Abesifazane bacabangani?
Ngokwemvelo, owesifazane kuphela okwazi ukusebenzisa u-charm wakhe kumphathi, ongalayishwa ngokugcwele ekhaya nasemndenini. Kumele abe nesifiso sokudlala ngothando futhi abonise ubulili bakhe.
Yiqiniso, azikho izibalo ezisemthethweni ngenani lobuhlobo phakathi kosizi nabangaphansi. Kodwa ngenxa yocwaningo olwenziwe abesifazane abangaphezu kuka-70% balungele ukuqala ubudlelwano emsebenzini. Amaphesenti angu-12 kuphela aphikisana kakhulu nomqashi futhi ngaphansi kwezimo ngeke avumelane nge-etho. Izinkantolo ezivela kumphathi zibona okungalungile futhi ngezinye izikhathi zikhetha ukuhamba, ukuze zingadala izinkinga. Kodwa kukhona abaphathi abambalwa abakhathazekile kakhulu. Ngesinye isikhathi bayakwenqaba, balahlekelwa yithakazelo futhi bashintshele kwenye into. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukusho ngokucacile. Amadoda ahluleka kakhulu ukungaqondi kahle nezinkomba. Owesifazane kufanele amlandele eduze, hhayi ukucasula noma ukukhuthaza umphathi. Zonke zokuxhumana kufanele zithinte umsebenzi.
Kodwa njengoba kubonakala kumanani, inani elikhulu labesifazane liphupha ngokuthandana nomphathi, kepha kungabekwa ukwesaba ukuthi umyeni noma umngane uzothola. Futhi, abanye besifazane bayaqonda ukuthi uma kwenzeka ikhefu ebuhlotsheni lingasuswa.
Owesifazane osevele exoxwa okokuqala nomphathi wakhe, uthanda lo muntu futhi ulungele ukuba ne-lyon naye ubuhlobo obuseduze. Ukuqhubeka kulokhu, ukukhulumisana kwabo okude kubakhiwe.
Ebudlelwaneni obuseduze no-boss banezinkinga zabo ezingathí sina. Owesifazane uzozizwa ephansi. Ngisho nangaphandle komsebenzi, umphathi uzoba nesimo esiphambili. Ngezinye izikhathi kuzophazamisa ukuphumula futhi mhlawumbe ingxoxiswano eqhubekayo yezindaba ezisebenzayo zesikhashana. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ngisho noma umbhede awukwazi ukugcina owesifazane ekuxosheni kanye nemali ephansi. Ngakho-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi kulula kakhulu ukuthola i-bossmozhno ngokushesha kakhulu futhi uyakwazi ngisho nomlilo ukuze angakhumbuli.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ebuhlotsheni obunjalo ukwenza futhi ukusho izinto umphathi oyithandayo. Noma yiluphi ubudlelwano nabaphathi kubungozi okufanele kuthathwe ngokucophelela.
Ithimba emsebenzini lizobona izinguquko ebuhlotsheni bomphathi nabangaphansi. Ngokuqinisekile kuyoba nomhawu, intukuthelo nokungazitholi kwengxenye yabasebenza nabo. Ethimbeni kuyoba nenhlebo njalo futhi kufanelekile ukulungele ukugeleza okukhulu kokungaboni kahle.
Owesifazane, ehlangana nomphathi, uqale ukuqhathanisa nengxenye yakhe yesibili. Ngokuvamile lokhu kuholela ekuqhekekeni kwemizwa engathandeki. Inhloko evikelekile iyakhanga kakhulu kunomuntu ojwayelekile kanye nomdabu. Kuvame ukuphumelela kakhulu, okuguquguqukayo futhi okuthakazelisayo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina ikhanda lakho emahlombe akho futhi isinyathelo ngasinye kufanele sicatshangelwe ngokucophelela kusengaphambili. Ngesinye isikhathi indoda emagabeni okuqala unomusa futhi unomusa, bese uqala ukubala yonke inkomishi. Esikhathini esizayo, angase abe nomfutho omkhulu futhi mhlawumbe abe intandokazi njalo. Ngokuvamile owesifazane, esiteji sokuqala ehlola izici eziningi, unqabe ngokuyinhloko ukubhekana nomphathi, eqaphela ukuthi lokhu ngeke kubangele lutho oluhle.
Kunzima kakhulu ukuba abesifazane bahlanganise uthando nomsebenzi. Noma yikuphi ukugxekwa noma ukuphawula akubona kuyinkimbinkimbi.
