Izingane, sezize enkulisa, zihlala zihlala isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa. Kodwa ngomntwana ngamunye isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa senziwa ngabanye. Kunezinkinga zokuguqula izingane ukuya enkulisa futhi zikhona ezimbalwa zazo. Uma ingane ingakashintshi enkulisa engakapheli unyaka, kuyisignali kubazali ukuthi ingane ayilungile futhi idinga usizo lochwepheshe wezengqondo. Ingane ngayinye iphendula ngokungafani nesimo esingajwayele, kodwa kunezinto ezijwayelekile.
Izinkinga zokulungiswa kwezingane ukuya enkulisa
Akulula ukujwayela isimo esisha ngumndeni kuphela emndenini, ikakhulukazi labo abangenakuvikeleka ngokweqile, abajwayele ukunakwa okukhethekile.
Okubi kunazo zonke ukuzwa enkulisa yilabo bantwana abanesimo sengqondo se-phlegmatic. Abahambisani nezinga lokuphila enkulisa. Bagqoka kancane kancane, babuthane emgwaqweni, badle. Kodwa uma uthisha engaziqondi lezi zingane futhi eqala ukuzwakalisa, futhi ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo ngesikhathi esifanayo kwenza ukuthi izingane zibe nokuvinjelwa nakakhulu, zingabi nandaba futhi zingabi nakakhulu.
Uma kwenzeka abazali beqaphele ukuthi ingane yabo ishintshe inkinga, kufanelekile ukukhuluma nomfundisi. Uthisha kulesi simo kufanele aqaphele kakhulu ukuba ngumntwana onjalo, qaphela ukuze ezinye izingane zingamhleki. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ukungafuni okungadingekile kumntanakho onjalo kungamthinta kakhulu ingane.
Izingane ezinezingxabano emindenini yabo, lapho abazali bengakhulumi nezingane, kunzima kakhulu ukuzivumelanisa ne-enkulisa. Izingane zifunda ukuziphatha okungalungile kwabazali futhi lokhu kuhlobanisa ubuhlobo babo nabangane babo. Izingane ezinjalo ngokuvamile zinobudlova. Uma ingane isifo esibuhlungu, kuyadingeka ukuyihlinzeka enkulisa hhayi ngaphambi kweminyaka emithathu.
Ukubheka kwezingane ngenkathi kulungiswa enkulisa kubonise ukuthi kunezinguquko emzimbeni wengane, esimweni sayo sokusebenza, ezihambisana nokuguqulwa okunamandla ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni komunye neminye imiboniso yomtholampilo. Eziningi zezingane zithinta ukuphikisana noma "ukuxwayisa kwezinto eziphilayo." Bangabonakaliswa ngesimo sokwesaba, ukukhala, ukungaboni kahle, ukuvimbela okujwayelekile noma izenzo ezinonya. Ngezinye izikhathi, umsebenzi womlomo kanye nokuxhumana nezingane kuncishisiwe kuze kube yilapho bephela. Izingane zilahlekelwa amanye amakhono athola ngaphambili. Abanye abantu bahlangabezana nezinkinga zokulala, nesifiso sinciphisa.
Kwezinye izimo, kukhona ukulibaziseka ekuthuthukiseni okungokwenyama nangokwengqondo kwezingane. Awukwazi ukwahlulela amakhono engqondo wengane ngesonto lokuqala lokuhlala enkulisa. Kukhona izinguquko zesimo somzimba ekuqiniseni isikhumba sesikhumba, ekulahlekeni kwesisindo, ekukhuleni kwenhliziyo.
Ezinganeni ezinezimo ezingenamkhawulo kanye nezingane ezivame ukugula, isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa singahambisana nemibono elandelayo yokuphazamiseka: i-enuresis (ukungabikho komchamo we-urinary), ukuqhuma kwezikhumba zesikhumba, ukuphazamiseka kwesitokisi, i-encopresis (ukungabikho kwesitoreji).
Imithetho kanye nemisebenzi yokusiza ukujwayela izingane ukuya enkulisa
Okokuqala, abazali kufanele bahlale bebuza uthisha ngokuziphatha kwengane yabo. Kubalulekile futhi ukukhuluma nengane. Uma izinguquko ekuphatheni kwengane, kubalulekile ukuthatha noma yiziphi izinyathelo.
Lapho uhlela umbuso wabantwana abangena ensimini, izinyathelo ezikhethekile kanye nemithetho evumayo evumelwane kufanele ihlonishwe. Zenzelwe isikhathi sokuzivumelanisa ukuze kunciphise isimo sezingane ezivame ukugula ngezimo ezithile zomngcele. Ukwamukelwa kwengane enkulisa kufanele kwenziwe nge-pedagogue kanye nodokotela wezingane. Lapho uhlola ingane, ulwazi mayelana nokuziphatha nesimo sezempilo, i-anamnesis yokuphila komntwana iqoqwe. Uma kunesidingo, ezinye izinyathelo ezengeziwe nazo ziqokwe.
Kukhona nemithetho ngesikhathi sokujwayela isiqondiso somntwana. Lesi yisikhathi esifushane sokuthola ingane. Kuye ngokuziphatha komntwana, isikhathi sanda kancane kancane. Ngomntwana, izindlela ezijwayelekile zokukhulisa zigcinwe. Lokhu kudla, ukulala, njll. Uvumele ingane ukuphumula isikhathi samahhala (ukuhlanganyela emakilasini noma cha, ukudlala yedwa noma wonke umuntu, njll). Izenzakalo ezikhethekile zihleliwe ezihloswe ukwenza lula ukuzivumelanisa ezinganeni ezivame ukugula.
Isikhathi sokujwayela izingane ukuya enkulisa ikakhulu kuncike ekuhlangenwe nakho kwothisha, ekulungiseleleni ingane kulo mcimbi ngabazali, ngezici zomuntu ngamunye.