Isimiso esiyinhloko kwezocansi ngowesifazane siyoba yisimiso esibalulekile sokuthola i-orgasm, futhi lokhu kulungile. Emva kwakho konke, zonke ezinye izici ziya emaqenjini wokugcina, ngoba ngaphandle kokuthola umgomo oyinhloko, ubulili ngeke bubiwe. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi noma yikuphi ukusondelana nomuntu akuvumeli owesifazane ukuba afinyelele lo mgomo, uqala ukuzihlola. Ezama ukuthola ezinye iziphambeko, uqala ukuzibheka njengento evamile ngokobulili. Futhi lo mfana uqala ukwamukela umqondo wokuthi uyithandani engaphumeleli futhi engalindelekile.
Kumele uqaphele ukuthi izimfihlo zobulili azigcini nje ukufeza i-orgasm oyifunayo, kodwa futhi ukufeza ukuxhumana okuqondile ngokobulili. Kuzuzisa ukuqonda ukuthi ukwesaba ukwehluleka nokunganaki okwedlulele, cishe ngeke ukwazi ukujabulela ubulili obufanayo. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukuqeda izingcingo zangaphakathi, ukuzama ukumane ungakhumbuli futhi ungacabangi ngazo ngesikhathi esifanele. Phela, ukukhathazeka kaningi futhi kuvimbela ukufeza okufunayo kwe-orgasm.
Mayelana nokushaya indlwabu . Kubalulekile ukunaka iqiniso lokuthi izimfihlakalo zobulili nazo zihlanganisa ukugqugquzelwa okuhle komzimba wonke. Owesifazane udinga ukuqonda, ukunquma umzimba wakhe wonke. Ngokufanayo, ukuthola lezo zincenye zomzimba ezizwela kakhulu, okungukuthi, eziphuthumayo. Khona-ke uzoba nawo wonke amakhadi ezandleni zakhe, ekuvumela ukuba uzame ukufeza, ukufezekisa i-orgasm edingekayo. Uma kwenzeka intombazane engakaze ijabule ngokuzijabulisa ngokoqobo ngokobulili empilweni yakhe, noma nje engaqiniseki ukuthi izinzwa ezitholwa yi-orgasm zingabe zizama ukuzijabulisa. Kulesi simo, kuyoba kubalulekile ukuzama ukulandelela noma ukuqonda kahle izici zayo zomzimba womzimba. Lokhu kungafinyelelwa ngokusebenzisa ukushaya indlwabu, ngoba nalo ungakwazi ukufeza i-orgasm oyifunayo. Khona-ke, uma owesifazane engathola ukwaneliseka okugcwele ngale ndlela, angakwazi ukuqonda kangcono umzimba wakhe nokuthi angayilawula kanjani esikhathini esizayo. Emva kwalokho, angakwazi ukungena ngokuphepha ebuhlotsheni obuseduze nomlingani ofanele futhi amukele kuye zonke izinhlobo zokuthakazelisa.
Dala isimo sengqondo . Ubulili obuhle bungatholakala uma unemizwa emihle. Futhi kangcono. Uma kudalwe ngaphambi kokuqala kwenqubo yobulili. Yini engaphazamisa noma ingavimbele ukwamukela injabulo, kuyadingeka ukuba ucabange futhi ungabandakanyi kusengaphambili, ukuze kungabikho lutho olungaphula injabulo. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukwakha uhlobo oluthile lwesimo esiseduze. Futhi ekukhulumisaneni, ukuxoxa nomlingani wakho, udinga ukukhipha zonke izingxoxo ezihlobene nabangani, imali, izingane, njll. Uma kungenakulinganiswa okungaqondakali, ungesabi futhi uhlele izigcawu. Vele uthathe ezandleni zakho bese uzama ukulungisa konke ngokushesha. Ukuze uqede ukwehluleka, ungasebenzisi ubuhlobo bobulili, kungabangela ekuvekeni okukhulu nakakhulu kwemizwa yentukuthelo. Udinga nje ukuzama ukuqeda ukungezwani futhi ukwazi ukuphumula. Kodwa ubulili yisisombululo esihle kakhulu sokususa le mizwa engathandeki. Udinga nje ukuzinikela kumlingani wakho ngokuphelele, uzama ukuthola injabulo enkulu ngangokunokwenzeka, kanye ne-orgasm. Kodwa ungathukutheli lapho okufunayo kungakamukeli. Ngakho-ke awunqanyuliwe ngokuphelele kuzo zonke izinkinga nezinkinga zasendlini, zilungiselele kuphela kumvuthwandaba omuhle wokuthola ubulili obukhulu.
