Kubonakala sengathi emphakathini wanamuhla, izinkomba ukuthi ukuphila kwaba impumelelo, kuyinzuzo engenayo kanye nomsebenzi ohloniphekile. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, abanye abaphathi banqabe ngamabomu ukuqhuma isiteleka somsebenzi. Yeka ukuphila komndeni okulinganiselwe kanye nosuku oluthile lokusebenza, naphezu kokulahlekelwa emholo. Kuyini-ukukhathala, ukunganaki? Cha! Namuhla, lokhu kuyinto yonke yomphakathi, okuthiwa i-downshifting.
Ngabe kunjalo?
"Ukunciphisa" ngokuhunyushwa kwangempela kusuka ngesiNgisi kusho "ukushintsha phansi." Izwi libolekwa esilulumagama sabashayeli: lokhu okuthiwa gear kushintshela esheshayo. Leli gama lanikezwe incazelo entsha ngemuva kokushicilelwa kwikhomishini eWashington Post ngoDisemba 31, 1991, ibizwa ngokuthi Life in a Downshift: Downshifting futhi New Look Success in the Nineties. Yayibhekisana nezinkinga ze-yagsha ye-classic - i-collar emhlophe neyifisa "emhlophe" ebhekisela kuwo amaphuzu ayisisekelo okubhekisela kuyo, ubuholi obuphezulu kanye nesimo sezenhlalakahle esihloniphekile. Lezi zimiso zithintana kakhulu: ukuhola okuqinile kuvumela ukulondoloza isithombe ezingeni elifanele, okuphinde likhuthaze phambili phambili.
Ekugcineni, wonke umqeqeshi we-careerist uba yimpango yesimo somuntu siqu, esebenzisa ingxenye yengonyama yengeniso yokuthola izinto ezenza izithombe. Ngemuva kwakho konke, uma ipeni ubhalisa izinkontileka ngezindleko ezingaphezu kwama-$ 50, awukwazi ukubheka emehlweni osebenza nabo namakhasimende ngaphandle kokuhlazeka. U-Yuppie ompofu uphoqeleka ukuba aqede ukujabula komndeni omncane nenjabulo ekuphileni kwakhe komuntu siqu. Abaningi bezobuchwepheshe baqothula emsebenzini: izindleko zamanxeba nokuvakashela kwengqondo ye-psychoanalyst zibe enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu zokusetshenziswa kwemali.
Kucatshangwa ukuthi isimo se-downshifting, njengendlela entsha yokuziqhenya kwabaphathi, senze izinkampani ezinkulu zokuphatha, lapho isisebenzi ngasinye singaphezu kwesisindo se-giant mechanism esisebenza ngaphakathi kohlaka oluqinile lwemithetho yezinkampani. Ezimweni ezinjalo, akukho lutho lomuntu siqu noma lokudala oluhlala kumuntu, kubonakala sengathi uyazilahlekela futhi uzibuze: "Kungani ngihlala khona?" Ukwehlisa phansi kuyindlela enhle yokuphula umbuthano ononya, ujabulele ukuphila njengasesebasha, lapha futhi manje, futhi ungahlehlise konke okusemandleni okwesikhashana.
Umqondo we-downshifting awuzalwanga ngo-1990, ekuqaleni kwalokho. Ngama-1960s no-1970, la mazwi ayehlobene kakhulu nemibono yama-hippies, umzabalazo wokuthula nokuphila kwemvelo. Ngo-1980, i-American Dune Elgin yazisa igama elithi "lula ngokuzithandela" - indlela yokuphila lapho umuntu enokuzinza ngokwanele kwezimali ukuze anelise izidingo ezingokomoya. Uma ubumpofu obuphoqelelwe kumkhawulo umuntu, "ukuzikhethela ngokuzithandela" kumnika inkululeko yokuzikhethela. Ukwehlisa phansi kuhilela ukuguqula umbuso "wokwaneliseka" nokuqonda ukuthi injabulo ayidingi imali eningi, ama-cottages, izimoto. Ngamafuphi, awudingi lutho olungaphezulu.
Imfihlo yabathandi beGoa
Ayikho isu elihle lokuhlaselwa phansi. Abanye baphuma emsebenzini onesizungu bese behamba behlala emzaneni, abanye bashintsha umkhakha wabo womsebenzi, bangene emsebenzini ezinhlanganweni zomphakathi kanye nezinsizakalo, kanti abanye beya esiqhingini esincane sezishisayo futhi baba abahlengikazi noma abaqaphi.
Kungenzeka ukulandelela izici zikazwelonke zokuhlaselwa phansi njengendlela entsha yokuziqhenya kwabaphathi. Ngakho-ke, eNgilandi kunemibala ekhanyayo yemvelo, futhi kugcizelelwa ekusetshenzisweni noma ekulimweni kwemikhiqizo ephilayo, ukusetshenzwa kwesibili kweraka, ukusindisa amandla. E-Australia, "ukugxila" kushintshela ekushintsheni indawo yokuhlala - abaphathi bahamba endaweni ekhudlwana, ephephile.
