I-Porno: bukela noma ungaboni ndawonye?

Isihloko esithakazelisayo kakhulu sezithombe zobulili ezingcolile: izinzuzo eziningi nokuhlukana okuningi okukhona kulesi sikolo. Kulesi sihloko sizocabangela, ukubuka izithombe zobulili ezingcolile kubathinta kanjani, kufanelekile ukufaka ividiyo engavunyelwe futhi uyibuke ndawonye?


Lapha ngenye yezimvo: "Ngicabanga ukuthi ukubukela izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ndawonye - sekuphelile !!!" Futhi amanzi ahlanzekile kakhulu, "Kungani abantu ngokuvamile behlanganyela kulokho kuhlambalaza, awuqondi kahle!"

Ngakho-ke, ake siqale ngokuthi "i-debriefing". Ngizocaphuna lonke leli catshulwa: "Kungase kuthiwa lena yimbono yokubukeka kwenkimbinkimbi. Kodwa nginguye ongifuni neze le mbumbulu ukuba ibe ekhanda lami nasekhanda lami ngesikhathi sezocansi zethu! Ingabe inikeza noma yimuphi umuzwa wokuthuthuka ebuhlotsheni bobulili nokuziqhenya ngokwabo "ngaphandle kwezinkimbinkimbi" ?? Angiyena umuntu ongenakuqhathanisa, kodwa kusukela ekunganeliseki okuphelele, kumelwe ngihambe ngandlela-thile! Futhi ungamfaki endlini futhi ikakhulukazi umbhede! "

Lapha kufanele wenze i-reso popovodu erotica, i-porn and uhlobo, okusho ukuthi, "ikhaya" (elisebenza kuphela endaweni yokudubula, ikhwalithi yayo nokubekwa, yebo, yebo, kunjalo) - akuyona into efanayo. Kodwa-ke, sithatha ukulingana nemigomo ye-etica kanye ne-porn, ngoba ayikho umehluko oqinile ezinchazeni (ikakhulukazi uma ucabanga ukuthi i-porn futhi iyenzeka ukuthi ilula futhi inzima nokuthi yikuphi okuningi).

Kungani kunjalo?

Okokuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, kufanele kuthiwe ukuthi izithombe zobulili ezingcolile aziba nomthelela omubi kubantu abakhele ukuziphatha, bafinyelele ekuvuthweni komphakathi. Ngakho-ke, zonke izinzuzo nezindleko zizocabangela kuphela lesi sigaba sabantu.

Ngakho-ke, kubantu abanobuhlobo noma ebuhlotsheni obude abaholele ekubambisaneni, umbono ohlangene wezinto zokwaziswa wezindaba uletha ukuphazamiseka okhethekile, itayite ebuhlotsheni kanye nokuphila ngokocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amafilimu e-pornography athatha izinguquko eziphathekayo nezingokwengqondo, phakathi kwazo:

  1. Ukuqedwa kwezinkimbinkimbi zalabo abasenayo ngesizathu esithile, okubaluleke kakhulu ekukhulumisaneni isikhathi eside. Kuthiwani ngezinkimbinkimbi zocansi nokutholakala kwezinye izintandokazi "ezintsha" kumngane wakho?
  2. Amafilimu e-Porn iyithuluzi lokuthola ulwazi ngobulili kubantu abashadile, ngoba isimo sengqondo esifanele ezintweni zokufundisa zedolobha elinjalo lingakhulisa impilo yobulili yabalingani ezingeni elisha.

Kusukela ohlangothini lwezengqondo yokwengeza "ukuhlambalaza" okunjalo empilweni yobulili bonke kwenza umuntu abe nomuzwa wokuthi ungumthandi noma umthandi wesigamu sakhe, ukuthi ukungcola kubalulekile ebuhlotsheni obude.

Ngokuqinisekile, abantu abaningi ngezinye izikhathi bafuna ukuvula futhi babone ifilimu-enye (ikakhulukazi okuqukethwe okukwenyukayo, lapho "isenzo esiqondile" kungeyona indawo yokuqala) ukuthola ukuzengqondo kwengqondo nokuthola uhlobo oluthile lokudonswa kokuthola okusha.

Futhi, injabulo etholwa ngokubukela ifilimu yekhwalithi iyinto engavamile, futhi izithombe nemisindo ekhanda kungeze kuphela ukuzondla nokuhleleka kwengqondo.

Ubani emicabangweni yakhe engazange aphuphe isicathulo socansi lweqembu (nje bheka kusuka ohlangothini, futhi, kucatshangwa!)? Noma emicabangweni yakho ungenza noma yini? Ngokufanayo, akukho ukuhlanekezela, umphumela wokuba khona (ngendlela efanele kudingekile kokubili) futhi ungafaka ifilimu kokuqukethwe kwe-XXX.

Futhi, ungabuka ngomqondo wokuhlekisa, ukuqonda izikhathi ezithile ngisho nokuhleka. Ingabe kufanelekile ukukhuluma ngenjabulo etholakalayo lapho ubukela ndawonye, ​​uma isilinganiso samabhayisikobho we-porn asilingana? Ukubuka okuhlanganyelwe kwe-porn kuyindlela yokulungisa okudingeka ufunde ukuyithatha nokuyisebenzisa.

Kungani?

Kodwa-ke, naphezu kwazo zonke izici ezinhle zalesi senzo, kunezikhalazo ezenza ucabange ngaphambi kokukwenza.

