eziphezulu zithatha izihlobo zabo, babengumuntu ongenalithemba ongenalithemba, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi badumale empilweni noma emsebenzini wezingxabano, noma ngaphambi kokuba ube yisisulu sezingxabano ezihlulekile.

Iqhinga lakho. Khombisa ukwethembeka futhi uthi ngeke usalokhu umboza ukungabikho kwakhe, ukuphuza futhi usebenze. Futhi manje makabe nguye obangela izenzo zakhe futhi abe nesibopho kubo. Uma unomuntu oyisimiso, mthole i-dossier, lapho elungisa khona amaphutha akhe kanye nokulibaziseka, khona-ke uye kumphathi ngencazelo eningiliziwe. Lokhu akuwona umsebenzi olula, ngakho cabanga ukuthi unesineke ngokwanele nokuzethemba.

"Akunakwenzeka"
Unobhala ehhovisi ubeka iphepha lephrinta kwelinye ikhabhinethi, amafolda kwelinye ikamelo, iziqeshana zibekwe eceleni kwethathu. Namuhla usuku lwakhe lokuqala lokuphumula, futhi akekho ongathola lutho. Ukusebenza emnyangweni ukhubazekile, wonke umuntu ukhululekile efuna amashalofu namabhokisi ephepha, amapensela, egijima nxazonke. Mbize ekhaya, futhi kuvele ukuthi ngisho nasebusuku bokugcina, uguqule yonke into, ngenxa yokuhleleka. Futhi konke ngoba wonke umuntu uyaqonda, futhi wambiza, ukuthi udinga konke futhi ungumuntu obalulekile.

Amaqhinga akho. Akukho lutho olutholakala ngokumhlambalaza ngalokhu, ngaphandle kokuhlaselwa nokuhlambalaza. Mhlawumbe, uzizwa engathandwa ngabanye futhi enesizungu kakhulu. Zama ukusebenzisa leli qhinga - umdumise ngomsebenzi omuhle, futhi ungitshele ukuthi kungaba kuhle uma ebiza futhi etshela konke.

"Izinkinga ezingu-33"
Ngenkathi yakhe kwenzeka njalo, khona-ke inja ye-bungalow engenamakhaya, khona-ke inja idle ubuthi obuningi, khona-ke indodakazi ayizange ibhale iphepha lokuhlola. Yingakho enza umsebenzi ompofu, yonke imicabango ihlala engadini, izinja nezingane. Ngemuva kwayo, konke kudinga ukuqedwa, futhi kuluhlukumeza ukumhlambalaza, njengokungathi ezinkingeni zakhe umuntu akafanele abekwe icala. Abasebenzi bayethusa futhi baphazamise ukucasula kwabo komunye nomunye.

Iqhinga lakho. Uma osebenza naye enenkinga nomyeni wakhe noma izingane, msize ngendlela enobungane, umlethe ngemoto, umbole imali. Kodwa ungalokothi umsebenzele. Akekho ongakwazi ukuthwala umthwalo ophindwe kabili. Ngenxa yalokho izibopho zakho eziqondile zihlupheka, futhi akunjalo, kodwa uzobangela ukunganaki kweziphathimandla.

"Ukukhathazeka okukhathazayo"
Uxoxa ngeseluleko esisha emisebenzini yebhizinisi lakho. Uxwayisa ngazo zonke izinkathazo zesikhathi esizayo, ubheke zonke izinkinga, ubona impande yenkinga, futhi izibikezelo zakhe zigcwaliseka. Ukubikezela okuhle okuvela kuye ngeke ulinde. Uyesaba ukuthi angabhekana nesimo esinikezwe, unenkinga yokuzihlonipha. Iziphetho zakhe ezimnyama zifaka emphefumulweni wabalingani bakhe ukukhathazeka nokungaqiniseki. Uqala ukucabanga ukuthi ngeke uthole lutho futhi wenqaba ukuhlinzeka ngenzuzo.

Iqhinga lakho. Mdumise, khumbula ukuthi wake waphuma kanjani esimweni esinzima kakhulu. Mthembise usizo lwakhe ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezithile, akukho lutho oludingekayo kuye, ngaphandle kokusekelwa kokuziphatha. Umuntu othile uzokusekela osebenza nabo, futhi ukukhathazeka kwakhe kuyothunjwa.