E-Ukraine, imfashini ye-downshifting yafika cishe eminyakeni eyishumi kamuva kunokwenyuka kwayo eNtshonalanga - mhlawumbe ngenxa yezizathu zomnotho. Lesi simo, njengamanye amathrendi amaningi angaphandle, abantu bakithi baqonde futhi bahumushe ngendlela yabo. Sinabo labo abakhetha ukuhlanganyela ebhizinisini elincane kunokuba "basebenzele umalume", kanye nabazimele abakhulu abaqeqeshiwe abanekhono nekhono elihle, kodwa abafuni ukuhlala ehhovisi nsuku zonke kusukela ngo-9: 00 kuya ku-18: 00, bazicabange ngokwabo , nakuba bengenayo ikhwalithi ebaluleke kakhulu! Phela, okushiwo phansi kwe-downshifting kuyindawo ephakeme emkhakheni wezemisebenzi, futhi ukuze wehle, kumele uqale ukuphakama kakhulu.
Kukhona, kodwa-ke, sinabokuqala abashiya esifundeni saseNdiya saseGoa futhi sihlala khona, emalini engenayo abayithola ngokuqasha indawo yokuhlala. Ucabanga ukuthi isizathu sendiza emazweni afudumele angenxa yokulangazelela ama-exotics? Akunjalo. Ukuncipha okungenani emadolobheni amakhulu kunkulu kakhulu kangangokuthi kunzima kakhulu ukugcina umndeni njengendlela yokuhlaselwa phansi. Lapha futhi kuyadingeka ukuba ushiye ezindaweni ezikude zaseNdiya lapho ukuphila ngezikhathi kungabizi.
Kodwa-ke, ukuze uzithole, akudingeki ukuba uphule umsebenzi wakho futhi ube ngumuntu ohluphayo. Abaningi bokuqala be-careerist bafuna ukuthola izindlela eziphansi zokuhlukumeza phansi: aziphuli umjikelezo ovamile wokuxhumana, abahambeli ukuphela kwezwe. Bavele baye endaweni efanayo kwenye inkampani, lapho kunemholo encane, kodwa kakade umbuthano wemisebenzi. Abesifazane bavame ukuhlala emsebenzini wabo, bashintshele imisebenzi yesikhathi esithile noma bavumelane ngesimiso esivumelana nezimo.
Kodwa-ke, izazi zengqondo zilandelela ukubaluleka okubalulekile: isikhathi eside umuntu ephila "hhayi ngokuphila kwakhe," ekuqapheliseni imigomo ebekwe omunye umuntu, uguqukela kakhulu izimiso zokuba khona kwakhe.
Ama-daunshifters anokuhlangenwe nakho aluleka umuntu ukuba acabange ngalokho akufunayo ngempela, ukukhumbula amaphupho wabantwana nezingane bese ufaka isiteji esisha, lapho ungaqala ... ukuvuka futhi.
Isithombe se-Downshifter
Ukuhlehlisa phansi ukubonakaliswa kwamandla noma ubuthakathaka? Yiziphi abaphathi abavame ukushintsha izimpilo zabo? Izazi zengqondo kanye nezinhlalo zomphakathi zihlukanisa amaqembu amathathu.
Owokuqala uhlanganisa abaphathi abaye baba iziboshwa zokufaka kwabazali. Yisho, intombazane, ukulalela umama nobaba, yangena esikoleni somthetho ukuba ibe "isazi esilandelayo" noma nje umphathi ojwayelekile, ithole umsebenzi engathandanga, kodwa yenza ngokukholwa okuhle, okuyinto njalo ithola ukukhushulwa nokwanda kwimiholo. Yena emva kwabo bonke abaphelele: abazali, isikole, isikhungo, isikhulu - bonke bamfundisa ukuba benze imisebenzi ephelele kahle. Futhi bafundisa ... Kodwa ngokuzumayo uyaqaphela ukuthi akajabuli, akasebenzi, noma umsebenzi, noma akhule emholo, futhi uyashada ... abe ngumama wendlu, futhi ngaleyo ndlela awela ekuthembekeni ngokuphelele kumlingani wakho!
Iqembu lesibili lihlaziya ukuhlaselwa phansi, ngoba alikwazi ukubhekana nokucindezeleka ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ukuze ufike emigwaqeni yamalanga amahora amahora amabili ukusuka ekhaya ukuya emsebenzini, bese ubuya, futhi uneliswe kanye ngonyaka ngeholidi lezinsuku ezimbili, udinga ngempela impilo ephawulekayo.
Isigaba sesithathu sabahlukumezi bahlanganisa nalabo asebevele bedlala amawashi abizayo, izimoto futhi banquma ukuthi imali eyothola iyokwanela ngisho nabazukulu besikhathi esizayo futhi sekuyisikhathi sokwenza okuthile ngomphefumulo. Abantu abanjalo bashiya ibhizinisi lobuciko, usizo noma ukwelulekwa.
