Uma inkinga isesibelethweni
Okokuqala, kuyadingeka njalo ukuqonda ubudlelwane bakho. Cabanga, mhlawumbe isigamu sakho sisho okuthile ebuhlotsheni bakho obuseduze? Uhlala wedwa kangaki? Ingabe uyazilandela? Noma mhlawumbe unesizotha futhi awukwazi ukukhululwa ngocansi? Mhlawumbe insizwa yakho ingathanda ukuhlukahluka, kodwa uvinjelwe kakhulu embhedeni?
Amantombazane amaningi ayosho ukuthi ngeke aphinde konke okwenzekayo kumafilimu amakhulu kubantu abadala. Kusobala ukuthi akekho onelungelo lokwenza konke okwenza kubonakale kalula, abesifazane abasha benza emafilimu anjalo. Futhi, njalo udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi lokhu kuyimvamisa nje, makungabi yinto engavamile, hhayi njengokuvame ukuboniswa kuthelevishini, kodwa namanje, ifilimu. Konke lo mdlalo, iningi labachwepheshe, abadwebi bezithombe, ama-cosmetologists nawo asebenza kulabadlali. Cishe wazi ukuthi ngokuvamile izidumbu nezibalo zabantu kulezi zithombe zibukeka ziphelele. Ngikholelwa ukuthi abadlali bezithombe zobulili ezingcolile banamaphutha amaningi, okuyinto abaqeqeshiwe ababhekana ngayo ngokugcwele nosizo lwezimonyo ezikhethekile. Futhi bangabantu bangempela, futhi bangaphumelela, ama-stretch marking.
Izakhamuzi eziningi zengqondo zithi ngocansi akukho lutho olungenamahloni, noma ngabe bobabili abalingani banezibikezelo zabo zomuntu siqu. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ithandwa yizo zombili. Cabanga ngokuziphatha kwakho, khuluma nabathandekayo bakho, mhlawumbe isizathu sokubuka amafilimu afanayo kubantu abadala, kukhona uhlobo oluthile lokuqina kwakho kobuhlobo nomlingani wakho. Futhi mhlawumbe, insizwa yakho iyamahloni ukukutshela ngemicabango yakhe efihlekile.
Zama ukumema umfana wakho ukuthi abuke ama-movie wecebo elinjalo ndawonye. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukukhulula kokubili, susa ukuqina okuphakathi kwakho, ukukunika isimo sengqondo esikhethekile sothando.
Kuthiwani uma lo mbhangqwana wenqaba ukwabelana ngama-movie?
Kwenzeka ukuthi ebuhlotsheni obuseduze unakho konke okuphelele, futhi uzothola ukuthi isoka lakho lithanda ukuthatha isikhathi sakhe sokuzilibazisa ngenkathi ubukela amafilimu afanayo. Ngokwemvelo, intombazane isaba kakhulu. Yini akwenzayo engalungile? Mhlawumbe isoka lakhe liyaphambuka? Mhlawumbe, konke akukuhle njengoba kubonakale, mhlawumbe amantombazane amthanda kakhulu kusuka kumafilimu afanayo kunalokho? Ngaphambi kokuba ungakapheli ukushaya ikhanda lakho ngokuqagela okungadingekile okungadingekile, kufanelekile ukukhuluma nendoda yakho. Kungani enza lokhu, mhlawumbe akathandi okuthile? Uma uqiniseka ukuthi impilo yakho esondelene iyaqhubeka ngokujwayelekile, cishe ngeke ikuphendule. Kungenzeka ukuthi uyabheka lezi zincwadi zama-movie ze-nepotomu ukuthi uyinkohlakalo noma amantombazane enkosikazi esikrinini, hhayi wena. Ngokuvamile amadoda angabuka amavidiyo angcolile ukuze ahlukanise ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ukuphila kwabo obuseduze nawe. Futhi skoreevsego, unamahloni okukutshela ngakho. Kuyinto ephazamisayo ukuthi uma ukubukela ividiyo enjalo kunomlingiswa ohlelekile, lokhu kungenzeka ukuthi sekuvele kube inkomba yokuthembela okuthile futhi uma kunjalo, kungcono ukuxhumana nomculi wezengqondo noma uchwepheshe wezocansi. Kunconywa ukusekela insizwa yakho futhi uvakashele isazi ndawonye.
