Ingabe uvame ukufuna ukuthatha umhlalaphansi, ubalekele ezixukwini ezizungezile? Ingabe ucindezelekile emndenini wakho futhi ufuna ukubalekela endaweni ethile endaweni evulekile, lapho ungayizizwa uvalekile emgodini oqinile? Izifiso ezinjalo akusho neze ukuthi uthuthukisa i-claustrophobia. Umuntu nje uhlasela isikhala sakho siqu, futhi uzizwa.
Isikhala somuntu siqu, ngesifushane, yindawo efika ne-knock. Ngisho noma umnyango uvulekile, njengokungathi umshado uphumelele , lapho oshade naye engenazo izimfihlo zomunye nomunye. Ibanga elithile eliphakanyiswa izazi zengqondo kanye nomshado liyadingeka, futhi mhlawumbe kubaluleke nakakhulu kunokusebenzisana nalabo abangewona ingxenye yomndeni wakho. Ngezinye izikhathi ukubuka leli banga kungakhipha izinkinga eziningi. Kubalulekile ukuqalisa ukuthi ukukhulumisana okude futhi okude kakhulu kunzima. Kwabanye abantu kuvele kungenakubekezelelwa.
Kusho ukuthini lo mqondo? Cishe, ukuzwana okuhlangene kwabantu ababili, lapho wonke umuntu ezama ukushiya ingxenye ethile yempilo yomlingani ngokuziphatha kwakhe.
"Ukuphendulela ohlangothini olungalungile" akufani nalokho okushiwo ukukhululeka okukhulu. Ngakho-ke kunciphisa, okunomkhawulo othize ovumelekile. Yamukela ngokuthembeka - awunayo imicabango, izinkumbulo, izifiso kanye nezici zobuntu ongafuni ukuzambulela kunoma ubani.
Ngezinye izikhathi kunesimo sengqondo esinjalo, lapho ukukhanya okumhlophe kungenhle futhi ngifuna nje ukuba ngedwa. Umlingani ohlakaniphile esimweni esinjalo ngeke agcizelele ekusondeleni futhi abe yinto engathandeki. Mhlawumbe isigamu sakho sithatha isikhathi sokucabanga ngento ebalulekile ehlobene nobuhlobo bakho, unqume, noma uphumule futhi uhlele imicabango yakho?
Ngezinye izikhathi, abantu kufanele bahambe besodwa. Akukhona neze izindlu zokulala ezihlukene zomshado ezibhekwa njengento evamile emhlabeni wonke. Futhi hhayi kuphela amagumbi okulala , kodwa namabhabhinethi, boudoir njalonjalo. Lokhu "kuphazamise" inkinga yezindlu. Manje isifiso sethu sangaphakathi sokuthi "sifihle ekhoneni lakho" senza ikhishi indawo enjalo yabesifazane, negumbi, igumbi elincane noma igaraji - ngamadoda.
Esikhathini sonke isikhathi, lapho ilanga likhanya ngokukhanya, futhi ukuphila kujabulisa, iningi labantu liyavuma ukuhlanganyela nomakhelwane ingxenye yesikhala sabo siqu. Ukuya e-cinema ndawonye, xoxani okuthile, sebenzani ndawonye nsuku zonke. Yile ndlela iningi labantu abahlala ngayo emshadweni ojabulisayo.
Abantu kufanele babe ndawonye kuphela ngesifiso sobabili. Ngokuqondene nombuzo wokuphumula - ndawonye noma ngaphandle, mhlawumbe, ngezinye izikhathi kubalulekile ukuphumula ngokwehlukana, uma, isibonelo, umyeni ukuphumula okungcono kakhulu ukudoba, futhi umfazi ubekezelela amatende namanyane. Akukho lutho olubi kulokhu uma ukuphumula okuhlukile akusho lutho oluyobangela ubudlelwano phakathi kwalabo abashadile. Futhi, yiqiniso, isikhathi eside akudingekile ukuba ushiye.