Abazali bayazi ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kanjani ukubeka umntwana ukuba alale. Kodwa akukho lutho olusungulwayo aludingekile, ngoba isikhathi saziwa "amaphilisi okulala" emhlabeni wonke kubantwana nabantu abadala - i-lullabies. Okhokho bethu babekholelwa ukuthi ukukhulelwa kwengane kuvela ezinhlalweni zezinhlanzi, futhi wanikeza lezi zingoma incazelo engacacile, zigcina izithombe ezingavamile zobuqaba zikaDrema, Buki, Sna, Ugomon ... Ezikhathini zangaphambili, i-lullabies yenza indima yendiza, ingoma yabuza umama unike ingane amandla okulala nokukhula ukuze icebile futhi iphile kahle esikhathini esizayo. I-lullaby ngayinye yayingenxa yengane yakhe - yenziwa ngumama wayo ngemva kokuzalwa. Khona-ke le ngoma yahlala isilwane sayo yonke impilo yakhe. I-Lullaby futhi nanamuhla ingukuqala komculo wengane.
Ngendlela, ama-lullabies angaphezu kuka-500 abhaliwe ayaziwa, izinkondlo ezabhalwa yizimbongi zaseRussia ezivelele - uZhukovsky, Lermontov, Tsvetaeva nabanye. Ungabali ama-lullabies amnandi abhalwe yizintandane ezidumile zezingane, amabhodi zanamuhla kanye nezinkanyezi ze-pop. Kuvela ukuthi lolu hlobo luyadingeka futhi namuhla lusasikhangisa.
Amanothi esikhundleni samathebulethi
Kungasho ngokuphepha ukuthi i-lullabies iyithuluzi lokwelapha jikelele. Ukuqala ukuhlabelela i-lullabies imbuzi idinga ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Kubonakala ukuthi ingane esibelethweni ibona umculo, inkulumo, izwi lokukhuluma. Usana olusanda kuzalwa, ukulalela izingoma umama wakhe azihlabelela kuye, uyaziqaphela futhi ahlaziye phansi, kunalokho uqala ukuphendula ngezwi likamama wakhe bese enza imisindo yezwi ngokuphendula.
Ukuhlabelela i-lullabies kusiza ukuthuthukisa isimo sengqondo sowesifazane ngokwayo - izimpawu zakhe zokunciphisa i-toxicosis, ukukhulelwa kulula. Ukucula kunciphisa isigqi senhliziyo, ingcindezi ibuyela esimweni esijwayelekile, ingane ithola oksijini ngaphezulu. Kukhona ukuvumelanisa kwenhliziyo yakhe, futhi kanye nokushintshashintsha kwe-amniotic fluid ingane ithola ukusikhipha ithenda ithole layo. Esikhathini esizayo, omama bathuthukisa ukukhwabanisa, kukhona ukusungulwa kobudlelwane obuseduze nezingane; Izingane ezisanda kusheshe zithola amandla ngokushesha.
Ochwepheshe baphakamisa ngokucacile ukucula ama-lullabies ezinganeni ezine-encephalopathy (ukukhubazeka komzimba noma izakhi zobuchopho), izimo zokuphefumula, i-bradycardia (ukwehla kwenhliziyo), isifo somzimba se-intestinal motility disorder. Kuye kwaboniswa ukuthi ithuluzi elihle lokuzivikela ekubhekaneni nezinkinga zezimoto nezokukhulumisana (ukuqhuma, ama-tics, ukuphazamiseka kokubambisana, izinyathelo zokuhamba ngezimoto) yisigqi esiyingqayizivele se-lullabies. Bangakwazi ukukhonza njengendlela yokuvimbela emangalisayo. Ukuhlabelela i-lullaby kufanele kusize ingane ukuba ilale, ngakho izingoma ezihlabelayo ziyingqayizivele, zivame ukuziqhenya. Kulesi simo, ingane ayikhathaleli ukuthi unomama womculo onjani, uma izwi lakhe lihle ngokwanele, usabonisa kuphela ukusabela kwesiginci sezwi, ukwenza kahle, umsindo ozwakalayo. Ukuhlabelela i-lullaby kungcono ngokumomotheka, khona-ke izwi lihle kakhulu!
Isinyathelo ekuthuthukiseni inkulumo
Ngokucula, ingane ithola izifundo zokuqala zokukhulumisana. Ephendula umama wakhe, uqala "ukuhamba", okusho ukuthi i-larynx yakhe iqala - ithuluzi eliyinhloko lomsebenzi wethu wokukhuluma. I-lullaby yenzelwe izakhiwo zememori zentsana ezingakwazi ukukhumbula ngokuqinile ulwazi lomlomo. Ukusebenzisa ukuhlolisisa okuphindaphindiwe kwengoma, ingane iqala ukwenza umehluko phakathi kwamazwi ngabanye, okumsiza ukuba aqonde futhi aqonde kahle inkulumo, ukuze azenzele ukuzwakala kokuqukethwe kwakhe. I-Lullabies iqukethe cishe amabizo nezenzo, kuphela ukuthi umntwana uyakwazi ukubona izinto: izinto nokuhamba kwazo kubonakala kumazwi. Imfanelo ye-lullabies iphindaphinda ngokuphindaphindiwe, lapho inhlanganisela yomsindo, ama-syllable, amagama ahlukene namaketanga abo avela - ngenxa yalokhu, ukuthuthukiswa kwesichazamazwi somntwana kusetshenzisiwe. Kodwa-ke, ama-lullabies ayadingeki kuphela ezinganeni, kodwa nakwabantwana abadala. Banikeza izisekelo zesakhiwo segrama yokukhuluma, basiza ukwakha amagama amancane (isibonelo, "cat", "kitten", "kotok", "cat", "kotya").