Ngokuvamile isinqumo sokuthi i-downshifting ihambelana nenkinga yobudala obuphakathi. Vala abantu abahlali njalo basekela i-careerist yefilosofi futhi bacabange ukuhlukunyezwa kwakhe ngokomzwelo njengokukhathazeka nobuvila. Kodwa-ke, isifiso sokunciphisa umthwalo osindayo wokusebenza nokushintsha ukugxila ekuthuthukiseni kwangaphakathi noma empilweni kungukubonakaliswa kwesimo sengqondo esisebenzayo ngokuphila komuntu! Kodwa ukuzinikela ekuziphatheni kwezenhlalakahle okudinga okuthile okuzofakazela kwabanye njalo ukuvumelana ngokujwayelekile.
Ubani ovame ukuwa phansi - amadoda noma abesifazane? Akukho ulwazi oluqondile. Kubonakala sengathi leli qhinga lihambisana nobulili obuhle kakhulu: ukushiya umsebenzi ngenxa yomndeni kanye nezingane. Esinye isizathu "sezinsikazi" sokuhlukunyezwa komzimba wukuthi abafazi abathandekayo abafuni ukuthola okungaphezu kwamadoda abo. Nakuba, ngakolunye uhlangothi, amadoda awakhuliswa "njengabavukuzi" ajoyina kalula umncintiswano wesihloko esithi "Umnikazi wemoto ebiza kakhulu" futhi ekugcineni ... hamba kude nokukhathala.
Kodwa-ke, namuhla, ukwehlisa phansi kuye kwaba yindlela yokufashisa, futhi, mhlawumbe, abanye abaqeqeshiwe bazoyilandela ngoba nje kuyimfashini.
Yilungele ...
Yini okudingeka ukwazi mayelana nomuntu ohlela ukuba abe phansi? Okokuqala, kufanele azikhethele ukuthi ufuna yini ukuhlala umhlalaphansi noma amapulani okubuyela. Ngempela, ithemba elibonakala sengathi lihle kakhulu ngesikhathi lingase liphele ... Noma kuzobe kukhona izinto ezintsha zokusebenzisa imali: kuzodingeka ukuthi ukhokhele imfundo yezingane, okuzodingeka ukuthi iphinde ihlanganyele emncintiswaneni wezemidlalo.
Gcina engqondweni: Abaqashi abaningi basolisa abahlukumezi. Uma umuntu eseke washiya umsebenzi wakhe, kuphi isiqiniseko sokuthi ngeke aphinde ashintshe amanani ezinkampani? Kungcono ukwenza yonke imizamo yokugcina idumela lobuchwepheshe futhi, uma kungenzeka, ukuguqula i-zigzag emsebenzini wakhe. Izizathu ezihloniphekile yizifo noma izimo zomndeni.
Ngeke ukwazi ukwenza isinqumo mayelana nokuhlehlisa phansi ngemuva kokucindezeleka kokukhathazeka noma ukukhathala okukhulu. Kungcono ukuthatha iholide futhi uhlole ngokucophelela izinzuzo nezingozi. Kungaba kuhle ukwenza itafula ngokufaka izinzuzo nezingozi zomsebenzi wamanje nohlongozwayo emagrafu ahlukene. Esikhundleni semishwana evamile kudingeka usebenzise ulimi oluthile, isibonelo umusho othi: "Ngizoba nesikhathi esengeziwe samahhala" kungcono esikhundleni senye: "Nsuku zonke ngizoba namahora ayisithupha esikhathi samahhala." Ukuze uhlole amathemba amasha wezezimali, kuyasiza ukuhlomisa nge-calculator futhi uhlobanise izinga leholo elilindelekile nezindleko ezikhona.
Kodwa into ebaluleke kakhulu ukulalela izwi langaphakathi nokuqonda izidingo zakho zangempela, ukuphendula umbuzo: "Ngibona kanjani ukuphila kwami okujabulisayo?" Khona-ke kubalulekile ukukholelwa kuwe futhi ukunqobe ukwesaba okungaziwa. Izinkulungwane zabantu zihlanganyela ebhizinisini elingathandwa, isibonelo, ukuphathwa, ngoba nje abaqiniseki ukuthi bayophumelela futhi bajabule, benze lokho abaphuphayo ngokuphila kwabo bonke! Awufuni ukujoyina amaqembu abo? Fantasize, zama ukuzicabangela esikhathini esizayo, lapho izwe elifunayo lizofinyelelwa khona.
Futhi, yiqiniso, ulungiselele imiphumela engalindelekile. Isibonelo, ufuna ukuzinikela isikhathi esiningi kubangani nomndeni, uzothola ngokuzumayo ukuthi lokhu akunakwenzeka. Ngoba uma ukhululekile, wonke umuntu ... umatasa.