Yini enayo engingenayo? Kungani enakho, kodwa angikwenzi? Lona mbuzo ovusa umuzwa ongenangqondo kakhulu futhi ononya, okuyinto ngezinye izikhathi kuletha izinkinga eziningi kulabo abangazange bahlaselwe imicabango efanayo. Izikhathi ezivusa umona wokuncintisana, ubukhulu, kodwa eziningi zazo zihlobene nokubukeka (sikhuluma ngobuhle kanye nesibalo) kanye nobulili.
Ubuhle
Amadoda nabesifazane bahle uma bethanda ubulili obuhlukile. Ukubona owesifazane / indoda njengomlingani wakho ongakhona, asilokothi senze iphutha ngokuthi iyiphi ingxenye yesigamu esidingekayo.
Uma sikhuluma ngezindinganiso zobuhle emzimbeni emazweni ahlukahlukene, umlando ubonisa ukuthi amasampula, amazinga ubuhle ashintsha kakhulu emazweni ahlukene nakwamasiko. Ngaphandle kokuthandwa okusobala kubantu abangenayo i-asymmetry ngokomzimba yomzimba, futhi futhi "isilinganiso" ngokubukeka, kukhona nezinye, ezishintsha izintandokazi zamasiko.
EGrisi naseRoma lasendulo, izindinganiso zobuhle besilisa nabesifazane zazingabonakali kahle kusukela emazingeni ekhulu lokuqala leminyaka, ubudala bokuthuthukiswa kwenhlangano ye-Olympic. Phakathi neMinyaka Ephakathi, kungenzeka ukuthi ukhulume ngemfashini yokugcwalisa (isibonelo, emidwebo kaRubens), nakuzo zokuzala (izithombe zama-Dutch master, isibonelo, abesifazanekazi abakhulelwe).
Phakathi nekhulu lama-20, izindinganiso zobuhle zomzimba zazibukeka ziphilile futhi zilingana. Njengamanje, "imfashini ephakeme" iyaqhubeka nokukhangisa izinga elihle lobuhle besifazane, njengomuntu omncane kakhulu, ophezulu kakhulu.
Ngaphandle kobuhle obungokwenyama, umqondo wokuziphatha okuhle, ngokomoya wenziwa emphakathini wesintu. Lesi sigaba sisebenza kubantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bangakanani ubudala nobulili, futhi sinquma isimo sengqondo ngokuqondene nokuhlakanipha, ukwethembeka, ukuhlonipha, ukuhlonipha umuntu.
Isibalo esikhulu
Sekuyisikhathi eside sekucatshangwa ukuthi ukuba khona komuntu omuhle akuyona nje into, kepha kuyadingeka. Izazi-zefilosofi eziningi zakudala zazibheka lo mbono. Ngaleso sikhathi, ukuba khona kwesithombe esihle kwakungeyona isifiso ngabanye somuntu. Isithombe esihle sasidingeka nje.
Ngokuqondene nezwe lanamuhla, singasho ukuthi manje kukhona indlela ethile yomzimba omuhle, kodwa isibalo asisekho indima enjalo ngesikhathi sika-Aristotle. Kodwa isithakazelo esithombeni esihle asikaze sinyamalale. Lokhu kungachazwa kanjani?
USigmund Freud uthe umuntu wonke impilo yakhe isebenza ngezinto ezimbili: ukudla nokuzaneliseka ngokocansi. Isibalo sithinta kanjani lokhu? Yebo oqondile kakhulu! Ukuze ube nesibalo esihle, kubalulekile ukuba udle ngokufanele nangendlela efanele, kubalulekile ukuthi udle, isibonelo, inani elanele lezithelo, imifino kanye neminye imikhiqizo, ngoba ukudla okuhlukahlukene kuphela kunganikeza umzimba inani elidingekayo lezakhi ezihlukahlukene, isibonelo, amavithamini.
Uma ukuntuleka kwanoma yiziphi izinto ezingenhla kusetshenziselwa ukusebenzisa izithasiselo ezihlukahlukene zokudla. Ukulinganisela kunazo zonke ngokutholakala kwezinsimbi ezihlukahlukene kuyisondlo sezemidlalo. Kucatshangelwa ukuba khona kwazo zonke izinhlanganisela zamakhemikhali ezidingekayo ekuthuthukiseni okufanele. Qaphela ukuthi abagijimi bangaziqhayisa ngesibalo sabo, futhi lokhu akufanele nje kuphela ukuthi baqeqeshwa njalo.
