Izinkinga zobungane bomshado

"Awu, lo mshado, umshado wahlabelela futhi wadansa ...." Yiziphi izinkumbulo ezimnandi ezivela emshadweni, kusukela ebuhlotsheni ngaphambi komshado, konke kwakuphelele kakhulu. Uthando luyaphi, i-idyll ebuhlotsheni bakho. Kungani, emva komshado, konke kuhluka, ngokuqinisekile hhayi ngokushesha ngemva kobusuku bomshado. Kuphela ngeminyaka izinkinga zobudlelwane bomshado zivame ukubonakala. Isikebhe sokuthandaza siphumelela emkhakheni wokuphila kwansuku zonke nokungaqondi phakathi kwalabo abashadile. Inkinga ephuthumayo kakhulu ebuhlotsheni bomshado yukuntuleka kwemali kaningi. Umkami uqala ukubona umyeni wakhe, ukuthi uthola kancane. Nakuba ngishade naye ngangazi kahle ukuthi kwakungeyona ye-oligarch ephuma ngaphandle, kodwa isisebenzi esakhiweni sendawo noma umshayeli, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngubani, into esemqoka ayeyazi ukuthi wayengenayo imali enkulu. Ngemva kokushada, owesifazane ucabanga ukuthi umndeni wakhe uvele ngokuzumayo wawa futhi uzohamba egqoke i-mink ne-diamonds. Kodwa lokhu akukwenzeka futhi uqala ukuhlupha umyeni wakhe ukuze acabange ukuthi angondla kanjani umndeni wakhe. Lokhu sekuphelile, uma umyeni wakho engasebenzi, kodwa ehlezi ku-TV futhi ngokungaqondakali uyaphuma ephephandabeni ngomsebenzi, ebhekisela eqinisweni lokuthi akanelisekile ngalesi silinganiso esincane esinikezwayo, noma ikhanda liyi-half-wit. Khona-ke kudingeka udinga umyeni wakho ukuba athole umsebenzi futhi asekele umndeni, uma kunjalo unelungelo lokumhlambalaza ngenxa yokungenzi lutho.
Izinkinga zobudlelwane bomshado azigcini nje ohlelweni lwezinto ezibonakalayo, kodwa nakulokuziphatha. Ngokuphindaphindiwe umndeni ukhohlwa ngokuzilibazisa komndeni, kancane kancane umyeni uqala ukukhuluma umfazi wakhe amazwi amahle, ukumnika ukuncoma, ukwethula umbala hhayi kuphela ngo-Mashi 8, kodwa ngokumane nje kukhishwe umphefumulo. Oshade naye uyakhohlwa ngokubukeka kwakhe, uyeka ukudumisa umkakhe ngenxa yokuthi unjalo emhlabeni. Konke lokhu kungenisa ukubandisa ebuhlotsheni futhi indoda nomfazi bahlukana ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Kulo mzuzu into enhle ingenzeka, umyeni angahamba noma aphuze. Uma owesifazane engakwazi ukubekezelela futhi akhononde kubangane ngomyeni wakhe, khona-ke umyeni ngeke akhononde kubangane, uvele ethola lapho ethanda khona futhi ecasulwa khona. Phela, inhlanzi ibheka, iphi lapho ejulile khona, kepha indoda ingcono.

Lapho izingane zizalwa, futhi umbuzo uvela ngokukhuliselwa kwabo. Umama njalo uzwela ingane yakhe, futhi ubaba uzama ukukhuphula ngendlela efanele, njll. ukujezisa iphutha. Ukuze kungabi enye inkinga yobungane bomshado, indoda nomfazi kufanele bathole uhlobo oluthile lokunciphisa, kodwa hhayi phambi kwezingane. Qonda ukuthi ufuna ukukhulisa izingane nokuthi ufuna ukukhulisa izingane, ukuze uyise angalahlekelwa isithunzi emehlweni abantwana bakhe, umama akufanele akhuphuke ekukhuliseni kwakhe. Phela, ngokubanzi, umyeni usalokhu engumholi womndeni.

Enye yezinkinga ezingaxazululwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ubuhlobo nomamazala nomamazala. Yebo, uma konke kuhle lapha, ubuhlobo bomndeni buyophumelela. Futhi uma kungenjalo, nomuntu omama othanda omama noma umkhwekazi uzohileleka ebuhlotsheni bomndeni. Khona-ke kufanele siphinde sibheke indlela yokuphuma kweso simo, ukuzama ukuqonda umamazala, naye, unomphefumulo nenhliziyo. Akafuni ukwenza noma yini embi, kodwa uyamthanda kakhulu indodana yakhe, futhi umalokazana wakhe njalo wenza konke okungahambi kahle. Uma umkhwekazi eqala ukukhuluma, udinga ukumomotheka futhi uvumelane, uvumelane nakho konke akushoyo. Futhi zama ukwenza abangane naye, kaningi ucele iseluleko ukuthi ungakwenza kanjani lokhu noma lokho. Nangu indoda ezoba nesikhathi esinzima kakhulu, yena nomkakhe abakwazi ukuqonda lokho akudingayo ngaso sonke isikhathi kuye, nomama kanomthetho nokunye okuningi. Uninazala uhlale ezwela ngendodakazi yakhe, sonke isikhathi ethi umyeni wakhe uwile engenamsebenzi. Uninazala angabhalwa kuphela futhi afakazele ukuthi ufanelwe indodakazi yakhe.

Kungenzeka ukubala izinkinga eziningi zobuhlobo bomshado, into ebaluleke kakhulu kukho konke lokhu ukuthanda nokuhlonelana nomunye nomunye futhi ukhumbule ukuthi ehhovisi lokubhalisa ufunga omunye nomunye ukuba ube ndawonye nosizi nenjabulo, ekuguleni nasempilweni.