I-Bitch.
Uhlale ebukeka enhle, ehlala ebukele, enhle kakhulu, kodwa enobungozi ... Bonke abantu bayazi lokhu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthi i-bitch iphenduka umlingani wayo njalo, njengoba efuna, naye unomlando omkhulu. Ungakhohliswa yiziphi izenzo ezimbi ukuze uphumelele. Akakhathaleli ngemizwelo yabanye abantu, inzuzo yakhe ifika phambili. Zonke izihlobo zayo zakhiwe ngenzuzo kanye nokubala. Ngeke ayeke ukuvela komfazi nezingane ezincane ezivela kumuntu, noma ngokuthi uhlangana nomngani wakhe omkhulu.
Amadoda amaningi azinzibopho, azizwa engakhululekile ukuthi i-bitch ithanda izipho zakhe namathuba ayinikeza wona, kodwa hhayi yena. Ngaphezu kwalokho, namuhla uyathinteka futhi uyathandeka, futhi kusasa uyomshiya ngaphandle kokucabanga okwesibili. Ubani othanda ukuzizwa njengebhola le-ping-pong? Yiqiniso, bahlangana nemicibisholo, kodwa kuphela okuphelile.
Abesifazane baseRascal.
Ngisho nokuziphatha okubi ngokweqile kunazo zonke akubanga imbangela yalowo muntu ukulandisa impilo yakhe kuye. Imicabango yokuthi bangaki imibhede yabantu abavakashelwe yintombazane enhle ngeke ishiye indoda, izoqhubeka nokuyixosha njalo. Yingakho, ubulili ngosuku lokuqala ngabamele abaningi bezocansi ezinamandla kuthathwa ngokuthi "ukufinyeleleka". "Uma enginike, kusho ukuthi abanye," abantu bacabanga. Kunzima kakhulu ukufakazela kumlingani ongalali nawo wonke umuntu ozaziyo kuqala.
Ngendoda, owesifazane kufanele abe ohlanzekile futhi engenasici (akusho ukuthi ubuyintombi, kodwa mayelana nobuhle). Ngaphezu kwalokho, bangabanikazi abakhulu, futhi uma unayo, khona-ke ungumnikazi wakhe ngokuphelele. Ukuba khona kwenani elikhulu labalingani bocansi kubhekwa ngamadoda njengokungcola.
I-Mercantile.
Abesifazane abazithandayo ngeke bahlangane nabafundi abampofu noma nomuntu ongenakho uxhumano. Indoda inesithakazelo kumuntu we-mercantile kuphela uma echitha imali eningi kuye, anikeze izipho ezibizayo , ahambise iholide ezokungcebeleka kwe-VIP njalonjalo. Kungenzeka ukuthi umkhwenyana ongakhona kufanele abe nokuxhumana lapho owesifazane angakha khona umsebenzi wakhe, afinyelele isikhundla esiphakeme.
Thola umuntu ngobuhlobo obunjalo obunakho. Umbuzo uwukuthi, bazohlala isikhathi esingakanani? Phela, akekho othanda lapho ethanda imali yakhe, hhayi yena.
Uma amadoda engathandi.
Kukhona uhlobo lwabesifazane abathandana nokuthandana, ukukhulumisana, ukuyeka izingxoxo, izipho nakho konke okuvela kuwo owesifazane olula. Laba besifazane abanesithakazelo kocansi, bahloniphekile futhi bacindezelekile. Nakuba, kakhulu bafuna ukuhlela impilo yabo siqu futhi bahlangabezane "nesikhulu sehhashi elimhlophe."
Le "qhwa" iyomethusa umuntu ngokungenafinyeleleka nokubandayo. Amadoda afana namantombazane ajabulisayo futhi anenhliziyo enhle anamehlo ngosuku, ogama lakhe lithembisa ububele nothando olukhulu.
Indodakazi kaMama.
Zonke izinqumo ezibalulekile empilweni yowesifazane onjalo zamukelwa ngumama wakhe. Ububusi obubusayo emndenini cishe buwumphumela wokuhoxiswa kukababa noma ukungabikho kwakhe kusukela ekuqaleni kokukhulelwa kwentombazane. Le ntombazane, eyakhula ngaphansi kokuqondiswa komama wayo, iyakuthandana ngokweqile, inyembezi, ivikelekile, ihlala ezweni layo lezinkolelo nokucabanga.
Amadoda athande abesifazane abazethemba. Ngeke babekezelele njalo izingcingo zamaminithi kumama wami ukuba "baxoxe". Akunakwenzeka ukuthi bazofuna ukuba "nobuhlobo obunzima" futhi bahlale belalela iseluleko sika "mama."
Abesifazane abanamandla.
Noma "Ama-Mommies." Ngokuvamile lawa angamaqhawe anamandla futhi aqinile kakhulu asetshenziselwa ukuyala. Ebudlelwaneni, owesifazane onjalo uyoba "yinhloko yomndeni", uzotshela umyeni wakhe ukuthi benzeni. Yiqiniso, uma izibonelo ezinjalo zamukelekile esimweni esinjalo sezindaba. Amadoda anjalo, njengombuso, ahlanganyela ezindabeni zendlu, kanti umfazi uthola imali.
Ubuhlobo nomfazi wesandla kunamathuba ayo: uzoxazulula zonke izinkinga, ahlele umsebenzi, uzokwenza isipho futhi uyokhipha isinqumo sokuthi angakwenza kanjani impilo yakhe. Ubuhlobo obunjalo abufanele bonke abantu. Abaningi babo bafuna ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokwabo, ukuba "inhloko yomndeni" kanye "nomnakekeli". Ukungakwazi ukuveza umbono wabo ngokushesha ukukhathala yindoda, kuzokuqala ukumcasula.
Lezi yizinhlobo ezilinganiselwa kuphela zabesifazane abesabisa amadoda. Uma uzithola ngezibonakaliso ezithile, ungasheshi ukuzwakala i-alamu. Ngamazinga ahlukene, ngamunye wethu uncane kusuka "ku-bitch", "umama" nokuthi "ulahlekile".