"M-yebo, yini engaboniswa ukuzimela kwesifazane? Yini ongayibhala kulesi sihloko mayelana nokuzimela kwabesifazane? Ake sizame ukunxusa ekucabangeni okuhlanganisayo "
Amafulegi aseMelika naseBrithani akhanya ngaphambi kokubuka kwengqondo, amaketanga nemigodi emilenzeni emnyama, abasebenza emakhazeni abomvu, ngoMashi 8 kanye nangesizathu esithile u-Angela Davis.
"I-Br-rr, izinhlangano ezidumazekile ngokucacile, ngaphezu kwalokho, ngemuva kokuthi igama elithi" owesifazane "ngokushesha ngokuhlangana limelela igama elithi" logic ". Futhi mayelana naye kakade konke, njll, kubhaliwe "Ngizilalela phansi kokuphefumula kwami, ngizibamba esihlalweni esinzima se-tram. Futhi-ke, mhlawumbe, ngokusho kwalesi sigameko esihlonishwa kakhulu sesifazane, ekuphenduleni ukukhononda kwami, owesifazane osekhulile ophethe iphakheji elikhulu elimibalabala, lapho into ekhonjiwe khona, iphendukele kimi, yathi ilandelayo:
"Nina ningabantu abasha, abazi lutho ngokuzimela kwabesifazane. Uzoba nomsila uphakamise futhi clubbing kuze kuhlwe ebusuku. Omunye u-Evon, ukulahla okunempilo kuzogibela, bayotshayela ngemoto, futhi ngisho nokugcina ngeke kusebenze nge-rag. Konke mayelana nokuzama ukuthola intukuthelo kumama noma ubaba, noma ukuthola i-swavo kumuntu ohluphekile. Futhi efonini uqobo lwama-dollar ayizinkulungwane, futhi inja inemali engaphezu kwabantu. Lapha esikhathini sethu, amantombazane ayengathobekile, asebenza kusukela esemncane, ukugqoka okuhlakaniphile ohlelweni oluvela komunye nomunye kuthatha, ukuze nje kube ngumthwalo kubazali. Ngasebenza emayini njengesisebenzi sesibani esivela eneminyaka eyishumi nesithupha ubudala, ngasebenza ehostele, owesifazane oshadile osevele ehlala. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngisho nasebusweni, behla, izimboni ezingaphezu kwezingu-2 zazingekho embi kunazo zonke. "
"Ngakho-ke, ngokombono wakho," ngabuza, ngokunciphisa kancane ukuzwakala komlomo, "ingabe ukuzimela kwabesifazane kubonakala kukhono lokuzikhokhela ngokwezimali?"
"Futhi-ke kanjani. Ukusebenza, hhayi okubi nakakhulu kunezilimi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nangaphezulu. Ukuze uthole okuningi, ukuthi izingane nomyeni kwakwanele. Ngokuzimela, akekho ozocela imali. Ukuziqhenya kufanele kube nakho, ukuziqhenya. "
"Ngomsebenzi engiyavumelana nawe ngezinga elithile" ngokungazelelwe owesifazane osemaqenjini akhe, anezinwele ezimfushane, ezichaziwe, wangena engxoxweni yokuzikhethela engxenyeni ye-cashmere, "kodwa mayelana nokuthi ungondla kanjani umyeni wezinambuzane, bese uchitha. Ngahlukanisa ngokuqondile ngoba lo muntu ongeyena kanye nendlu akazange ahlabe umunwe ngomunwe wami, futhi ngiyeke umsebenzi wami. Ngosuku lonke akazange ahlanganyele nomngane wakhe-onomlenze womine ezine, walala futhi wavuswa nge-remote control control ... "Owesifazane obomvu waphambanisa ubuso bakhe ngokuzonda.
"Futhi kuwe, kusho ukuthini ukuzimela kwabesifazane?" Ngangifaka ngokushesha, ngizama ukuvala ingxoxo kubantu abacebile, izidumbu, ama-parasites nabanye abesilisa abafana nabo.
"Ngicabanga ukuthi kusobala," waphendula i-blonde eyinkimbinkimbi ngesihluthulelo, "Mina, ngokwesibonelo, ngikhulisa indodakazi yami iminyaka eyishumi nambili ngedwa, mina ngokwami ngimnika yena nami. Ukuzimela komuntu owesifazane kufanele kuboniswe ukuze kwenziwe ngaphandle komuntu, lapho eba yinto engenamsebenzi, njenge-suitcase ngaphandle kwesibambo "
"Ngiyabona. Ngiyabonga kakhulu! "Ngaphetha ingxoxo futhi, ngifake kancane kubagibeli abadidekile, ngiphuma ngaphesheya ...
Ngicabanga ukuthi, "Mama, ucabanga?" Ngabuza, ukuxhomeka emnyango womnyango wekhishi, "ukuba owesifazane ozimele kusho ukuthandana nomuntu, ukuba namalungelo afanayo nendoda noma ikhono lokuphila ngaphandle komuntu nhlobo?"
"Yebo, konke okushiwo yikuchazwa okulula kwalo mqondo." Umama wakhala, emile esitofu, "Ukuze ube ngowesifazane akumele ube ngumuntu ophikisana nendoda hhayi umsizi, kufanele ube yedwa, hhayi omunye umuntu. Kuthiwani kulona wesifazane amalungelo alinganayo ngokuphelele nomuntu, emva kwakho konke uma ufuna amalungelo alinganayo athola nemisebenzi elinganayo - isibonelo, ukukhonza empini noma ukulwa. Indoda nowesifazane badalwa ngendlela ehlukile, akudingeki bazilingane ukuze babe khona ngokuvumelana. Ukuzimela, kokubili abesifazane nabesilisa, kuyinkululeko yokuzikhethela ukuze uphile njengoba uthanda. Inkululeko yokuzikhethela ukushintsha umhlaba ozungezile wena ngokwakho uma uthanda. Intando yakho, uNkulunkulu ayidala njengenkululeko njengomoya. Manje ngisize ukusetha itafula, noma kungekudala upapa uzofika. "