Noma yini abakushoyo ngokulingana ngokobulili, kodwa ezinhlangothini eziningi, isundu sinikwa amadoda njengendlela ejwayelekile yolwazi namakhono ahlukene kakhulu. Okubangela kakhulu ukuzihlonipha kwamadoda futhi kuvumela ukuba ubukhulu babo bube bukhulu futhi buhleleke ngokuhlelekile ukuxoxa ngezenzo zabesifazane, izici zokubukeka nomlingisi, ukuhumusha konke ngendlela yabo nokunquma umusho.
Umuntu ofanelekayo uziphatha kahle, ukuphelela kwakhe ngokomoya nangokwenyama akuhambisani nokugxekwa. Ukuziphatha okuhle nokuzijabulisa kujabulisa amaphutha amancane nokubuthakathaka, noma kunalokho ukholelwa ukuthi akanayo. I-moralist ekahle ingumgxeka omkhulu ngokushiyeka kwabesifazane. Futhi konke lokhu ukugxekwa okukude kakhulu akubhekiswe ekupheleleni komzimba nangokwenyama kwabafazi. Eqinisweni, lokhu kungumcube owodwa oqhubekayo.
Uju, kungani ulinganisa le ngubo? ... Uju, hhayi ngesibalo sakho. Futhi kungcono ukufihla imilenze yakho ngaphansi kwezingubo zakho. Yebo, izinwele akulutho, kodwa kusobala ukuthi hhayi ngobuso bakho, izihlathi ziphuma ngaphandle kwezindlebe zazo. Lalela, kungani udinga ukwakheka? Yini engalungile, ngale ndlela ayikho kakhulu. O, Nkosi, ukhuluma kangaki: Angazi, ungahambi. Konke kuphenduke phansi. Kungani uchitha imali eningi ukhilimu? Sula imibimbi yakho isivele idinga ukuqhuma umusi. Owesifazane ngemuva kwesondo? - Nakanjani imonkey nge-grenade. Uma kwakuyintando yami, ngingavimbela abesifazane ukuba baqhube ngemuva kwesondo ngaphansi kokuhlupheka kokufa. Yebo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usencane kangakanani, umama, kodwa ubudala, uzizwa uzizwa. Akuyona intombazane, ngemuva kwakho konke, kodwa konke kuyimidlalo, konke kugqoka. Futhi awukwazi ukufihla isisindo esengeziwe ngezingubo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima kangakanani. Yebo, ungakhali. Ungakhali. Nginani. Ngiyakuthanda futhi njengami. Bheka ukuthi bangaki abasondelene nabo. Awunaso isikhathi sokuphuma emgwaqeni, omakoti abangakwazi ukuzitholela ngokwabo entanyeni yakho. Vele unikeze ngokwakho futhi ungangabazi, futhi uhlakaniphile, futhi uhle, futhi uvikelekile. ... Kodwa akekho ofunayo. Ngoba amadoda ajwayelekile, kanye noma kabili kanye nakho konke. Abesifazane kukhona okuningi kakhulu. Akukwanele kuwo wonke amadoda, akwanele. Kodwa mina, angiyikuhamba. ... Nakuba nginakho amathuba amaningi kakhulu namathuba amaningi kangaka! Sigijimela masinyane esitolo ukuze ubhiya nogwayi. Yini? Ubusuku egcekeni. Ngakho-ke? Ubani okudingayo? Ngokushesha, ama-dashes amancane, usengathenga izinhlanzi ubhiya. Unayo okwanele i-pantyhose? Futhi uchithaphi umholo wakho? Umholo wami? Yebo, ngifaka konke emotweni. Uthanda ukugibela, uthando kanye nesithandwa sokuthwala. ... Awu, lokho kwagijima? Lalela, cabanga okuthile kokudla. Ingabe ikhona isaladi izolo? Uyidla ngokwakho. O, ngikhathele namuhla, umhlane wami uyabuhlungu. Khumbula umhlane wami. Amandla awela? Kungani? Ukukhathele emsebenzini ukuze uhlale? Futhi uma uhamba ngezithuthi zomphakathi, futhi ungenaye emotweni? Lalela, yini esinayo ngefriji? Igoba njenge-locomotive ye-steam. Uke wangicela ukuthi ngibheke? Ngabe ngibukeka njengesiqandisisi? Inkosi ayizange izame ukubiza? Ingabe iminyango ihamba eduze kwekhabethe? Linda, kodwa kufanele ngikwenze nini lokhu?
