Okuhlangenwe nakho
Indoda idonseleka kakhulu ekuhlangenwe nakho kanye nengqondo yowesifazane. Emantombazaneni amancane, ubuwula kanye nokungabi nalutho kuvame ukufihla ukubonakala okubuhlungu. Ngakho-ke, ukubukeka komodeli kuphela akukwazi ukwanelisa umuntu. Lapho insizwa ihlangana nomuntu omdala, uyohlale enesithakazelo. Uzokwazi ukufunda izinto eziningi ezintsha, futhi futhi uzokwazi ukufunda kusuka ekuhlangenwe nakho okungase kube usizo kuye ekuphileni. Amadoda avame ukujabula kakhulu ngengxoxo ethakazelisayo. Insizwa encane eneminyaka yobudala ingaxoxa kuphela ngemiboniso yeTV, izingubo nezinye izinto eziyiziphukuphuku. Owesifazane omdala uzothola isihloko esithakazelisayo, futhi ufuna ukulalela, okubaluleke kakhulu. Anganikeza futhi iseluleko esifanele nesidingekayo.
Abesifazane abadala bavele benolwazi lobuhlobo obukhulu, bayazi ukuthi baziphathe njani njengendoda. Ngokuvamile abavame ukugubha izidumbu. Owesifazane omdala unokuzilibazisa kanye nezithakazelo zakhe. Ngakho-ke, uma insizwa ifuna ukuchitha ubusuku neqembu labangane, ngeke ihlele ukuhlambalaza futhi ngokuqinisekile izothola okuthile okufanele uyenze. Owesifazane okhulile uyazi, lapho ukuphila okuhlangene kunamatshe angaphansi kwamanzi futhi uyakwazi ukuwadlula. Ngakho-ke, ukuphila nomuntu omdala kuyabuhlungu futhi kuthula.
Owesifazane ovuthiwe uyakwazi ukuphumula. Angeke adakwe ukungabi nalutho, bese edansa esigxotsheni. Abesifazane abadala abakuthandi ukuhlala njalo. Ngaphandle kwama-nightclub, banesithakazelo embukisweni, emidlalweni yeshashalazi noma emakhonsathi e-jazz. Indoda akufanele ihlazeke ngumuntu omdala futhi ingabazisa ngokuthula kubangane bayo.
Esinye sezici eziyinhloko ekukhetheni owesifazane omdala omdala omdala, unolwazi oluhle kulo lonke ubulili. Kubuhlobo obunjalo ukuthi insizwa ingaba indoda yangempela. Abesifazane abadala bakhululekile kakhulu, banesibindi futhi banethemba. Unamandla okujabulela ubudlelwano bobulili futhi angayithumela kumlingani wabo. Kumaphupho noma ukuhluleka ngeke kugxilise amehlo. Abesifazane abanjalo abanqikazi ukukhombisa umzimba wabo futhi balungele ukuhlolwa okuhlukahlukene. Amantombazane amancane, ngisho nokuqala ukuhlala ngokocansi, abathandi abathandekayo. Isikhathi sobulili besifazane senziwa iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-30. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abadala baheha abantu abaningi.
Owesifazane oneminyaka yakhe ngokuvamile usevele enezingane futhi uyazi kahle ukuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe ukuze ingabonakali. Uma umuntu eqala ukuhlangana nentombazane encane, khona-ke ngokuvamile kuvame ukukhulelwa okungadingeki. Futhi kaningi kakhulu umbuzo womshado kanye nobaba. Ngomuntu omdala, lezi zikhathi zingagwenywa. Abadingi isitembu epasipoti futhi ungafisi izingane.
Ukuzethemba nokuzimela
Ngokuvamile owesifazane ovuthiwe umi ngokuzethemba ezinyaweni zakhe, unomsebenzi oqinile kanye neholo. Akabambeli muntu obhekene nokuphila kwakhe kanye nenhlalakahle yakhe yempahla. Abesifazane abadala bazithembela kuphela ngokwabo nangamandla abo. Indoda ebuhlotsheni obunjalo akufanele ihlale icabanga ngemali futhi ikhokhe konke.
Abesifazane abadala bavame ukuba nefulethi elinikeziwe futhi izinkinga eziningi zezindlu zendlu ziyawa. Awudingi ukukhathazeka ngendawo yokuhlangana nokuphila. Zivamise kakhulu ukuthi ziyi-mercantile. Abesifazane abadala banesithakazelo ekukhulumisaneni, ubungane, ukunakekelwa, ukuncoma kanye nobulili ngokwemvelo. Kodwa abadingi imali yendoda, engakwazi ukushiwo ngabantu abasha nabangafundile.
