Kungani konke kwenzeka, uyazibuza? Mhlawumbe lokhu kungukuphila, ukuhlola njalo amandla ngokusebenzisa izindlela zalo ezikhohlisayo. Ungabulawa futhi wenze imizamo yokuya endlini yezindela. Kubalulekile ukuqonda le nkinga, ulinganise konke, futhi, ngokumelene nalo! Futhi uma kungenakho imiphumela, khona-ke kuphela kuleli cala, ungazama ngeso lengqondo, nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke kufike kulokhu.
Inkinga yobuhlobo nabangaphambili akuyona inkinga enjalo njalo. Yebo, yebo! Kunemibono eminingi mayelana nokuthi kufanelekile ukuxhumana no-isoka-yangaphambili. Sizohlaziya izimo eziningana zansuku zonke. Isibonelo, ngaphansi kwezinye izimo kwakhiwa umbhangqwana. Babengabangane isikhathi eside, base beqala ukuhlangana, base beqaphela ukuthi abayidingi, futhi, akuzange kusebenze, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izimpikiswano ezazithokozela zona, mhlawumbe zaziqonda ukuthi zihlukile. Futhi ngesifiso sobudlelwane besahlukana, ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza, ngokuthula, ngokuthula. Nakhu isimo lapho abantu bekwazi ukuthi yini abayifunayo nenkinga yokuhlukanisa, ngokuba kuphela isinyathelo esiwusizo, okukuvumela ukuba uhlanganise nomlingani wakho womphefumulo.
Kule fomu, ubuhlobo obuhle nomfana wangaphambili buyakwazi kalula ukuba ubungane, nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi esikhathini esizayo, inhlansi ebabushele ndawonye okokuqala ingakwazi ukuvuvukala. Manje cabanga ngesinye isibonelo, esivame kakhulu, nakwezinye izindawo ngaphansi kwezimo ezithile kwakukhona omunye umbhangqwana, bathandana, futhi banquma ukuhlangana, emva kwesikhashana kuvela ukuthi insizwa intombazane yayisinye nje isithandwa, futhi imizwa ephakeme akuzange kusebenze. Kodwa intombazane yazalwa ngokufanayo inzwa efanayo uthando, nakuba mhlawumbe akusilo uthando, kodwa uthando, okuyinto evamile kakhulu, kodwa naphezu kwalokhu, kukhona izinyembezi njalo ngenxa yokuqhuma, ukunganakwa kubonakala kuphila, futhi umhlaba wonke uba i-gray-brown-okusajingijolo ebhokisini.
Kulokhu, akuvunyelwe ukufuna ubungane nalo mfana ngokuqinile! Futhi ngeke kube khona okunye! Ngoba ngisho noma eba umngane kuye, ngokuqinisekile ngeke kuholele ekuhle. Kulungile kanjani? Intombazane ethandweni ilungele ukwenza lutho "ngesikhulu" sayo, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuphindaphinda kulokhu, futhi lokho kungcono kakhulu! Futhi okubi kakhulu, vula nje izinyawo zakho, noma unciphise isithunzi sakho sesigqila ngaphansi komkhumbi wamanzi, nakuba "ama-arthropod" anjalo engajwayelekile, kodwa njengoba asho, ngokufanele. Ngakho-ke, kulokhu, ubuhlobo ne-ex-isoka nje kudinga ukuguqula ishidi, lingalahlwa, futhi likhohlwe njengephupho elimbi.
Ngokwemvelo, akunakwenzeka ukuba uvumelane nobudlelwane bonke obuyekile phakathi nalezi zibonelo ezimbili, icala ngalinye lingumuntu ngamunye. Kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokuthukuthela. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi amacala ahlukene, izimiso ezikuzo zifana. Awufuni ukuba isondo lesithathu, elibizwa ngokuthi i-spare (i-hint icacile?), Shiya yedwa. Uma ufuna ubungane, kuhle, uma udinga ngempela lo muntu, ubambelele ezingeni elihloniphekile, ungayi ngezansi ukuzivikela futhi ungazivumeli phansi! Okungatholakali futhi okuzimele, uzobonakala, inzalo eyengeziwe oyoyifinyelela.
Kuyadingeka ukuba uqaphele lokhu okulandelayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuhlobo obani nomuntu wangaphambili, kusasele, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kuyohlala kudala! Futhi ngenxa yalokho, akudingeki ukuthi uphonswe, kodwa udinga ukushintsha, impilo ngeshwa ayikona isikhathi eside ukushintshaniswa ngezihlungi. Akuyona enye - enye enye - "Indawo engcwele ayike ibe nalutho!".