Esikhathini esidala sasekuseni, ukuthuthukiswa kwesichazamazwi kuba umsebenzi obalulekile. Iqiniso eliyaziwa kakhulu ukuthi ingane yalesi sizukulwane isakalungi futhi iqondise ngokucacile izitho zamapayipi ezithuthuthu. Izingane eziningi zihlukile ngokusheshisa ngokweqile ekukhulumeni, ukubiza amagama okungaqondile, "ukugwinya" ukuphela, noma indlela elula kakhulu yokubiza amagama. I-Lullaby i-laconic necacile ngokwakheka, zijulile futhi ziyingqikithi, ngakho-ke, ziphindaphinda zona, izingane zizinqobe lezi ziphutha zenkulumo. Ithonya eliyinhloko lokucula ama-lullabies ezinganeni ukuthuthukiswa kokuguquguquka nokuhamba kwemishini yezingxoxo zezingane, ukwakheka kwegama elifanele lemisindo, ukuqonda ingcebo yokuzikhethela kanye nenani elihlukile lokukhuluma.
Ithonya lokucula ama-lullabies kubalulekile ekuthuthukiseni ukucabanga kwengane. Imvelo yomuntu omncane, impilo yakhe engokwenyama, izinga lokuzinza kwengqondo kuxhomeke kulokho izingoma umama azihlabelele kuye (nokuthi ngabe uke wahlabelela). E-lullabies, inani eliphakeme kakhulu lendawo yengane lihlale liqinisekisiwe. Ukuthuthukiswa okuphelele kwengane kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ufunwa futhi uyathandwa, unina nguye ongcono kakhulu, futhi ikhaya lakhe lifudumele futhi lihle kakhulu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngo-lullabies umama wakhela izwe elizungezile elizungezile ingane, njengokungathi uhlukanisa zonke izingozi zezwe langaphandle nokufudumala nokuphepha kwendlu. Ubumnene, uthando, ukuziphatha okuhle, ukwethembeka, ukuthula kuthwala lezi zingoma, kunciphisa ukukhathazeka okungadingekile, injabulo. Izingane ezazingazi izillabies zikhula ziba nobugovu futhi zimbi, zivame ukubhekana nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene zengqondo.
Shintsha izinguquko zokuqaphela
Ochwepheshe bathi injwayelo eyingozi kakhulu yokufundisa izingane ukuba zibe njalo umsindo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-TV esebenzayo, ikhompyutha ivuliwe, inkulumo enhle nje. Isitatimende sokuthi ingane "ngokuphelele" ilele phansi ekuzweni umsindo womculo we-rock noma "pop", ingxenye yayo ingahambisana nokuyiqiniso. Izingane kuphela azilele - ziwela esimweni sokuguquka, ukukhuluma ngolimi lolusha, "ukunciphisa". Iqiniso liwukuthi ngezwi elikhulu kakhulu kukhona ukuvimbela okubonakalayo komsebenzi we-cortex yocerebral nokuvinjelwa kwezikhungo ezingaphansi kwe-subcortical. Lokhu kufana nesimo sokudakwa.
Into elula futhi engenabungozi engayifinyelelwa ngokufaka i-lullabies ngesethi se-TV ukuthuthukisa ukunakekelwa kwe-disorder syndrome (ADD) enganeni. Njengamanje, ngokwezazi zengqondo, le-psychopathology ithinta ama-15-20% wezingane zanamuhla. Kuboniswa ukungakwazi ukugxila. Izingane eziphethwe yi-ADD zingenalo ithuba lokufunda ngokujwayelekile, zibhekene nezinkinga ebuhlotsheni babo nabanye. Eqinisweni, ubani ofuna ukuba umngane nengane engakwazi ukuzola ngokuzenzekelayo ithuba lakhe emdlalweni olahla amathoyizi kwabanye, ephule, "egaxekile" kuzo zonke izinhlobo zemithetho yemidlalo? Abantu abadala abane-ADD bavame ukubhekana nokuphazamiseka komuntu-ukucindezeleka, ukuthambekela kobudlova, ukuphuza utshwala nokusetshenziswa kwezidakamizwa.
Ukunakekelwa Kokulahlekelwa Isifo, ngenhlanhla, kungenakulungiswa ukulungiswa. Kodwa i-alexithymia eyinhloko - ukungakwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo ngamazwi - ayinikezi indlela yokulungisa. Kunesizathu sokukholelwa ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzwelo komuntu kuxhomeke ngokuqondile emfanekisweni wobuhlobo "bomama nomntwana" ebuntwaneni. Ukungabi nokufudumala nokuxhumana phakathi komama nengane kuphenduka izinkinga eziningi ngesikhathi. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abantu abangu-5-23% bomhlaba banamanye ama-alexithymic, futhi amadoda ahlupheka kaningi izikhathi ezingu-8 kunabesifazane. Laba bantu bayichaza ngokuzwakalayo ngokomzimba (ngezibonelo, ukufanisa), ukuthola kunzima, noma kunjalo, ukuba bawenze ngokucacile. Ukuxhumana kwabo ngokuzibandakanya ngokuvamile kuvamile, kubhekene nokucindezeleka kokuma nokuhamba, ubumpofu besimo sobuso.
Ngakho-ke thina izingane zakho lullabies okungenani kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu! Lokhu kuzobasiza bakhule ukuze babe abantu abanokulinganisela nabanobungane. I-lullaby imilingo. Ithonya lokuhlabelela i-lullabies ezinganeni liveza imizwa ejulile nemizwa, njengokuthanda, uthando, ukunakekela. Bazalwa emiphefumulweni yabahlabeleli kanye nabalaleli lullaby. Yenza kahle ukusebenzisa lezi ziphonso!