Empeleni, isembatho somshado somlobokazi iminyaka engamashumi amathathu manje akunzima neze ukuthola. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakhohlwa ukuthi eYurophu ukushada uneminyaka engamashumi amathathu - lokhu kuyinto evamile. Kukhona abashadikazi abanjalo, ungasho ukuthi, i-dime ishumi nambili. Futhi kubo, abaklami bahlakulela izingubo ezihlukahlukene. Ukugqoka komshado kwabesifazane bethu nakho kukhona. Emva kwakho konke, noma ngabe ungaphezu kwengamashumi amathathu, lokhu akusho ukuthi akufanele ubukeke kahle futhi kunhle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kulabo abashadile kukhona izingubo eziningi. Abadwebi bezithombe bakhula zonke izinhlobo zokugqoka nezingubo. Lezi zindlu zangasese zomshado zihlukaniswa ngobuqiniso nobuhle. Futhi ngokuphathelene nabo, sizokhuluma manje.
Kodwa okokuqala, khumbula ukuthi ukushada eneminyaka engamashumi amathathu akuyona ihlazo. Phela, phakathi nalesi sikhathi sokuphila owesifazane wenza isinqumo eyedwa, akaqondisi hhayi ngenhliziyo yakhe kuphela, kodwa nangomqondo ovamile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngalesi sikhathi le nsikazi isivele inokuphepha kwezenhlalakahle nezemali, ngakho ayicabangi ngecala lezezimali lomshado. Yiqiniso, ufuna indoda ukuba izuze kahle, kodwa, uma kunjalo, uyazi ukuthi uyakwazi ukuzixhasa. Yiqiniso, lapho bekukholelwa ukuthi uneminyaka engamashumi amathathu-ehloniphekile ngempela. Kodwa, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngaleso sikhathi amantombazane anikezwa umshado eminyakeni eyishumi nantathu noma eyishumi nane. Futhi, uma bengenalo igazi elihle, kwakudingeka benze umsebenzi onzima kanzima, ngakho-ke ngenkathi baneminyaka engamashumi amathathu bebekhulile ngempela.
Kodwa, manje yisikhathi esithile. Abesifazane abaningi abanamashumi amathathu manje, bazizwa bebancane, ngisho bancane. Ngakho-ke, ukushada ngalesi sikhathi, awudingeki ube yinkimbinkimbi. Ekugcineni, ibhizinisi lakho kanye nokuphila kwakho, ngakho akekho onelungelo lokulihlulela.
Ngakho-ke, yisiphi isithombe somlobokazi esingcono ukukhetha nokuthi yisiphi isigqoko sokukhetha lo mkhosi omuhle? Yiqiniso, kunezinketho eziningi ezahlukene. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, ake siqale sithole ukuthi imfashini yesimanje idinga yini, futhi, njengoba sonke siyazi, yonke inkathi inquma imithetho emisha nemisha. Kodwa, noma kunjalo, namuhla imikhuba yomshado iningi lentando yeningi ngokwanele. Yingakho ungakwazi ngokukhululekile nangokuthula ukugubha imikhosi ehlukahlukene eqoshiwe, lapho uthola khona izingubo ezithile. Manje kunezimo eziningi zomshado ezihlukene, phakathi kwazo ongakhetha kuzo ezizofaneleka kakhulu kuwe. Isibonelo, abanye abantu bagubha umshado kumasiko abantu. Eqinisweni, kuhle kakhulu, ngoba isiko kwanoma yimuphi umuntu sithatha amasiko amaningi namathandabuzo athandayo, aboniswa izingubo. Ngakho-ke, uma ukhetha noma iyiphi ingubo yendabuko yendabuko futhi uhlele wonke umshado ngesitayela esifanayo, izingubo zakho zizofaneleka kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuphela ngokuthola ulwazi lokuphila, siqala ukwazisa isiko nomlando. Izingubo zomphakathi ngeke zigcizelele hhayi iminyaka yakho, kepha ukuhlakanipha kwakho nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.