Konke lokhu okushiwo, ukusola nokuhlaselwa, njengamanzi kuvuselela ukuthula kwengqondo yowesifazane, kugubha phansi phansi kwezinyawo zakhe. Futhi lapha, ngokuqondile, ulele ugibe olufanayo. Qinisekisa owesifazane ophansi kwakhe kanye nezinkimbinkimbi ukuze owesifazane oqotho emisindo yokuqala yezwi lomuntu afike enkosini njengoSivka Burka, ukuze ithimba lizokwenza ngesikhathi sokuqala futhi mhlawumbe ngaphandle kokungabaza. Ukuthandaza nsuku zonke nokuhlelekile, ukuthi uhlala nomlimi, futhi akulona owodwa, njengabaningi abaseduze. ... Ukuthi uyakuthanda lokhu, hhayi okuphelele, omile, onobuwula, onobuhle. Kodwa empeleni, zingaki izilingo ezungeze? Zombili zihlakaniphile futhi zinhle. Amakhulu abesifazane abheka indoda eyodwa kuphela. Kuhle futhi ukuthi yini, nokuthi uphinde uphuza? Kodwa wafika ekhaya, hhayi kwabesifazane. Ngumuphi ungeke ukwazi ukukhipha udoti? Ukhathele, into empofu emsebenzini. Ingabe i-TV ayisebenzi? Ingabe i-iron iyakha? Akukho, ngizobiza umninimzi. Kulaba bantu abakhethekile lapho. Nkulunkulu, kuthiwani uma bephumula ngosuku olulodwa? Yeka inhlanhla enginayo. Umnyango olandelayo nje. Ulele nje embhedeni. Usanda nje emlonyeni. O, wangibamba kabili ngaphambi kokulala! Futhi ufake amasokisi ethanini ngamanzi angcolile, hhayi njengokujwayelekile, phakathi kwekamelo.
Ukuziqhenya nokuzithoba, ukungena ngaphansi kwezinto eziphansi kuyangena enyameni nasegazini lomfazi. Ukuphoqelelwa ukwenza i-samoyedstvom, kunqabe ukuzethemba. Ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa nokugqilaza kuza. Indoda iba yinkosi yezwe elincane kanye noNkulunkulu, ukudonsa njalo futhi ngobuhlakani emidlalweni yezinkampani zamakhosikazi nokwesaba. Futhi lona wesifazane ugijimela kuye owodwa kuphela futhi wakhiwe eqenjini lokuqala, nangenxa yobhiya, nasesifundweni, futhi ugeze imoto, futhi uphathe udoti. Baba, wazi indawo yakho. Ngelinye ilanga izwe lonke phambi komfazi livutha into eyodwa: Futhi ngidinga bani? Yebo, okungenani kubo. Futhi okokuqala kimi. Emva kwakho konke, wanciphisa ngamahlaya, futhi wahlabelela izingoma, wadansa, futhi wayegqoka izingubo eziqinile. Futhi kwakungeyona into evamile, eyingqayizivele, eyedwa. Konke, konke okwachithwa, kwakuphelile. Akuzange kube okuthakazelisayo, kwakuyinto efana nokuphanga ephoqelelwe ekhoneni futhi eqeqeshwe kahle. Futhi umzingeli awuthandeki kakhulu. Yini enkukhu yakhe, uyithathe? I-hen ayiyona inyoni. ... Kodwa wayeyinyoni. Futhi wahamba kanjani? Ilahlekile. Ilahlekile isikhala isikhathi. Awu, uma uyingxenye, kodwa uma uphelele? Akuyona into ethakazelisayo, esimweni sokucindezeleka okungapheli nokukhathala, esiteshini sokuphila se-fucking. Kodwa kuthiwani ngokuzithuthukisa, ingokomoya, ukuzithuthukisa, ukukhula ngokomoya nangomuntu siqu? Futhi inkukhu ngokuzenzekelayo yenza umzamo omkhulu wokugcina. Kodwa ukuhleka usulu kuyashesha: Uya kuphi? Uya kuphi nemfundo yakho? Ngayo imilenze? Ubuchopho, njll. Ungakholwa. Uyizinyoni. Unomqondo omuhle futhi omuhle. Futhi umuntu ngamunye unethalente ngendlela yakhe futhi angakhula futhi athuthukise konke ukuphila kwakhe. Zijabulise wena nabanye. Futhi phakathi kwe-borscht, izimbiza, izingane kanye nokuhlanza indlu kumelwe kube yizwe labesifazane. Izwe eligcwele ukuvumelana, injabulo nokuzilibazisa. Futhi uma umuntu ethanda ngempela, khona-ke uzoqonda. Vele ukhulume naye. Kuyinto eqinile futhi ezolile ukuthi wena, kanye naye, unelungelo lokuthola isikhala samahhala nesikhathi sakho siqu, ukuphumula nokuzilibazisa, ukuhlonipha nokubonga. Futhi uma konke kusabela kuzo zonke izifiso zakho zokuzithuthukisa nokuzihlonipha, indoda yakho iguqula umunwe ethempelini lakhe. Kulungile-ke. KuKesari okukaKhesari, kwenzelani. Shiya umthwalo okukudonsa phansi. Kuye, awukwazi ukugibela ogwini olusimangalisayo oluthiwa injabulo. Asikwazi ukuthokoza ngomunye umuntu, kuphela thina.