Ngakho-ke, engxenyeni yokuqala, sesivele sidlulisele izifundo ezine mayelana nokuthola isikhalazo socansi kanye nomlenze wesifazane. Uma ufunda ngezifundo ezintathu futhi ufunde indlela yobunikazi, ungakwazi ukunqoba noma yikuphi okuhle kumasekhondi ambalwa.
Isifundo # 5. Shintsha i-gait yakho.
Ngineluleka ukuba uqaphele ukuhlonishwa nokuma kwalabo besifazane abanethemba lokuthi bayathandekayo. Bona indlela engavinjelwe ngayo futhi efanelekile ukuhamba. Amahlombe abo aqondiswa, futhi ikhanda livuswa, kodwa uhamba kanjani? "Amakhosikazi" anjalo nawo wonke isinyathelo kanye nesenzo: "Ngimhle futhi ngimnandi. Ngiyazi lokhu. " Yilaba besifazane abenza le ndoda imsukele. Futhi manje bheka ukuhamba kwakho, ingabe kufana nokuchazwe ngenhla? Sukuma uphinde ugxile odongeni nge-spatula, amathole, u-nape, izithende nezintambo. Futhi ume lapho okungenani iminithi. Nsuku zonke, yenza lo msebenzi, ukhulise kancane kancane isikhathi. Uma uqaphela ukuthi usuvele unayo inani elingelona lomuntu siqu, hamba ekutadisheni i-gait entsha.
Khumbula ukuthi umhlane kufanele uhlale uphansi, njengokungathi uma umile eduze nodonga. Kodwa ungahambi kakhulu, noma ngeke ubukeke njengendlovukazi, kodwa inyoka eyagwinya ipayipi ende. Lesi sinyathelo sikwazi ukwenza ukuhamba kube ngokobulili kakhulu, kufanele kuqale kusukela ku-hip phambili. Ngezifundo zokuqala ungasebenzisa iseluleko sikaVerochka kuzo zonke i-movie yakho oyintandokazi "I-Office Romance."
Ngokuvamile, okokuqala ngeke uhambe njengendlovukazi. Kumele ulandele njalo uhambe futhi uhambe kahle. Ngempela, kwakungeyona izelelo emindenini ehloniphekile yezingane ukuthi ifunde lokhu kusukela ebusheni. Hlala uzibuke esibukweni sesibuko, lokhu ngeke kukunikeze ukuzethemba kuphela, kodwa kuzokwenza ukuthi ukwazi ukulungisa ukunyakaza. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzojwayela ukunyakaza okuhle, futhi umzimba ngokwawo uyozizwa ungakhululekile ukuhamba okuncane nokuhamba okungaqondakali.
Isifundo №6. Ukuqhuma kombala ngosizo.
Awuzange ucabange, kungani kuzozinguquko ezinkulu empilweni yakho kuyoba isifiso sokushintsha ngokuphelele ikhabethe, ukwenza olunye uboya bezinwele nokuzama ukwenza iminye imibala eyenziwe? Njengoba nje umzimba wethu udinga amavithamini, ubuchopho budinga ukwakheka kombala "njalo". Futhi umbala ngamunye uyithonya elingenamkhawulo kumuntu.
Umbala obomvu nakanjani uyovusa ubulili bakho. Akugcini nje ukwandisa amandla angaphakathi, kodwa futhi kwandisa libido. Yiqiniso, ungagcwalisi ikhabethe lonke ngezinto ezigazi. Abantu abakuzungezile, lokhu akukwaziswa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mbala ungabangela ukuhlukumeza futhi ukwandise ukushaya kwenhliziyo. Kungcono ukuzikhawulela ezesekeli ezibomvu, futhi okukhethwa kukho ukuthenga ilineni elibomvu. Ngisho noma nanamuhla akuyona umhlangano wangaphambi komlando, ungazizwa unesiqiniseko futhi uthandeka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, engeza i-pink ikhabethe lakho (lokhu kuyisifayela kakhulu), i-orange (iyokuvumela ukuba ususe amahloni kanye namahloni, ukuvuselelwa) kanye nezimbali eziphuzi (kuzokunika injabulo namandla). Nge-tozenen ephuzi, yiqede, ngoba amanani amakhulu alo mbala angabangela ukucindezeleka nokukhathazeka. Umnyama ungumbala omuhle, ongabheka ongaqondakali futhi ongaqondakali.
Ukuze uthole iphilisi "elimibalabala" ngokugcwele, ikhabethe elilodwa alinakubekezelela. Beka isibani esisezingeni elihle eduze kombhede noma uthenge umbhede omnyama (lokhu kuphela umbala kusiza ukulala ngokwanele). Noma, ngokujwayelekile, ukhohlwe ukuthenga, vele wenze iseshini yokwelashwa kombala. Lala phansi, uvale amehlo akho, ucabange isibhakabhaka esibhakabhaka. U-rainbow wabonakala esibhakabhakeni. Bhala ngokukhethekile embala obomvu, ucabange ukuthi idlidliza kanjani, ihlukanisa no-rainbow bese yenza ifu. Bheka-it sondela nawe eduze futhi, uhlukanisa zibe izinhlanzi futhi uwe phezu kwakho ruby rain. Amafu abomvu adliwe esikhumbeni sakho. Uma uchitha njalo lezi zikhathi, kuzokunika isibindi, ubulili kanye namandla.