Ngesikhathi ubukela okuqukethwe kwevidiyo kwalababili, kungase kube nezinkinga ngokuqonda okufanayo: ubuhlobo kulokho okubonayo nokuzwayo kungahluka. Nakhu okunye okushiwo: "Ngeke ngibheke izithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingathandwa nguwe: Ngesinye isikhathi ngahleka kanjalo, kodwa wayejabule ... futhi akaqondi nakancane." Yilokho okungalindela abantu ababili, abahlelwe ngokuhlukile ukubuka okuqukethwe okufanayo.

Noma kunjalo: "Uma ubheka eyodwa, kubonakala kulula, akekho obuka ukuthi ubheka. Awvoyem, engaqondakali ngandlela-thile. " "Awunamanga" ngenye yezinye izikhathi ezingase zikuvumele ukuba uzikhulule ngokuthatha umcabango wokuhaha noma ukuthola ... Ukungaqondi omunye noma ukungathandi ukubonisa yena, ukudalula imfihlo yakho, okungaba yinto ephawulekayo ebuhlotsheni bobulili bomshado, yilokho ongalahlekelwa ngaphandle kokuzama. Nakuba udinga ukucophelela / oh, ukuze ungalimazi ngengqondo yakho / umlingani / ru. Le ngozi ingaphezulu kakhulu.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungabi nentshiseko kule ndaba, ngoba ngokweqile kuyoba nomthelela wezobufilimu ezinesithakazelo esikhulu kuzo. Lokhu kungabangela imiphumela emibi kakhulu njengokungabi khona kwesifiso "esijwayelekile" noma inqubo ngokwayo "ngaphandle kokukhishwa kabusha okungenayo."

Noma, nakhu okunye: "Kungokuthi ngezinye izikhathi kukushayela kunzima kunezandla zomuntu othandekayo futhi unikeza ubulili futhi ngezinye izikhathi kube nencazelo entsha ebuhlotsheni bakho." Konke kuhle ukulinganisela, kodwa, njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kuyisimo esinamandla esingokomzwelo, kepha uma ungenalo okungenani ukulungele, kungenza impilo yezocansi ibe yinkinga, ingasho ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo noma uhlobo oluthile lokuxhomeka.

Uma ubheka, kuthiwani?

Ngokumangazayo, uma ufaka umbuzo wosesho onjenge- "Porn for viewing together", "Izigaba ze-Porn", "Ezizalwe kahle" futhi ngisho "I-Erotica", "Ubulili obuhle", awukwazi ukuthola i-video yezinto okufunayo.

Kuzothatha isikhathi esiningi nemizamo ukukhetha (ngokunjalo) izinketho ezizokuvumelanisa nawe, nokuqukethwe, nokugqugquzela, kanye nesiteji, nekhwalithi. Ngokwethembeka, kusengenzeka ukwenza lokhu. Futhi ungacabangi ukuthi udinga ukubuka yonke ithrekhi ukuze uqonde: njengowe (owodwa) noma cha.

Uma, noma kunjalo, umbono wokubuka amafilimu alo hlobo ufika ngokuzenzekelayo (futhi kaningi kunalokho, ngaphandle kwesifiso sokumangaza umuntu wakho, ukumangala noma ukuqala i-spoor uma ebuya ekhaya kusuka emsebenzini noma okunjalo), lungele "ukubamba" isifiso sakho ngokukhawulelwa okwesikhashana, ngoba kuzodingeka ukuchithe ekutholeni ulwazi lwevidiyo olufanele.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kukhona izinto eziningi, kodwa okuqukethwe okungaphezulu (ngemuva kwakho konke, yilokho okudingayo kokubili) emithonjeni ekhishwayo.

Kungabe kubekhona okunye okunye?

Ukuzizwa ngokobulili noma i-dazhenakom kungalungiselelwa kalula ngosizo lwesihloko esinikezwe kulesi sihloko. Ngakho-ke, kanjani ukuhlukanisa ukuphila komndeni ngezindlela ezingcolile?

  1. Ungabeka izinto ezitholakalayo kumakhasi wesiphequluli (uma nje zigcinwa uma kuvaliwe-kuvulwa);
  2. Shiya isithombe se-intombazane enqunu kwideskithophu, isibonelo;
  3. I-hard drive iyifolda eyokhamuluka "Ngifumene, nangu ulwazi olwenqabelayo," futhi lokhu kungaba kokubili ividiyo nemifanekiso yezithombe;
  4. Shiya ifoni yakho oyintandokazi (nge-imeyili yezwi, ucingo) uhlobo olushukumisayo olushukumisayo, olucacile ngokocansi, ingoma noma iringithoni. Isikhathi esithakazelisayo, uma nje ngamahlaya (!) Ukuphatha;
  5. Vula ividiyo uma indoda ingena endlini futhi ibukeka yedwa;
  6. Vele ubheke ukucubungula noma ukukhanya okubucayi lapho kungekho khona izigcawu eziqanjiwe zokuthintana, izimo zobulili.

Ngakho konke okufanayo: Yebo noma cha?

Impela, umbuzo awusizo olula. Konke kuhlobene nalolu hlobo lobuciko: noma ngubani othanda lona. Kodwa uma ufingqa, kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi akukho ukuphutha okusobala okwenza okufanayo, futhi ngisho nokuphambene nalokho: ubulili ekubalukeleni kwawo kuthuthukisiwe, imfundo yezocansi ithuthuka, ukwethembela kwanda, ukuthokozisa ngokomzwelo ngomqondo omuhle waleli gama.

Kodwa futhi, ukungalungi kungakunqanda uma ungakakulungeli ukuphendula komuntu, uma ungasondelene noma unokuvuleka okuncane ebuhlotsheni bakho nezifiso zakho.

Kodwa yini engaba yingozi nakakhulu kocansi kunokuhlanganyela ifilimu yezocansi?