Uma ungakakulungeli ukwamukela intshiseko enjalo yensizwa yakho
Ngokuvamile kusenzima amantombazane ukuthi aqonde ukuthi kungani isoka lakhe libuka izithombe ezingcolile. "Uma konke kuhambisane nokuphila kwethu, kungani ukwenza lokhu?", Ungasho. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi othandekayo wakho uyindoda. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyayithanda noma cha, uzohlale ebuka abanye besifazane, bahlole. Uzothanda amafilimu anjalo, ne-nepotomu, okungenzeka ukuthi angathanda ukushintsha, kodwa ngoba uhlala ekuqaleni komuntu. Futhi uzobheka abesifazane besifazane hhayi ngenxa yokuthi awuyithandi into ethile, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi, ngeshwa, noma ngenhlanhla, lokho kungokwemvelo. Ngokwemvelo, konke kusezinyathelo ezifanele. Akusikho ukuthi indoda yakho ayiphuthelwa i skirt eyodwa ne-flirts kuwo wonke umuntu.
Iqiniso lokuthi umfana wakho ngezinye izikhathi ubheka ama-movie angcolile, ngikholelwa, akukho okukhathazayo ngakho. Ngokuphambene nalokho, kungenza umehluko omkhulu ekuphileni kwakho. Futhi kungcono uma enza nawe, hhayi ngomunye umuntu.
Uma umfana eya e-vaticup club
Amanye amantombazane abhekisela emikhankaso enjalo, abanye abayithandi, kanti omunye uqobo uthenga amathikithi ekhatsini lakhe lenkampani ye-vystrigiz. Uma uphatha abesifazane abangenalutho ngalokhu, qala uzame ukuzola futhi ungadli imicimbi. Unani, uyakuthanda, futhi waya emgqeni wokuqhafaza ukuze aphinde aphumule futhi azizwe esesimweni somuntu. Yiqiniso, uma unezintaba ezinjalo ezingathandeki kakhulu, khuluma naye, uchaze ukuthi kungani uzwakala ubuhlungu ngalokhu. Futhi-ke, ungakhohlwa ukugcina ithrekhi yakho ngokwakho. Zizenzele wena nomthandekayo wakho ngezingubo ezintsha zokuziqhenya, yiba-inhliziyo, uthathe isinyathelo. Zizenzele kumdanso noma emgqeni-i-plastiku.Okuthandwa kakhulu namuhla kuyinto yokudansa, njengomdanso wesigamu. Lolu uhlobo olusha lomdanso olusha kakhulu, olufana kakhulu ne-strip-plastiki, luhilela ukuvivinya umzimba, ukunyakaza okubangelwa ubuchopho nemikhakha yempilo. Okokuqala, insizwa yakho iyojabula kakhulu ngokuzikhethela kwakho. Khona-ke ungakwazi ukumisa othandekayo wakho ngemidanso yakho, isibalo sakho nokuqeqeshwa kwezemidlalo. Kuqinisekisiwe ukuthi kuzoletha empilweni yakho ukuzwa okusha nokuvezwa.
Ngokuvamile, funda ukuzithanda wena nomzimba wakho. Bheka ukuncelisa, ukudlala ezemidlalo, ungadli ngokweqile. Ngisho noma unezingane, akekho oye wakhetha i-uvass ilungelo lokuhle nokulungiswa kahle. Uma ufuna indoda yakho ukuthi ingaboni abanye besifazane, qalisa wena futhi umphumela uzokumangaza. Kuhlale kudingeke ukhumbule ukuthi amadoda athande ngamehlo abo, ngisho nangemva kweminyaka eyishumi yomshado, ukupheka ukudla ekhishini, ungakhohlwa ngokubukeka kwakho futhi ukuzilungisa. Lalela insizwa yakho, futhi ungathathi izinkulumo zakhe kwabanye besifazane ngokuzonda.
Yiqiniso, insizwa yakho kufanele ibuye ikuqonde futhi iqagele ukuthi ungase ungakhathazeki ngokuziphatha kwakhe. Chaza ukuthi kungani, khuluma naye. Wozani ndawonye ukuze ufunde okufanayo, ufunde ukulalela ukuzwa komunye nomunye. Thola ulimi oluvamile, bheka ukuyekethisa, ukuze ungalimazi umngane ngezindawo ezibuhlungu nezinkinga.