Futhi, ungenza umshado ubhalwe phansi eminyakeni engamashumi amabili noma emithathu yekhulu lokugcina. Izingubo ezinjalo zizobukeka zihle kakhulu futhi zihle kakhulu. Phakathi kwezinto zokugqoka zaleso sikhathi, owesifazane ngamunye uzokwazi ukukhetha kahle ukuthi yini efanelana nayo. Yiqiniso, ungakhohlwa ukuthi, kulokhu, zonke izivakashi kanye nabesifazane abashadile kufanele futhi bagqoke ngendlela efanele. Uma kungenjalo, umkhosi womshado ngeke ubheke kuqala, kodwa uyahlekisa. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokukhetha inketho enjalo, namanje unqume ukuthi ngabe kufanelekile yini kuwe nokuthi ngabe izivakashi zizokwazi yini ukuza ngqo kulokho okuzodingeka, noma kungcono ukukhetha umshado wendabuko kanye nengubo yendabuko.
Ngendlela, abanye besifazane bakholelwa ngephutha ukuthi abakwazi ukukhetha ingubo umakoti omncane angayigqoka. Eqinisweni, lokhu akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Udinga ukuqondiswa hhayi ngemicabango mayelana nobudala bakho, kodwa imizwa yakho. Uma uzizwa uneminyaka engamashumi amabili, ungazami ukuba umdala kakhulu futhi uqine. Yebo, kink induku ayifanele. Lapho ukhetha izingubo, khumbula futhi ngemininingwane yakho yangaphandle. Zama ukukhetha kahle isitayela esizosigcizelela ngokunenzuzo isithunzi sakho. Ngendlela, ungacabangi ukuthi ingubo yomshado kufanele ibe yinto enhle, ibe ne-crinoline kanye neziketi eziningi. Imfashini yanamuhla inezinhlobonhlobo ezahlukene ezahlukene. Abantu abaningi sebevele bezama ukugqoka izingubo ezinjalo, ezingasetshenziswa njengengubo evamile yokugqoka. Futhi, awudingi ukuthenga ingubo emhlophe. Kunamamodeli amaningi e-shades ahlukahlukene, obomvu, ukhilimu, ikhofi. Phakathi kwazo kukhona izingubo ezifanele indlovukazi yangempela.
Futhi, inkinga eyodwa ngaphezulu kwabashadikazi abangamashumi amathathu iba yisimbozo. Iqiniso liwukuthi bayazi: lokhu kuyisibopho sokugqoka somshado. Kodwa, ngesikhathi esifanayo, abesifazane abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi abafanelekile ukugqoka isigqubuthelo ngeminyaka. Yini okufanele uyenze kulokhu? Empeleni, akufanele ucabange izinkinga ezingadingekile nezikhathazayo wena. Imfashini yanamuhla isivele isishiyile iveli. Yiqiniso, omakoti abaningi bembathisa, ngoba lokhu kuyisici sendabuko. Kodwa, uma ungafuni iveli, khona-ke ungasebenzisa umdwebo ophephile noma imihlobiso emihle kusuka ezimbali ezinyaweni zakho. Ngikholelwa. Ngeke babheke okungalungile kunendwanguzelo, banike isithombe sakho ubuqili nobuhle.
Eqinisweni, uma umakoti engaphezu kuka-30 futhi unomfanekiso omuhle, angathenga noma yikuphi ukugqoka. Zonke izigqoko zomshado zihlala ngokugcwele emigqumeni eqinile kanye nama-thin waist. Kulungile, uma uzibona kuwe amaphutha, thola izigqoko nezingubo zamahhala. Ungazami ukuziqinisa ku-corset, ukuze ungakwazi ukuphefumula konke ukunqoba. Kungcono ukhethe ingubo yamahhala lapho uzobukeka khona futhi ukhululeke.