Ngokuvamile basuke bekhanga kakhulu isifiso sokuziqhenya emkhakheni wezobuchwepheshe kunokuphila komndeni. Kusukela lokhu kuya kubafazi abaningi abayeni babo babonakala begoqela futhi bengenangqondo. Yeka ukuthi kuthula kanjani ukuhlala nomyeni onjalo? Yebo, kulula kakhulu - ungabuzi okungenakwenzeka. Kuxhomeke kuwe, kuyoba yini ubuhlobo emndenini wakho. Imvelo inikeze abesifazane ngezimfanelo ezibavumela ukuba bahambisane nendoda, kudingeka nje bafunde ukuthi bangayisebenzisa kanjani ngokufanele.
Uma umyeni wakho engakhathazeki ukubonisa ukukhathalela nokubekezela, ungamphenduli ngokufanayo, kodwa kunokuba ube ngumfudumalo futhi othandekayo kakhulu, yenza konke ukwenza kube lula futhi kujabulise ukuba eduze nawe. Ngikholelwa ukuthi uzokujabulela ukuba nawe emva nangemva komsebenzi uzogijimela ekhaya, hhayi kubangane noma embi kakhulu - komunye wesifazane onomusa futhi onomoya omnene kunakho. Yiba naye othobekile, bese umphumela wesimo sengqondo esinjalo ngaye ngeke uthathe isikhathi eside.
Abaningi babo bayakwazi ukukhuluma ukuxhasana, bevela emisebenzini ukuze bamanga umkakhe. Ngokuvamile, amadoda avele abe namahloni noma angazi ukuthi angabathanda kanjani. Bangase bangacabangi ukuthi uyayidinga kakhulu. Zama ukuletha umyeni wakho ekuboniseni komunye imizwa. Mtshele ukuthi emva kokumanga kwakhe, unesimo sengqondo esihle, noma ukuthi ingubo eyayikugqoke yayigqoke kakhulu kuye. Qinisekisa ukuthi uyakwazisa.
Uma ufuna ukuhlala ngokuthula nomyeni wakho, zama ngakho konke okusemandleni ukukhwabanisa bese uthola ubuhlobo. Ungalokothi umhlasele ngamacala kusukela emnyango. Ngisho noma unayo, zama ukuveza ukungajabuli kwakho ngenye indlela. Okokuqala, kuqala ukuthatha konke ukuthanda kwakho ube yingqungquthela, kumanga umyeni wakho bese uyondla isidlo sakusihlwa.
Manje ungaqala ukukhuluma ngezindaba zasekhaya. Isibonelo, qala ukwelashwa kwakho ngegama elithi "cute" bese uzama ukwakha umusho ukuze uvezwe njengesicelo. Ngemva kokuhlaziywa okunjalo, umusho: "Ngikhathele ukwenza konke ngokwami! "Kufanele iphenduke ibe:" Darling, kuhle ukuthi ufikile manje, ezinye izinto azisebenzi kimi. " Ngemva kwalokhu, naphezu kokukhathala, umyeni uzogcwalisa isicelo sakho. Kodwa-ke, uma uphumelela ekusebenziseni indlela echazwe ngenhla yokugwema ukungqubuzana, ubungozi obangela ukucasula komuntu, intukuthelo nokuhlukumeza.
Kukhona namadoda anjalo avame ukuzama ukugqashuka nganoma yisiphi isizathu. Kodwa ngisho nendoda enjalo ungaphila ngokuthula. Kunezindlela ezanele zokuqonda inkinga. Vumela oshade naye aqonde ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngesikhathi sokuziphatha kwakhe, echaza konke ngendlela efanele kakhulu. Khuluma naye, zama ukuthola izizathu zokwesaba kwakhe. Phakathi nengxoxo, kungase kuvele ukuthi izinkinga zomyeni wakhe zisasebenza, futhi usanda "phansi kwesandla esishisayo." Ungaphenduli ngokumemeza kukhwabanisa. Vikela ilungelo lakho ebuhlotsheni bomndeni obufudumele nesibonelo sakho esihle.
Zihlole wena kanye nempilo yakho. Uma umfazi ehlala ebheka okubi - ngokushesha noma kamuva angashintsha owesifazane othakazelisayo, ongenamahloni ukuya ekhonsathini noma kumabhayisikobho. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi owesifazane omuhle futhi ohlotshisiwe kuhle ukuxhumana nabo bonke abantu, hhayi nje amadoda.
Yiqiniso, iseluleko sokuphila ngokuthula nomyeni wakho akulula, kodwa wena wesifazane ohlakaniphile, nonke unakho.