Ungayithandani kanjani indoda ephethe isikhundla sobuholi? Futhi uma ehlakaniphile, enhle futhi ephephile? Yingakho abathandi abaqashi babesifazane babo beba njalo nsuku zonke. Noma kunjalo, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazi ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga nezinkinga ezingagcina ngisho noveli emfushane kakhulu.
Abesifazane bavame ukubona izinto ezinhle kuphela. Ngothando nomphathi wakhe, abesifazane bahlale bebonwa izibonelo zobungane obujabulisayo obuphela ngomshado. Kodwa-ke, iqiniso lisekhona ngempela.
Ngokuvame ukwedlula, inombano onomqashi kunezinketho ezimbili zokuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi. Okokukhetha okuvame kakhulu: usanda kufika emsebenzini omusha futhi umphathi wakho unesithakazelo kuwe. Okukhethwa kwesibili: ususebenze isikhathi eside enkampanini, noma kunjalo, emhlanganweni ongasemthethweni noma ongakahleleki, ngokungazelelwe wacabanga ukuthi umphathi ubheka ngendlela ekhethekile. Ngokuvamile lokhu kubonakala kube yiqiniso, ukuxhuma nabanye osebenza nabo kusiza ukwandisa inzalo. Futhi-ke, lona wesifazane ngokwakhe akaqapheli ukuthi ugijime kanjani ukusebenza. Amaviki eviki asisekho ukuletha ukwaneliseka okwangaphambili. Ikhodi yokugqoka kanye nezembatho zehhovisi ziba ngokukhululekile kakhulu, futhi uma ubona umholi, uqala ukuhlazeka.
Akukwenzeka ngaphandle komlilo. Ukukhanga okufanayo kuyabonakala kubo bobabili besilisa nabesifazane, ngakho-ke kuyisiphukuphuku ukukholelwa ukuthi umphathi awuqapheli ukuthi uyiphatha kanjani. Kulezi zimo, abesifazane banamathuba amaningi okubonisa intshisekelo yabo ekwandeni amandla okusebenza. Manje uyavuma ukuhlala isikhathi eside emsebenzini noma afinyelele kusenesikhathi, uma nje u-boss kuphela enakekelwa.
Njengomthetho, kulokhu owesifazane akayimi futhi ahlanganyela nomngane wakhe noma osebenza naye emsebenzini. Izibuko zamakhosikazi ze-Pink zihlala kahle kakhulu. Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi u-boss uyona engcono kakhulu ukuthi le noveli izoba yinto yangempela noma ukuthi osebenza nabo bayakunaka.
Kubalulekile ukuxwayisa bonke abesifazane - ukuthandana nomphathi kungaba yingozi. Ingozi kokubili idumela nomsebenzi. Ngeshwa, izibalo zibonisa ukuthi abaphathi nomphathi abapheli nganoma yini enhle, ezimweni eziningi.
Imiphumela yokucindezeleka ngokwengqondo yokusebenza:
- Ingozi yokuthola ngothando lwakho yilabo abaphathi abaphezulu. Umphathi wakho angase ajezise ukulahlekelwa umklomelo noma ukudluliselwa komunye umnyango, okuyinto engathandeki kakhulu. Ezingavamile, ikakhulukazi amacala asindayo, ngoba i-boss noveli enomuntu ongaphansi angakwazi ngisho nokushisa.
- Njengomthetho, ukuthanda umuntu ophumelelayo kulula kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, lapho uhamba khona uzoqiniseka ukuthi kuzoba nabathandi abathandanayo emakhanda amantombazane afuna ubuhlobo. Uma omunye wabo ezwa ngesimo sakho sengqondo kumphathi, angeke akhiphe kuphela umsebenzi wakho, kodwa futhi impilo yakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusukela kumahemuhemu nokuhleba, awukwazi ukukhipha.
- Uma kwenzeka ukuthi isihawu sakho sithandana, khona-ke ozakwabo bazohleba. Futhi uma uchitha isikhathi esiningi uchitha ndawonye, izinkinga eziningi ozothola nazo ngobuhlobo bakho. Amahemuhemu, ukuhleba kuyoba yingxenye ebalulekile ebuhlotsheni bakho, ngakho-ke, kuyoba nesizathu esiningi sokuxabana. Uma uxabana noma uxabana, ozakwabo bazoqaphela lokhu futhi bazozibona bebangelwa imbangela yokuphikisana kwakho.
- Akaboni ukuthi uyintombi yakhe. Ngokuvamile amadoda aphethe isikhundla esiphakeme azi ukuthi angaziphatha kanjani ngokuhlukile ekhaya. Uma umsebenzi ugqoka ikhofi, khona-ke ekhaya uzomnakekela ngokuphelele. Lokhu kuyindlela evamile, lapho umphathi engeke akwazi ukukhipha isisindo somphathi omkhulu ekhaya futhi uyala umlawuli. Njengomthetho, ngisho noma ngabe intombazane yayiyisiqalo sobuhlobo, yena ngokwakhe uyakhala futhi wakhala. Ukuzizwa njalo endaweni yesibili akunakwenzeka.
- Okukhethwa kukho, uma unquma ukusebenzisa umphathi ukuze ufeze imigomo yakho yomsebenzi. Lapha, abesifazane ngokwabo basebenzisa ubuhle babo futhi basebenzise zonke izindlela ezikhona zokukhohlisa. Kumele ngithi, kakhulu, ngempumelelo kakhulu. Uma ubude bephupho lakho kuwufanelekile, khona-ke yenza ukuzikhethela wena: senga umphathi noma ufeze konke. Kodwa-ke, kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ungathumela isikhundla esiphakeme futhi udinga omunye umuntu osebenza naye.
- Uma ubuhlobo bakho buqalile, i-aspustya isikhashana isiphelile, kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukusebenza ndawonye futhi. Abanye benu kuzodingeka bashiye umsebenzi wakho, akunakwenzeka ukuthi lokhu kuzoba ngumphathi wakho, ongayikushiya indawo evulekile. Futhi uma uphakamisa ukuthi ufuna ukuthi mstizza ahluleke ubuhlobo ...
Uma, noma kunjalo, isihawu sakho sithandana, futhi uqinisekile ukuthi usulungele ukuya ekugcineni, bese ufihla ekuqaleni ubuhlobo bakho. Zama ukuxuba umsebenzi wakho nothando lwakho. Uma ulwazi lwakho lomsebenzi alukhulu ngokwanele, khona-ke ungakwazi ukusesha ngokufana nomsebenzi omusha. Njengokuzikhethela, cela ukudluliselwa komunye umnyango.
Tshela ozakwabo enkulumweni kuphela esiteji uma unquma ukuhlala ndawonye. I-Ridkimzhenshchinam inhlanhla, emsebenzini wonke osebenza nabo bangabantu abanhle, futhi umkhathi unobungane futhi umndeni wangempela. Kuhlangene okunjalo baba abangane, futhi inoveli yakho iyokwamukelwa nge-bang. Amaqembu ahlangene amaqembu, izenzakalo zehhovisi kanye nezinsuku zokusebenza zihlelwe yiholide.
Okukhipha jikelele: inkaba nomqondisi kufanele iqalwe kuphela uma kwenzeka ukuzwelana futhi kuze kube sekugcineni ukuyifihla kubalingani.