Ekukhuleni, lapho kufika isikhathi sokuthandana kuqala, izinsizwa namantombazane abasha ngokuzumayo bathola ukuthi banombono ohluke ngokuphelele wokuthi abathandi kufanele bachithe kanjani isikhathi sabo. Le nsizwa iqinisekisiwe ukuthi umsebenzi wabo oyinhloko ukubeka impilo ebuseduze ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka futhi njalo ngangokunokwenzeka ukuzithokozisa injabulo yobulili. Intombazane icabanga ukuthi into enhle kunazo zonke ekuhambeni kwemvelo ihamba ngaphansi kwenyanga, izingxoxo ezinde efonini kanye nezinkomba zokumangalisa. Naphezu kothando lwangempela ngeqhawe lakhe, akekho nhlobo, njengoba bethi, "hamba phambili." Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi isifiso sobudlelwano bocansi emzimbeni womuntu uhlangana ne-testosterone ye-hormone. Ikhiqizwa kokubili kumsikazi nasesidumbu sowesilisa, kodwa inani lalo lixhomeke eminyakeni yobudala bomuntu. Emadodeni aseneminyaka engama-16-20, isivunguvungu sangempela se-hormonal siphezulu, sibe namandla okucabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi ngocansi. Futhi kaningi abakhathaleli ngekhwalithi yayo, into eyinhloko yiqiniso ngokwayo.
Futhi emzimbeni wesifazane phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ukukhiqizwa kwe-testosterone akulona kakhulu futhi kukhula kancane kancane, ngakho-ke ukuziphatha kwengqondo kubamba, futhi insizwa encane ivame ukuvumelana nobuhlobo bobulili, kuphela ukuvumela izifiso zomthandi, futhi akugcini ukwaneliseka ngokobulili.
Lapho uneminyaka engama-25, umzimba wesilisa uvame ukufinyelela phezulu kwe-hormonal, okuye kwagcinwa iminyaka engaba ngu-10. Le ntombazane sonke isikhathi iyaqhubeka nokwandisa ukukhiqizwa kwe-testosterone nokubunjwa kobulili. Ngakho lapho uneminyaka engama-28-32 ebuhlotsheni bemibhangqwana eminingi yokuzwana ngokocansi isungulwa, ngoba ngaleso sikhathi umthamo wesifazane ophezulu we-testosterone kanye nomugqa owenyukayo wesilisa uyacindezelwa. Indoda eyasinda esikhathini sokuvunguza kwamademoni eyamshukumisela ukuba afune ukubonakala okusha nokuzwela kuba ngcono nokuzibamba, usethe ubuhlobo obude nomlingani oyedwa. Intombazane ivusa ukuziphatha komzimba, futhi uqala ukujabulela ubuhlobo bobulili - cishe 20% wezocansi ezifanele emva nje kokuqala kokuthola i-orgasm.
Esikhathini esizayo, imigqa ye-"testosterone cross" ihlukana, ngoba emva kweminyaka engu-30-35 ukukhiqizwa kwamadoda okwe-testosterone kuwela kancane cishe ngo-1% ngonyaka (ezinye izici zingase ziphuthumise le nqubo, isibonelo, ngokukhuluphala, "izinga lokudonsa" lifinyelela ku-10%). Ekuphileni komuntu, ubulili buyeke ukudlala indima ebalulekile njengangaphambili. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, amantombazane azungeze: sonke lesi sikhathi ukuthuthukiswa kwe-testosterone emzimbeni wesifazane kukhula ngokuqhubekayo futhi kufinyelela phezulu kuneminyaka engama-40. Ubulili buyadingeka kuye, kepha ontanga yakhe ayiboni isidingo esinjalo, esinjengeyakhe esemusha, manje idinga ukushisa esikhundleni sokuhlangenwe nakho okuvuthayo.
Futhi isidumbu sowesifazane okwamanje silungiselela "ukuphanga" amabhanela, ngoba isimo sezulu asikude. Yiqiniso, ngaphambi kokuba kuvele ukuqhuma kwama-hormonal, okubuye kwacaca ukuthi "ku-45 baba berry futhi." Okufanayo kungenzeka emadodeni, ngakho-ke "banezinwele ezimvubevu, udayini emgqeni." Kule minyaka yobudala, imishado ezinzile ivame ukuhlukana futhi imibhangqwana ehlukene yobudala izalwa. Futhi, uma ngaphambili indoda ikhulile kunomkakhe, kwakamuva nje kwakukhona ukuthambekela ekubukeni kwemibhangqwana, lapho owesifazane ekhulile kunomlingani wakhe, eYurophu inani lemishado enjalo lingu-9%.
Ekuphileni kwangasese kwesikhathi esizayo kwabantu abaseminyakeni yamuva, futhi, kuye kwaba nezinguquko. Uma kungakacatshangwa ukuthi uma uneminyaka yobudala, impilo yomuntu obuseduze kufanele ilahleke kancane kancane, kodwa manje imibono ishintshile. Namuhla kunenkolelo yokuthi isikhathi eside umuntu uzobe esebenzela ucansi, kungcono. Futhi inani labantu, naphezu kweminyaka yobudala bomhlalaphansi, baqhubeka bejabulela injabulo ebuseduze, ikhula njalo, abangaphezu kwesigamu samadoda angama-60 bangabakho (eminyakeni engu-15 eyedlule babe cishe isigamu eziningi). Futhi odokotela bayayamukela ngokuqinile, ngoba sekuye kwafakazelwa ukuthi izindlela zokuguga "ziyesaba" ubulili, futhi labo abangaziphiki ngokwabo, baqala kancane kancane.