Kodwa inoveli nomphathi, ngaphezu kwamaminithi amaningi, inezinzuzo zayo ezingenakuphikiswa. Abesifazane basuke bengokomzwelo, futhi ukuhlala komkhaya kungamkhathaza. Bayeka ukulandela ngokwabo, izintshisekelo zabo ziqala ukulinganiselwa emsebenzini, ekhishini nasemndenini. Abesifazane bayeka ukuzijabulisa nokujabulela ukuphila. Ubuhlobo obusha kanye nokuvezwa kunika imali enamandla yamandla, i-vivacity nokuzethemba. Umsebenzi ukhula ngenjabulo, kujabulisa. Owesifazane ucabangela ngokucophelela ikhabethe lakhe futhi enze njalo ngosuku. Uhlala eqala ukuzinaka, ukuzinakekela yena kanye nokuvakashela izidakamizwa. Kuqaphele ukuthi abesifazane bahle kakhulu futhi bekhangayo.
Ngokuvamile, amanoveli omculo emsebenzini awakhangiswa. Lokhu kunikeza ubuhlobo i-piquancy ekhethekile. Ukuthinta okungajwayelekile noku kisses kwenza kube nesifiso.
Ngokuvamile, umphathi wezintandokazi zabo ukhuthaza ngokushesha kakhulu enkonzweni, esekela ukwenza umsebenzi. Induna kanye nowesifazane bayoba nezindikimba ezivamile zokuxoxa. Uma ophansi ehlakaniphile futhi ebala, ungathola okuningi ebuhlotsheni obunjalo.
I-Vseromany no-boss ingahlukaniswa ngamaqembu amathathu amakhulu futhi avame ukuhlangana:
- Amaphupho wesifazane futhi ethemba ukushada ophakeme. Ngokwezibalo, lokhu kwenzeka ngokungajwayelekile futhi kuyisiphukuphuku kakhulu ukulindela.
- Ubudlelwane buqala ukuthola ukukhushulwa nokukhulisa inkokhelo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi amadoda amaningi kukhona kshovinistam. Bakholelwa ukuthi owesifazane wadala izinjabulo ezijabulisayo ngeke futhi akufanele abe smart. Futhi, isikhundla esiphakeme esitholakala ngosizo lwabaqashi ngokuqinisekile sizobonwa osebenza nabo njengobulungisa obuningi. Kubalulekile ukuba uzilungiselele ukuthi bazozama konke okusemandleni ukukulimaza futhi esikhundleni sakho. Kodwa abaningi baphumelela ngokwanele ukuba baqhubekele phambili enkonzweni, benomsebenzi we-boss.
- Kusukela ekuntulekeni kwemizwelo yowesifazane, qaphela kusuka eceleni komuntu. Ngezinye izikhathi kungenzeka futhi uthande, okuyinto ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ekwazi ukuhamba othandweni. Yilobu budlelwane obungabangela injabulo enkulu futhi benze abantu bajabule futhi banamandla. Kulokhu, lo wesifazane akaphishekeli noma yimiphi imigomo nhlobo futhi akalindeli okuningi kumphathi. Ngisho nekhansana elifushane, elimnandi lingashiya izinkumbulo ezimnandi, ngokuphelele ngaphandle kokubonakala emsebenzini.
Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi owesifazane ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene ufuna ukuba nomphathi, kodwa akamqapheli. Kunezindlela ezimbalwa ezilula zokubheka. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale noma yisiphi isenzo, udinga ngangokunokwenzeka ukutadisha umphathi wakho. Ngenxa yalokhu, kunamathuba amaningi emsebenzini. Kubalulekile ukufunda izinto ezincane mayelana nokunambitheka nokuthandwa kwezombusazwe.
Ziqaphele ngokwakho ngokusebenzisa ikhono lakho lokusebenza. Kunoma yisiphi isimo, kubalulekile ukubhala amanothi okufanele ahambisane ngokuphelele nombono wenhloko. Udinga ukuba yinto encane ye-sycophant. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ukubonakala, okuncane kakhulu ngokobulili. Kubalulekile ukuseka ubuhlobo neqembu. Akudingekile ukukhohlwa ukuthi ingxenye enkulu yesikhathi sonke sokusebenza isichitha neqembu. Ubuhlobo obuhle buzogwema ukungaboni kahle nokuphikisana okuvulekile. Indawo engcono kakhulu yokuthatha izinyathelo eziningi yinkampani, evamile kakhulu ezikhathini zamuva.