Ukuphila ngokocansi
Ngokuphathelene nokuthokozisa ngokocansi, kuwubuwula ukuphika isidingo somuntu omuhle wokufeza lo mgomo. Inendima ebalulekile ekuhloleni ubulili bomuntu ongajwayelekile adlalwa ngumuntu. Isibonelo, intombazane esemncane uma ihlola idatha yomzimba (isibalo) idonsela ukuba khona kwendoda yesithathu yamadoda, ebizwa ngamadoda asezinhlanzi ezinamahlombe amancane. Qaphela isibalo samamodeli amaningi, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo ukubonakaliswa okukhulu ngokweqile kokukhathazeka kwalesi sibalo. Kufanele futhi kugwenywe, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle.
Ungakwazi ukubona izidumbu ezinhle ku-TV. Ikakhulukazi ekukhangiseni nase-cinema. Kunzima ukucabanga noma iyiphi i-movie yesenzo ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela kwe-protagonist ngesibalo esinqabile.
Njengomthetho, ukunakekela isibalo sakhe kubonakala kakhulu kumantombazane, njengamadoda, manje akulula ukuthola umuntu onomfanekiso omuhle. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi kuhle noma cha. Isibonelo, ngesikhathi se-Aristotle eshiwo ngenhla, kwakunzima ukuthola indoda engenandaba nokubukeka kwayo, isibalo nezinye izinto. Ixhunywe kuqala ukuthi isiko saleso sikhathi sasiyinto yobungqingili. Imishado emkhatsini wesilisa nowesifazane yayimvelo futhi yayidinga kuphela ukuqhubeka komndeni. Izikhathi ziyashintsha! Namuhla, ubungqingili bulahlekelwe ukubaluleka kwesikhathi sika-Aristotle futhi isidingo sokuba nomuntu omuhle emphakathini (phakathi kwamadoda) uye wehla ngokuphawulekayo. Ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane bendabuko, futhi lapha kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi owesifazane endodeni akakhanga nje ngomuntu. Lokhu kunciphisa isidingo somzimba omuhle.
Njengamanje, kunamasu amaningi okuthuthukisa umzimba, kunamathani amasu avumela ukuthi ulungise isimo. Lezi zindlela ziyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, njll. "ingxube" yezinqubo ezihlukahlukene, umzimba nokudla.
Kuvame ukwanele ukulungisa isibalo ukunciphisa isisindo. Ezimweni ezingu-90%, amafutha asendaweni asendaweni kanye nesisindo esindayo kuhlotshaniswa nokuphulwa komzimba wamakhemikhalidididrate. Kubonakala ukuthi i-hormone ekhishwe yi-pancreas - i-insulin idlala indima ebalulekile ekufakweni kwe-fat subcutaneous. Ukudla kuholela ekukhululweni okukhulu kwe-insulin ngenxa yokudla okusheshayo kwe-glucose egazini. I-insulini ikhuthaza ukuhlanganiswa kwamafutha futhi ivimbela ukuhlunga kwabo emaqenjini amafutha. Ngakho-ke ezimweni eziningi akunakwenzeka ukulahlekelwa isisindo ngaphandle kokukhipha i-insulin block. Futhi uma kuphela izinga le-insulin liyehla, izinqubo zokuqhekeka kwamafutha nokukhululwa kwamanoni ama-acids avela kumaseli aqala. Isisindo esiningi ngempela siyinkinga enkulu, njengoba kungaba yinto edingekayo yezifo ezihlukahlukene. Futhi izinhlangothi ezilenga zibonakala sengathi azihle kakhulu.
Isenzakalo esivamile kakhulu ezikhathini zamuva, ukuthakazelisa okujwayelekile nabantu abanjalo bezemidlalo njengokwakha umzimba. Leli gama elikhuluma isiNgisi liyamukelwa kalula ngolimi lwesiRashiya, uma uzama ukulihumusha libe lwethu, khona-ke kuyozwakala njengokukwakha umzimba (isibalo). Okuhle kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni isibalo sithinteka ngokubhukuda, ngenxa yalesi sizathu, akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi kukhona amachibi okubhukuda. Manje kukhona zonke izimo ezidingekayo zokulahlekelwa isisindo kanye nezinye izinqubo eziholela ekuthuthukiseni isibalo, into eyinhloko ukuthi isifiso sokuthuthukisa lesi sibalo asinyamalale!
Njengoba ubona, konke kusezandleni zethu. Futhi angathuthukisa ngamunye, ngakho kungani umona, uma ungenza?