Ukulingisa . Izimfihlo zobudlelwane obuhle kwezocansi, ukusondelana kufaka phakathi ukuthola kuphela okufisa kakhulu, lokhu kungatholakala uma kungekho zithiyo phakathi kwabalingani. Mhlawumbe owesifazane akasoze azuze lokho ayekufunayo, okungukuthi, uthole i-orgasm, kodwa nje azenze sengathi uyayithola. Futhi lokhu kuvame ukutholakala phakathi kwengxenye yesifazane yomphakathi. Ukulingisa kungenzeka ngenxa yokuqaphela ukwehluleka kowesifazane onomlingani, okwenza umqondo wokungaphansi. Noma kungenzeka ukuthi owesifazane akafuni nje ukuthinta noma yisiphi isithunzi somlingani, ngoba iqiniso lingase lingathandi umlingani futhi limcasule. Abanye besifazane basebenzisa ukulingiswa kwe-orgasm ukuze baqede ngokushesha ukuhlaselwa komuntu othanda kakhulu, futhi hhayi neze ngisho nobulili ngokwayo. Kodwa ungazami ukukhohlisa indoda yakho ngale ndlela, ngoba isikhathi eside lokhu kwenzeka, kube nzima nakakhulu ukuvuma ukunganeliseki. Kungcono ukuzama ngokuzithoba futhi ngaphandle kokuhlambalaza ukuze umqondise lokhu, ngaleyo ndlela ngeke uthinte isithunzi somlingani wakho.
Sithola injabulo . Abesifazane abaningi emva kwesenzo socansi, bafuna ukuphinda baphinde baphinde baphinde bakhohlwe ukucabangela isifiso somlingani. Emva kwakho konke, kumadoda amaningi kuthatha isikhathi sokubuyisela amandla angaphambilini, ukuze uqhubeke ujabule. Phela, uma owesifazane engathola injabulo enkulu ngangokunokwenzeka, lokhu akusho ukuthi udinga i-orgasm eminingi. Izimfihlo zobudlelwane obuhle kwezocansi nazo zibonisa isimo sengqondo sokuhlonipha abanye abathandanayo, kungabandakanyi zonke izinhlobo zokugxekwa nezinsolo.
Amanye amathiphu awusizo . Abesifazane kufanele bazame ukugwema ukuphazanyiswa kuzo zonke izinkinga, ikakhulukazi uma kuhlwe kusihlwa, okubandakanya ukuzijabulisa ngokocansi, kuhlelwe. Uma uqoqe izinkinga eziphuthumayo nezinkinga, kungcono ukuxazulula konke ekuqaleni, noma ukwenqaba ukuhlangabezana.
Phakathi nenqubo yesondo udinga ukuzama ukuzicabangela wena ngokwakho, othandekayo bakho, kanye nemizwa yakho. Ungashintshi ngokuphelele futhi ugxile kuphela kumlingani wakho. Ngemuva kwalokho, injabulo yomlingani ixhomeke ngokuphelele kumnandi wesifazane uqobo.
Ukufeza i-orgasm efunayo, kufanelekile ukunikeza isikhathi se-prelude, lapho owesifazane angase ajabule ezingeni elifunayo. Ungaphuthelwa lezi zikhathi. Kungcono ukucela indoda ukuba ingasheshi.
Konke ezandleni zakho, ukuze uzuze injabulo yobulili engavamile.