Ebudlelwaneni obunjalo, akudingeki ukuthi njalo usho amazwi othando futhi uqinisekise imizwa yabo. Abesifazane abavuthiwe bazizethemba futhi abazidingi. Ngeke bahlale bedlala ngothando isikhathi eside futhi befihla imizwa evela kumuntu omthandayo. Owesifazane uzohlale ekwazi ukuthi uthanda umuntu noma cha. Ukuqondana kudonsela indoda kakhulu.
Owesifazane omdala uhlakaniphile ngokwanele futhi ngeke avimbele inkululeko yalowo muntu. Ngaphambi kwabo ngeke kudingekile ukuziphendulela kuzo zonke izinyathelo abazithathayo nokubika ngaso sonke isikhathi, wenza ibhizinisi nokuthi yikuphi okwenzayo. Yilokho ukuziphatha kwamantombazane amancane okuholela ekuphuleni ebuhlotsheni. Abesifazane abadala akudingeki ukuthi insizwa ibe namahora angama-24 ngosuku. Ayinayo imibono engenalutho futhi iyaqonda ukuthi wonke umuntu uneziphambeko futhi kumele akwazi ukuyibekezelela. Ngakho-ke, ukwakha ubudlelwane nabesifazane asebekhulile kulula futhi kuzinzile ngokwengqondo.
Ubungane besifazane
Uma ubheka amantombazane amancane, banamantombazane amaningi. Kusetshenziswa isikhathi esanele ekukhulumisaneni ocingweni noma kumanethiwekhi omphakathi. Amantombazane amancane bathanda ukuhlangana futhi baxhumeke kaningi. Umbono wezintombi kubaluleke kakhulu emikhubeni yomlingani. Izinto eziningi, ngisho nezintombi ezithandana kakhulu, zivame ukukhuluma phakathi kwabo. Amadoda amaningi konke lokhu kuyacasula futhi akuhambisani nawe.
Kukhona abesifazane abambalwa kakhulu kunabesifazane, futhi bonke bangempela futhi bahlolwa isikhathi. Zonke izinqumo zenziwe ngokuzimela ngaphandle kwezingcebiso kanye nezingxoxo. Amantombazane, ngisho noma bengenelisekile ngobuhlobo bomuntu omdala nomfana osemusha, abakunikeli.
Ukuzwelana okuncane
Abesifazane abadala bayakwazi ukuvimbela imizwa yabo, ikakhulukazi imizwelo emibi. Amantombazane amancane avame ukuthambekela ekuziphatheni okweqile nokungahlambuluki. Bakhathazeka nge-nail ephukile noma uma othandekayo engaphenduli ucingo. Abesifazane abadala bayakuthanda kakhulu imithwalo yegazi futhi bazame ukungakhathazeki futhi. Ngisho nasezikhathini ezibucayi bazama ukuzola.
Abesifazane abadala bayazi ukuthi bayakwazisa kanjani isikhathi esichithwe nendoda. Ukunakekelwa, ukunakwa nezipho azithathwa kalula. Abesifazane abanjalo bayakwazi ukubonga. Bayakwazisa isimo sengqondo futhi bazame ukuwavikela ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ukuthuthukiswa okunokwenzeka kobuhlobo phakathi komuntu omdala nomfana osemusha
Owesifazane omdala angakhathala ubudlelwane nomuntu osemusha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kuhlale njalo kubaluleke kakhulu futhi kuhlakaniphile. Owesifazane uzokhamba ngokushesha noma kamuva ufuna ukuthembela ehlombe eliqinile.
Ubudlelwane bungabuye buhlakazeke ngaphansi kwethonya lesilisa. Insizwa, ekhulayo futhi ezuza ulwazi, iqala nokubukeka ngokuphila kancane kancane. Ngakho-ke, ukuzethemba ngokwengeziwe, angase afune ukuba nobuhlobo namantombazane amancane. Futhi, abazali bomuntu osemusha, cishe, bazobe behlukana ngokumelene nomuntu omdala. Bayomisa indodana yabo bese bezama ukuhlukanisa ngazo zonke izindlela.
Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi umahluko omkhulu weminyaka kaningi umcimbi wokukhathala okwesikhashana. Ukungqubuzana nokuhlangenwe nakho, imikhuba, isimo sengqondo noma isimo sezenhlalakahle ngokushesha kuzokwenzeka nakancane.
Uthando olungathandeki luzithoba kubo bonke ubudala. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umehluko oneminyaka yobudala, ungakha ubuhlobo obuqinile nohlala njalo.