Abesifazane banezizathu eziningi zokukopela kunamadoda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izimpawu zangaphandle ze-orgasm kwabesifazane azibonakali njengabantu.
Okokuqala, abesifazane benza sengathi i-orgasm ukuze bangamcasuli umlingani wabo. Phela, abesifazane abaningi banesizathu esingenasidingo sokuqala ibhizinisi elingakafinyelelanga isiphetho sayo esinengqondo futhi yonke imizamo yomuntu ichithekile. Owesifazane okhaliphile angathanda ukuzenza sengathi uphilile naye, hhayi ukuhlambalaza.
Esinye isizathu esenza abesifazane babonise i-orgasm kungase kube nje ukungabi nesifiso sokusondelana. Kodwa ngaphansi kwengcindezi yendoda owesifazane uvuma, bese ezenza sengathi uqede konke lokhu, ekugcineni. Isizathu salokhu kuziphatha kungase kube ukukhathala, isifiso sokulala noma ukugula kwengane nezinye izizathu eziningi.
Esinye isizathu esenza abanye besifazane bakhethe ukukhohlisa labo abakhethiweyo bakholelwa ekutheni bangaphansi kwabo. Abaningi besaba ukuzwa icala lokuqina uma bengenayo i-orgasm.
Izimbangela zokufaniswa kwamadoda.
Amadoda, kanye nabesifazane, abafuni ukucasula umlingani wabo. Akekho wamadoda ofuna ukuzwa icala elingamthandi ngokwanele, ukuthi unenkosikazi. Phela, ukungabi nalutho lwe-orgasm kumuntu, ngoba owesifazane usho ukungathandeki komuntu siqu.
Ezinye izizathu zingase zibe izinkinga emsebenzini, okungeke akwazi ukukusiza kodwa akhumbule ngisho nangesikhathi sokusondelana. Angakwazi nje ukukhathala. Kwabanye, utshwala bungenza uhlobo lwe-anesthetic, futhi ngisho nomthamo omncane walo kungabangela izinkinga nge-ejaculation, okungeke kwenzeke. Kodwa kusukela eqala, ufuna ukugcwalisa isenzo socansi endaweni ephakeme kakhulu, ngisho nangenkohliso.
Uma ukukhohlisa kuveziwe.
Akumelwe neze ugijimane ngokumangalelwa komunye nomunye, uma ngokungazelelwe waqala ukungabaza i-orgasm yomunye. Kuhlale kungcono ukuthola isizathu sokuziphatha okunjalo komlingani, ukuzama ukuthola ukuthi yini ejabulisa kakhulu futhi uhlobo luni lomusa olwamukelekayo. Ngesikhathi esizayo ungazama ukutshela omunye, noma ukhomba isandla sakho, ubonise lokho okudingayo.
Uma wazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi umlingani wakho manje unomsebenzi omningi, esikhundleni sokusola ukuthi ungazwelana nomsebenzi wakhe futhi uzame ukukhulula ukukhathazeka nokukhathala. Mhlawumbe ukushisa okubukeka kahle okuzosiza umuntu ukuba azi kangcono izimpahla ezifihlekile zomzimba wakhe. Umlingani uzokubonga ngalokhu nangesikhathi esizayo, esikhundleni sokukopela, mhlawumbe ngokushesha uyavuma ukuthi namuhla awukwazi ukukujabulisa.
Futhi uma ubona ukuthi izinkinga ngokujula zivele ngokuphindaphindiwe, khona-ke ungakwazi ukubuza ngobumnene, ngenxa yalokho okwenzekayo futhi ikululekele ukuba uye kumhlengikazi udokotela.
Ingabe kukhona umqondo ngokuziqhenya.
Ngokuqinisekile abantu abaningi baye bazwa mayelana nokuqinisekiswa: bhala phansi imisho ethile eyenza isimo sengqondo esihle, bese uphinda njalo. Ekugcineni, ingqondo engaqondakali ihlelwe ukwenza uhlelo lubekwe kanjalo, futhi umuntu uphumelela umphumela. Ezinye izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi ukulinganisa okuqhubekayo ngokungabikho kwe-orgasm kungaholela ekuqinisweni ukuthi kusekhona. Kodwa-ke, abacansi be-sexologists bathi ukukhohlisa kudukisa umngane ongakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi yini ekunika injabulo.
Kodwa, njengoba usuqagele kakade, kuhlale kudingekile ukuba usebenze esimweni, uqhubeke nezimo zekhonkolo.
UJulia Sobolevskaya , ngokukhethekile isayithi