Ungacabanga ukuthi ngelinye ilanga, elilodwa elikhanyayo, elimangalisayo futhi elihle kunawo wonke ukusho usuku olubalulekile, ifoni yakho ilele noma i-doorbell rang, futhi uzwa izwi lowesifazane efonini noma uvula umnyango, futhi kukhona owesifazane omi lapho. Ukhuluma ngokuzethemba nangokuthula, egcina ngokugcwele, ngesithunzi, futhi ekutshela ukuthi ungumthandi womyeni wakho othandekayo.
Yiqiniso, okokuqala uzofika esimweni sokushaqeka. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi bonke abesifazane basabela kulokhu ngezindlela ezahlukene. Ungagubha ama-hysterics, uqale ukukhamuluka nokukhala, ungakwazi nje ukumemeza, ukumomotheka ukuvala umnyango phambi kwekhala lakhe. Awukwazi ukubona lokhu kusabela noma ulindele ezinye izenzo ezithile, ngoba ngeke uqagele ukuthi uzoziphatha kanjani ngalesi sikhathi.
Sonke, besifazane, singaqonda ukuthi singalimaza kanjani izinto ezinjalo ngomyeni wakho. Kulesi simo, ukushaya kakhulu akuyona owesifazane, owafika ukuzofuna amalungelo kumlingani wakho othandekayo, okungukuthi umuntu ongakushintsha wena no-zavedublyubnitsu. Kusobala ukuthi kuyoba nzima ukuzola, kepha kudingeka uzame ukukwenza. Futhi uma uthatha ukuphefumula kancane bese ufika ezinhliziyweni zakho, bese ucabanga ukuthi kungani lo wesifazane ongaziwa eza kuwe?
Ngokwemvelo, inkosikazi yomngane wakho womshado, owayengenakho ukwesaba futhi engenakho konke ukungabi nandaba kwafika endlini yakho futhi watshela ukuthi umyeni wakho ukopela naye, ulindele ukubona abakhohlisi bakho, ukukhala, izinyembezi nokubaluleke kakhulu, uthemba ukuthi uzohlukanisa nomyeni wakhe. Futhi ngokuqinisekile uyoqala ukuphikelela kulokhu. Phela, imishado eminingi yahlukana ngenxa nje yokuthi abesifazane abaningi babengenakho ukuhlakanipha kwabesifazane, futhi babengenakuqonda ngokucophelela ukuthi yini eyenza inkosikazi yomyeni wayo ifike ekhaya.
Kufanele uqonde ukuthi empeleni umthandi usesimweni esibi nakakhulu kunokuba ungumfazi osemthethweni. Mye abone iphupho, asebenzise ukudla kwakhe kanye nokudla, ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nobusuku. Myeke ahlale naye e-nightclub, ezitolo zokudlela, kodwa wonke amaholidi omndeni, okuvame ukuchitha abantu nomndeni nabasondelene naye, uchitha yedwa, ekuziqhenyeni kwakhe okuziqhenya.
Cabanga nje ukuthi ingakanani umthandi angakwazi ukuthanda kuphela hhayi ukuhlonipha, kodwa ngisho nokuzonda umfazi lapho umyeni ngandlela-thile eyengeziwe isikhathi nomfazi, lapho umyeni ebuyela khona! Yiqiniso, uma eqala inkosikazi, kusho ukuthi uhamba naye, kepha uma efika ekhaya, kungcono nakakhulu ekhaya, ngoba umndeni wakhe ulindele. Unkosikazi - lena yindlela enye nje yokuthi amadoda aphumule futhi ajabule.
Yiqiniso, isifiso esikhulu senkosikazi ukuphindisela kuwe. Yebo, wanquma ukuphula injabulo yakho, kodwa akanalo ilungelo lokwenza lokho. Kodwa kunoma yikuphi, uzizwa enganeliseki.
Umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko akufanele ukwenziwa ngokucasula umlingani wakho akulungiselele. Phela, lokhu sekuvele kwenzeke okwamanje, ikhalenda yakho ebaluleke kunazo zonke ukuziqhenya kwakho. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi awuyona nje umfazi wangaphambili, unezimiso eziningi - ungumuntu ozocansi, ungumama wabantwana owabeletha nomyeni wakho.
Awudingi ngisho nokucabanga ukuzama ukugcina umuntu, uma enquma ukukushiya, ikakhulukazi ungazami ukuhlela ama-scandals nezigcawu, uhlangane futhi ukhulume naye ngokuthula, ngaphandle kokuzizwa, thola izizathu zokuthi owesifazane omusha avele empilweni yakhe . Mhlawumbe lezi ziyizinkinga ezixazululwa, lapho ungasiza khona.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunesidingo sokubheka umhlangano nomlingani womyeni, abazi ukuthi ungubani, lokho akwenzayo, lapho asebenza khona, ungazami ukungena kuye ngengozi. Myeke acabange ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kwakhe akushiyanga lutho emndenini wakho, masiqiniseke ukuthi awunandaba nonke futhi uyakwazi ukugcina umyeni wakho wesifazane.
Ungazibambeli amandla angalungile owawutholile, ungazibambeli, zama ukuwulahleka. Uma ufuna, ungabhalisa ku-karate noma ku-sambo, qala ukwenza izinto ongazange ube nazo isikhathi esanele, noma lokho owake wabheka. Vumela ukungahambi kahle, futhi le ndawo izogcwaliswa ngamandla afanele, imicabango emihle, okuyinto kunoma ikuphi ezokuletha inhlanhla.