Uhlobo olubaluleke kunazo zonke lokubambisana kuzo zonke izigaba zomsebenzi wesintu ukuhlukaniswa kwemisebenzi (imisebenzi), kuyafana nasemndenini. Uma ngamunye womshado eyazi futhi ebhekana ngempumelelo nezindima zabo, khona-ke umndeni usolwa ngokuphumelela. Izinkinga ziqala ukuvela lapho indoda noma umkami, noma bobabili bengenaso isifiso sokwenza imisebenzi yabo, zama ukucindezela abanye, noma ukuphazamisa indima yomunye. Umfazi ongenakwenzeka uyakha umsebenzi emndenini. Indima yakhe kuphela yowesifazane, ukusekela umyeni wakhe, ukusiza ekwenzeni imisebenzi yakhe, kodwa hhayi ukwenza umsebenzi wakhe kumlingani wakhe.
Ukuphumelela nokuzinikezela ekwenzeni izindima zabo njalo kuhambisana nempumelelo enkulu emndenini, emabhizinisini nasemphakathini. Futhi okuphambene nalokho, uma omunye wamalungu omndeni ezama ukudlala indima yabanye abantu, wenqaba ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe, noma ukhathazeke kakhulu ngokuthi abanye benza kanjani imisebenzi yabo, badlala indima yombonisi oqinile.
Impumelelo ekusebenzeni kwemisebenzi yakho incike ekusebenzeni kahle kwakho indima yabesifazane empilweni kanye nasemndenini ikakhulukazi. Lokhu kufanele kukukhathaze kuphela. Kungenzeka ukuthi unethuba lokuqasha abasizi ukuba bahlele impilo yasekhaya, noma ukucela ukuthi usize izingane kulokhu. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, umthwalo wemfanelo kule ndawo uhlala kuwe kuphela.
Njengoba ufunde amakhono namakhono wamakhosikazi, ungakwazi ukufeza impumelelo enkulu emkhakheni womndeni. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungafunda ukupheka, ukugcina indlu, ukuhlela impilo yasekhaya ukuze ukhululeke. Nakani ukuhlukumeza abesifazane nokukhuliswa kwezingane. Zizinikele ngokugcwele emndenini futhi wenze konke okusemandleni ukuze uthole ukuthula nokuphila kahle ekhaya.
Ukuthi uzosiza umyeni wakho ukuba afeze impumelelo ekusebenzeni komsebenzi wakhe kuyoba yimpumelelo yakho ekudaleni umndeni ophumelelayo. Ukwaziswa kwezidingo zamadoda amathathu kuzokusiza kulokhu:
- Indoda kufanele ikwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe njengenhloko yomndeni, isondlo kanye nomvikeli.
- Indoda kufanele izwe lesi sidingo emndenini wayo.
- Kubalulekile ukuthi indoda iphakeme ngaphezu kowesifazane kule nsimu.
Emphakathini wanamuhla, ukuthambekela ukuthi lezi zimiso zokuqala ziphulwa njalo. Kwakukhona ukuhlasela kwalowo wesifazane endaweni yomuntu. Ngenxa yalokho, sinesizukulwane sabomama abasebenza, bancintisana namadoda ekukhuphukeni izinga lezemisebenzi, ngokwemali engenayo.
Endaweni yasekhaya, futhi, akuzona zonke izinto ezizolile. Owesifazane ujwayele ukuba ngumholi emsebenzini, futhi uzama ukwenza okufanayo ekhaya, enze izinto ngendlela yakhe. Lo wesifazane waqala ukwenza imisebenzi eminingi, owesilisa ngencazelo, ngokuzimela. Ukulahlekelwa okukhulu kwabo bobabili kungukuthi lo wesifazane waba ozimele, futhi lokhu kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi uyeka ukuzwa isidingo sokuvikela lo muntu nokuhlinzekwa kwakhe.
Ngenxa yokuthi indoda ayizizwa isidingo semisebenzi yakhe yesilisa, ayizizwa isidingo sayo, ngakho-ke ayizizwa isidingo sokuba indoda yangempela. Ukuze uhlolisise kakhulu umsebenzi owenziwe, owesifazane uthola izici zobuningi bomlingiswa. Lokhu kusho ukulahlekelwa kwesifazane, okwenziwe ngekhanda lesifazane kanye nesithandwa sesifazane. Owesifazane ugxilile, kukhona ukwesaba okuqhubekayo lapho ezama ukuthatha umthwalo walokho umuntu okufanele avame ukuthatha. Lokhu kubangela ukulahlekelwa ukuthula okubaluleke kakhulu nokudingekayo okudingekayo ukuze kutholakale umndeni ojabulayo. Uma owesifazane echitha isikhathi esiningi namandla ukuze enze umsebenzi ohloselwe amadoda, ulahlekelwa yilawo misebenzi ebalulekile eyaziwayo kowesifazane. Ngenxa yalokho, umndeni wonke ulahlekelwa.