"Umphathi ozinikezele"
Nakuba engenawo amandla kulokhu, kubonakala sengathi yiyona eyinquma yonke into. Ukuzijabulisa ngokugcwele kungagcwaliseki yonke imisebenzi, uma kungenakwenzeka futhi kungavamile. Ithatha wonke amalungelo angafinyelela. Akekho olawulayo, futhi aqonde, njengoba izintambo zikahulumeni zisesandleni sakhe. Uchaza ububanzi bemisebenzi yamanje, uchaza uhlelo lomsebenzi futhi udinga umbiko. Abantu balolu hlobo badlulisa kahle isithombe esiphezulu salolu daba, bayathukuthela lapho bezwa imiyalo eqondile futhi bezenzele engozini yabo, ngakho-ke, lolu daba luyabanjwa. Ukuphathwa okunjalo okungaqondisi kahle kubhekene nabasebenzi, besaba ukuhlaselwa isithunzi futhi besaba ukukhuluma ngokumelene nalomuntu, futhi abaphathi abafuni ukubandakanya kule mpikiswano yangaphakathi. Inqubo yomsebenzi imiswe okwesikhashana.

Iqhinga lakho. Awukwazi ukukholisa lo mphathi ukuthi uphutha, ngoba unesidingo esingavamile. Kungcono ukutshela umholi wangempela ukuthi usemuva nje, engazi.

"I-Star"
Ungumsebenzi osebenzayo futhi ohlakaniphile, ecasulwa ngabantu abayisiphukuphuku kunabo. Mhlawumbe phakathi kwalezi "ziphukuphuku" wena, ngoba uhlala ebuka amehlo akhe lapho wenza okuthile okungalungile, futhi ekufundiseni indlela ongayenza ngayo. Akekho olalela iseluleko sakhe, uthukuthele, futhi inani lamaphutha likhula.

Iqhinga lakho. Siyabonga izifundo. Unganaki ukuhleka usulu nezwi elidabisayo. Kungcono kakhulu ukwenza lo msebenzi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi uthole okuningi. Futhi isilwane sakhe esinengekayo siyinkinga yakhe siqu.

Umsebenzi wendlu yesibili, futhi kuwo wonke umndeni ukhona, njengakuhlanganiswa kukhona:

Ubaba oqinile
Umphathi, ohambisa izikhalazo bese ehlukanisa imali, uletha ukuhleleka, wenza uhlelo lusebenze. Esikhundleni sezinduna kunokuba owesifazane. Ngamunye wabangaphansi komphefumulo ufuna ukuthola indumiso evela kumapapa. Ithembo elihle libhekwa njengelomgxeke ngokukhetha, elingalindelekile, elibi.

Umama omusa
Lokhu kungase kube iphini le "papa oqinile" noma ophakeme kakhulu. Mhlawumbe kulokhu okuthunyelwe nomuntu. Uhlanganisa ama-pranks amancane: angahambisani kahle nemibiko nemibiko, ukulibaziseka, ukufaka izinkathazo zomuntu wonke, ukuvikela "izingane" zakhe ezivela "ubaba oqinile", obangela umkhathi eqenjini. Izingane eziyingozi azilaleli "umama" wazo, izinto zihamba kabi kakhulu, bese kuthi "ubaba" oqinile angenelela ukugcina iqoqo lihlolwe. Wonke umuntu uyathukuthela ngokuthi "Umama", ukuthi akazange asindise ekubambeni, futhi akazange ahlangabezane nomsebenzi wakhe. Futhi kulokhu uhlushwa kabi.

Udade omdala
Unikeza iseluleko sendlela yokuphatha umyeni wakhe, indlela yokuphatha isisu senkathi, indlela yokukhulisa ingane. Ukwenza ikhofi noma itiye. Wena ngobumnene nangokuthula uphikisana lapho uhamba ngamaholidi kanye namahhovisi ehhovisi uhlanganyela endaweni ehlala kuyo, kodwa ngaso sonke isikhathi uhlale ndawonye ngokumelene "nopapa oqinile".

Umfowenu omncane
Osebenza naye osemncane ugcwele imibono yobuwula, ngokubheka "uMama". Le mibono ingaletha inzuzo yangempela, engayenza uhlelo olusungulwe. "Umama" uqala ukufundisa futhi uthi akaqondi ukubunzima kwemisebenzi, anquma ukuyihlosa. Uyakhuthazwa "ngubaba oqinile" futhi akaqondi ukuthi kungani imibono yabantu abasha ingasetshenziswa.

Ingane emangalisayo
Umsebenzi wakho, ophumelelayo. Usiza wonke umuntu, eze ukuhlangabeza, angazi umona, kufanele samukele usizo lwakhe, umqede umona wakhe futhi amomotheka. Akukho lutho lokukhononda ngalo

Sifunde indlela yokufeza ukuqonda kokubili kanye nomoya onobungane kunoma yiliphi iqembu. Ukulandela lawa macebiso, ungafunda ukuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo eqenjini, ukuze kamuva ungadingeki ukuthola ubuhlobo, kodwa usebenze kuphela.