Ungalokothi wesabe ukufunda okuthile okusha nokungafundiwe, ukuzama njalo. Ukuze uzenze ngcono, noma yikuphi umzamo owamukelekile. Kodwa-ke, khumbula ukuthi imfihlo ebaluleke kunazo zonke yokuheha abesifazane isela emehlweni othandekayo. Zama ukuthandana nomqeqeshi womzimba onomzimba omuhle, umngane wengxoxo, umnikazi wepaki yamanzi noma ... futhi kumyeni wakho, ohlala iminyaka eyishumi. Khona-ke wena ngokwakho uzoqaphela ukuthi kuvele kanjani ukukhanya okulula, ukukhishwa kwamakhosi, nokumomotheka okujabulisayo ezindebeni zakho.
Isifundo # 17. Jabulela!
Ubulili besifazane buxhomeke ngokuqondile enjabulweni eyenziwa yintombazane encane lapho ithola ucansi. Madoda masinyane unake owesifazane ojabulayo ekuphileni obuseduze. Zithinteka umuzwa wesifazane. Futhi ukubukeka "okulambile" kungabesabisa bonke abakhulekeli.
Ingabe ufuna ukubonakala wesifazane ojabulayo ojabulayo? Ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma kungenakunqotshwa! Ungathathi umsebenzi wokushada njengomsebenzi "wokushisa ebusuku" noma isibopho esiyinkimbinkimbi. Ungabuzi imibuzo: "Ngimthanda yini embhedeni?", Okokuqala zibuze: "Ingabe kulungile nami?". Uma kungenjalo, yenza konke okususelwe kuwe, ukuze impendulo ihle.
Okwamanje, abakwa-sexologists bathi ukuthuthukisa impilo yabo ebuseduze kungenzeka nge-vumbildinga, okungukuthi, ukuqeqeshwa kwamasipha omzimba. Lokhu akusizo kuphela ewusizo empilweni, kepha kusenjalo futhi ngokuphumelelayo kuvuselela izinzwa zowesifazane. Noma kunjalo, ungaqala ngokungahlawulisi okunjalo. Ungabi nobuvila, uthenge ukubhalisa ukuze ufundele impilo noma ukuvivinya umzimba. Kanye nomqeqeshi, thola izivivinyo ezithuthukisa ngaphakathi kwethanga. Ngemuva kwezinyanga ezingu-2-3, uzizwa kahle izinguquko.
Uma ufuna ukuhlanganisa ibhizinisi ngenjabulo, yiya esihlalweni sehhashi. Ukugibela okuphezulu kuthinta ngokuphelele imisipha yethanga namathanga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuxhumana namahhashi kuyinto engenakulibaleka futhi enhle kakhulu. Futhi uma uqiniseka ukuhlala esihlalweni, ngithathele ekuqeqesheni indoda yami ethandekayo. Ehhashi, uzobukeka kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, uma umngane wakho ngemva kokuqeqesha amehlo agcwele uthando, ungamangali!
Ifomula yezocansi
Ochwepheshe baseMelika bathi sikhetha owakhethiweyo kithi. Futhi izazi zobulili zaseRussia ziyazi ngisho nendlela yobunqunu besifazane!
Uma ungazi, khona-ke umuntu ngamunye ukhulula ama-pheromone amakhemikhali, okuyinto ethinta ngokungaqondile ubulili obuhlukile. Yile ndlela isifiso socansi esivela ngayo. Ngakho-ke, lapho sibheka ngaphezulu, amadoda amaningi asifuna. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abacwaningi baseMelika bathi ama-blondes athandwa kakhulu ngenxa ye-pheromones ehlukahlukene: abanikazi bezinwele ezibucayi banuka kunamandla. Ngomsebenzi obuseduze, ukukhululwa kwama-pheromone kwanda.
Kodwa-ke, abacwaningi baseRashiya baye bathola iphesenti ekhethekile ebhekwa njengento enhle kakhulu ekuzalweni kobulili besifazane.
Nakhu ukuthi kubukeka kanjani:
- ukuzihlonipha - 5%. Kumele uqaphele ukuthi ingubo enhle ikunika ubulili nokuzethemba, futhi ibuye imise umbala wezinwele zakho.
- isikhundla emphakathini - 5%. Ososayensi bathi lokhu "kuyinxephezelo yobulili." Lapho indoda ibona owesifazane ocebile futhi ophumelelayo, uba nesithakazelo kuye. Kodwa imoto ebiza kakhulu ayikusizi ukunqoba indoda, uma engekho, yebo, umanizer.
- ukukhangwa kwangempela ngu-5%. Yiqiniso, ubuhle bemvelo buhlale buhlanganisa. Nokho, abacwaningi baseRussia bathi lokhu akubalulekile nakakhulu.
- Ukuzilungisa - 5%. Uma ubuhle kungabaluleki ngokukhethekile, khona-ke zizinakekele noma kunjalo. Kumele ube ne-manicure entsha, ukwakheka okukhanyayo kanye nekhanda elihle.
- ukuzethemba - 80%. Ososayensi bathi lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Abesifazane abakhululekile, abavulekile nabangenakuvinjelwa abazifanelekela empilweni, babheka kakhulu kakhulu, futhi lokhu kungaqinisekiswa yimuphi umuntu.
Uyazi ukuthi ...
Ososayensi abanolwazi baye bathola umkhiqizo onjalo lapho kungenzeka khona ukubala ubudlelwane obuhle bezintambo nasesikhwameni: FROM / OB = 0.7Condzisa umphumela wakho kule namba, uma uthanda ucansi futhi ukhanga emehlweni abantu. Amathanga "angakwesokudla kakhulu" nasenqeni ku-KailiMinoug, umphumela wakhe - ngu-0,702.