Abesilisa abayisishiyagalolunye kwabayishumi bazodweba isithombe somude, omncane, omzimba (umbala wezinwele namahlo ahlukahlukene) wamadoda, ngesikhumba esindayo se-movie esiphezulu.
Iyini isizathu sokuhlala njalo? Futhi amantombazane afana namadoda amade? Okwokuqala, phakathi kwabesifazane, kusukela ekubuseni okuvamile kwezilwane zezilwane kanye nezinye izilwane ezihlaselwa yizinyamazane ezingenasisindo, iziyalezo zokusetshenziswa ziye zagcinwa, okuthi: omkhulu wesilisa, ungcono kakhulu. Ngamanye amazwi, abesifazane bafuna intuitively labo madoda ababhekwa njengabafanelekile kakhulu ukuba basinde ezweni lethu eliyinkimbinkimbi. Ngakho, amantombazane avela ezikhathini zasendulo afana namadoda amakhulu. Futhi lokhu kungokwemvelo. Kusukela kumuntu ophakeme usakaze uketshezi kwamandla nokuzethemba. Uma ubheka umuntu onjalo kusukela phansi, emngcwaba ehlombe noma esifubeni, lona wesifazane uthola ithuba lokuphumuza, uzizwe avikelwe ("njengodonga lwamatshe" - inkulumo endala, ehlonishwayo, kodwa ukuthi ungabonisa kanjani ukuthi yiziphi izinto). Futhi kusukela ezinjenjabulo ezinjalo kunzima kakhulu ukuzinqamula.
Okwesibili, ngokwezifundo zamuva, ukukhula komuntu kuyanda njalo ngonyaka. Eminyakeni engamashumi amahlanu edlule, ukwanda okuvamile kwamadoda kwande ngamasentimitha angu-8. Futhi ngaphezu kweminyaka engamashumi amahlanu ezayo, kulindeleke ukuba ikhule ngamanye amasentimitha amahlanu. Uma ubheka umhlaba kusukela ekubukeni kokuziphendukela kwemvelo, ukukhula okuphezulu kungabonakala njengombonakaliso wenqubekela phambili, ngakho-ke amadoda amade maduze azoba njalo. Noma yisiphi isazi sengqondo sokuqala ema-akhawunti amabili sizokuchazela isifiso esivamile nesingazi lutho sobulili obuhle ukuze uthole inzalo emadodeni angenakuqondakala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukukhula okuphezulu kwabaningi besifazane kungenye yezinto ezisemqoka (ezifundwayo, ezidingekayo) zokuziphatha ngokobulili emadodeni. Ngakho-ke, akumangalisi ukuthi amantombazane afana namadoda amakhulu. Bakholelwa ukuthi umfana omude kufanele abe ne-penis efanele.
Okwesithathu, kukhona inqwaba yezinto ezingamnandi kakhulu, ezicasula amadoda futhi zikhonza njengendawo yokuzalisa abahlekazi bezintombi. Ama-forum we-intanethi agcwele futhi aqhuma ngokucabanga: "Ngiyathanda izicathulo ngezithende" noma "umuntu omude nomncane omncane futhi wonke umuntu uyangimona."
Futhi isayensi ithi ngani ngalokhu?
Ososayensi basePoland naseBrithani benza izifundo eziningi ezihlangene, okwembise iphethini elithakazelisayo. Kuvela ukuthi amadoda amade kakhulu amathuba okushada futhi anezingane eziningi kakhulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abesifazane bakhangwa kakhulu ekukhuleni okuphezulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi amadoda amade azimisele kakhulu futhi ayamangalisa - laba cwaningi abazange bacacise. Kutholakale kuphela ukuthi izinkomba ezinkulu zabantu azihambisani nesisekelo. Isibonelo, kusungulwe ukuthi izingane ezingenazo izingane zingama-3 kuya ku-3,5 amasentimitha aphansi (izibalo ezilinganiselwe zinikezwa) kulabo abanezingane okungenani oyedwa, futhi amadoda ashadile - 2.5 amentimitha aphakeme kunabachelors.
Iqiniso elihle: izifundo ezinjalo zaqala ukukwenziwa lapho kubonakala ukuthi ememezelweni yomshado, amadoda abonisa ukukhula kwabo kuphela uma edlula isilinganiso.
Ibuye isungulwe (futhi iqinisekiswe yizifundo ezizimele zososayensi baseSweden) ukuthi emadodeni angaphezu kwesilinganiso sokukhula, isimo senhlalakahle kanye nemali engenayo iphakeme kunelabo abangaphansi komhlaba. Amadoda aphakama ukuphakama kwemfundo ephakeme ka-194 cm wathola izikhathi ezingu-2-3 kaningi kunelabo abaphakama abangazange bafinyelele ku-165 cm. Amantombazane abathandi abantu abade kuphela, kodwa futhi abahlakaniphile.
Nasi esinye isizathu esenza abesifazane abaningi ukhethe umlingani wezocansi kuhlobene ngokuqondile nokukhula kwawo. Akuyona indaba ye-aesthetics, kodwa i-pragmatism engavamile: ukukhula okuphakeme - imfundo enhle kakhulu - ukusimama kwezezimali kwezingane ezizayo.
Ngakho-ke kuvela: amadoda asekhulile asakhulayo abonakala njengabesifazane abangafaneleki ukunakwa. Futhi amadoda amakhulu, kunalokho, njengabesifazane.