Emndenini uphumelele futhi ujabule, owesifazane kufanele akhumbule ngokuqinile ukuthi le ndoda iyinhloko yomndeni, umthengisi kanye nomvikeli. Injabulo yendoda ngokuqondile ixhomeke endleleni enza ngayo indima yakhe emndenini, nokuthi ngabe uzwa ukusekelwa kwakho, isidingo sakho somndeni. Shiya lo muntu ithuba lokuhola umndeni, wenze umsebenzi wesilisa endlini, unikeze konke okudingayo nomndeni. Isidingo esikhulu kakhulu singakuvumela ukuba uhambe ngaphezu kwemingcele yemisebenzi yakho futhi wenze umsebenzi wesilisa.
Ungalindeli kubantu abaphelele ekusebenzeni indima yakhe yesilisa. Uzothola kangcono wena kanye nendoda, uma ungagcini ngamathambo futhi uphazamise imisebenzi yakhe. Uma ubhekene nezinkinga, futhi indoda ayisebenzisi imisebenzi yakhe yesilisa njengomvikeli, akufanele ukhononde. Kuyoba ngcono uma nje usho ukuthi unenkinga, umtshele ngokucacile futhi ngokucacile okuyinhloko yenkinga nokuthi yikuphi imiphumela engaba khona. Isinyathelo esilandelayo ngumbuzo: "Iyiphi imicabango yakho kule ndaba? Yini engenziwa kule simo? ". Ngakho-ke, uyomtshela ukuthi uyinhloko yomndeni, unike ubunzima bakho kumuntu wakho, futhi lokhu kuyoba yisenzakalo esihle sokuthi umuntu azizwe edingekayo. Izinguquko zingathatha isikhathi esithile, ngakho-ke kunconywa ukuba ube nesineke uma kwenzeka indoda ingayithathi inkinga ngisho nangemva kokumtshela konke.
Ukuqala kokuguquka kungafaka udumo lomuntu. Indima yomuntu akulula ukwenza futhi maduze uzokwazi ukuthi kungani. Umvuzo omkhulu kakhulu womuntu uyoba udumo lwakho. Ungadabuki ngamazwi okubonga. Umphumela uzoba mkhulu kunalokho uma umuntu ethola umvuzo womsebenzi. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlala njalo futhi ngokuziphendulela ukufeza imithwalo yemfanelo yakho yokuhlela ikhaya. Ngakho-ke, uzokwazi ukudweba umugqa ocacile phakathi kwemisebenzi yowesifazane nowesifazane, futhi usize ekuphatheni ngempumelelo izindaba zamadoda kumadoda.
Uma ungachazi ngokucacile indima yamadoda nabesifazane, lokhu kusongela ukudideka kwemisebenzi. Khona-ke le ndoda iqala ukwenza ingxenye ethile yomsebenzi wesifazane, futhi owesifazane - owesilisa. Konke kulungiswa, uma ukusatshalaliswa okunjalo kwesikhashana, kodwa uma kwenzeka njalo, khona-ke ubuqotho bomndeni buyingozi.
Emfundweni yezingane, kubalulekile ukunaka ukuthuthukiswa kwezakhiwo zemvelo ngokuhlonza ngokocansi, ngakho-ke kuyadingeka ukuthi babone abazali ngendlela ebonakalayo ecacile yendoda nowesifazane ukuze balingise. Ekusebenzeni indima yakhe yamantombazane, umama ubonisa umfanekiso wakhe wesifazane omnene. Lapho enza izindaba zabesifazane bakhe ngothando olunjalo olungathandwa ngabesifazane kuphela, lapho ehamba izingubo zesifazane, enakekela izingane ngokucophelela, efeza imisebenzi yakhe yasekhaya, bese embuka, izingane zakha umfanekiso wesifazane. Lapho yena, ekusebenzeni kwemisebenzi yakhe, ekwethula ukwaneliseka ngempilo yakhe nenjabulo, owesifazane usiza izingane zakhe ukuba zithole isithombe esihle sokwemvelo.
Uma izingane zibona kubaba womholi oqinile, lapho ubaba ebonisa ukuthi imisebenzi yakhe iyinzuzo futhi umvikeli uyasebenza, lapho ethatha umthwalo ngokuzethemba, ngenkathi ejabulela lokho okwenzekayo, lokhu kuyakha umhlabathi ovuthiwe wokuthuthukiswa kwezimfanelo zamadodana futhi ube yisibonelo sesikhathi esizayo umyeni kumantombazane. Amantombazane azodonseka kubantu besifazane, kanti abafana - babe nesibindi lapho lo mndeni unemibono ebonakalayo ebonakalayo emifanekisweni yabesilisa nabesifazane.
Uma umndeni uphahla hhayi njengoba kunqunywa ngokwemvelo, uma kungekho mingcele ecacile phakathi kokusabalalisa kwemisebenzi, lokhu kungaba yinkinga enkulu. Ngokusho kwezibalo emakhaya lapho izibopho zamadoda nabesifazane azikho khona, kwakuvame ukuba nezimo zobungqingili. Izingane emindenini enezizinda ezifanayo azikwazanga ukuthola umqondo othize wemisebenzi yowesilisa nowesifazane, futhi ayinalo i-ideal yokulingisa.
Inqubo yemfundo izofundisa izingane izinto eziningi ezizozisiza ukuba zihambe ngokuphumelelayo impilo ukuze zijabule. Noma kunjalo, into ebaluleke kakhulu izingane ezingafunda emndenini umfana ukuba abe nesibindi, nentombazane ibe yowesifazane.