Uthando oluhle, abantu abangabazi ababili


Abaningi sebejwayelene kakade nomqondo onjengokuthi ubulili obubonakalayo. Kuyini lokho abakudlayo, sekuvele kucacile. Ngisho nodokotela namanje abakwazi ukunquma. Futhi ngokuzumayo akuyona ubulili, kodwa uthando lwangempela, abantu abangabazi ababili bafuna ukuzicabangela ezweni lokudlala ngothando, futhi mhlawumbe, ubuhlobo obunzima? Lokho nje umbuzo oyinhloko uhlale uvulekile: lolu hlobo lobulili - lubi noma luhle?

Ingabe kubi? Yebo, makube mnandi kakhulu. Vumelana, ngoba ngosizo lweqiniso langempela ungazitholela kalula esiqhingini esingahlali khona ngeLwesihlanu esingaqondakali nangobuzwe, ungavakashela i-masquerade yaseVenetian ezingxenyeni zikaCasanova ... Ukuhamba ngefantasy kuyinkulu, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, konke kuxhomeke kuwe! Uma ufuna - 1 othandekayo, ufuna - 2. Futhi ngendlela, akukho miphumela, njengezifo, izibopho, amasokisi e-darning. Amanye ama-pluses.

Ukusebenza kwangempela kwe-virtual (ubulili obubonakalayo) bathi lokhu kuyi-art real, futhi akusizi ukuhamba ngezinyawo kumasayithi we-porn njengoba abanye bacabanga. Lokhu ukuxhumana kwangempela kwemiphefumulo, imizimba ngosizo lwabezindaba kanye nobuchwepheshe besimanje.

Ngendlela, wayengazi ukuthi lolu hlobo lobulili lwalukhona kakade phakathi kwentsha yabakhulu bakho omkhulu? Akukho lutho oluhlehlisayo, ngaleso sikhathi ngaleso sikhathi othintekayo lolwazi wayebhekwa njengephepha elivame kakhulu. Funda ama-classic, abhalwe phansi kakhulu, afundwa.

Njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka, ubuchwepheshe buqalile futhi kutholakale idivayisi yocingo evula indlela yokulala ngokocansi. Futhi ake kuqala amakholi ayehlezi ngemuva kwamafoni, ahlanganisa izinhliziyo ngothando, kodwa ukuxhumana okunjalo kwaba ngasese. Futhi lapha ubuhlobo bangempela buhluthulelwe. Imicabango, nezifiso, nezwi elibi ... Yini engingayisho ngocansi efonini, okuyinto abanikazi besifazane abasebasha abanikeza ngayo, bethembisa ukuguqulwa kwe-orgasm enobudlova.

Uyakhumbula ama-pagers? Yimiphi imilayezo engashintshaniswa ... I-SMS efanayo-ki efonini ephathekayo, eveza umcabango nemizwa. Futhi njengoba inhlanhla yayizoba nayo emzuzwini ongenakwenzeka kakhulu. Kodwa kuhle kangakanani ukufunda, ucabange, shayela impendulo, ubambe izinkinobho zefoni ...

Futhi sekuyisikhathi sokuchuma izincwadi ze-Inthanethi, ICQ, amakamelo okuxoxa, amaforamu. Ngena, ukhethe noma yikuphi futhi uxhumane nenjabulo, ufike nanoma yisiphi isikhathi, indawo, udale umhlaba wakho, ube umakhi wayo futhi wenze okuthile. Ngendlela, uma uyayithanda, ungakha umndeni we-virtual esikhathini esizayo, inzuzo yehhovisi lokubhalisa ukubhaliswa komshado wangempela.

Igama lokugcina ekuthuthukiseni ubulili obubonakalayo lilandela izingxoxo zevidiyo. Lapha konke kufana nezwe langempela. Ungabheka i-interlocutor, uxhumane ngokusebenzisa ikhamera yevidiyo futhi ujabulele ukuhlolwa okusha kocansi.

Iyini ikusasa? Lapha, njengakwamanye amazwe, ukuhola eJapane. Bakha amagajethi angahle abhekiswe ngabasebenzisi, ukuhambisa izinzwa zokuthinta, okungukuthi, ukumbumbana, kisses manje kuzobonakala ngokucacile futhi kubonakale, futhi umsebenzi owenziwa ngokobulili uzoba wangempela. Lapha ungakwazi futhi ulungise ijubane lokunyakaza, namandla okucindezela ... Ngamanye amazwi, inqubekelaphambili ayimayo, ithuthuka ngesivinini esikhulu. Wonke umuntu angathola injabulo, athole lapho efuna khona, futhi aphakamise lokho ayekufuna isikhathi eside, kodwa lokho ayeyesaba ukukusho.

Futhi mhlawumbe akusilo ucansi, kodwa uthando, nakuba luyinto ebonakalayo?

Kwakuyihora lesibini ebusuku, wayehlezi ekhompyutheni, elala kancane kancane phambi komqapha. Wayemlindele. Endaweni ethile wayazi ukuthi ngeke eze namhlanje, kodwa inhliziyo yakhe ayifuni ukuyikholelwa. Wayemdinga, usuku lonke ngaphandle kwakhe lwalubuhlungu futhi lubuhlungu. Wahlala ngekhompiyutha futhi wazibuza umbuzo ofanayo - uyini? Uthando? Kungani kunjalo? Phela, wacabanga konke ngendlela ehluke ngokuphelele. Wayekhumbula usuku lapho, lapho ngifuna ulwazi oludingekayo, ngathola lelo sithangami esingahambi lapho ngimhlangabeza khona. Wayengeyena isikhulu. Ochkarik-student, futhi cishe eminyakeni eyishumi encane. Nokho, wayengazi lokhu ekuqaleni. Lena umehluko ekukhulumisaneni kwi-intanethi. Babenomdla nje. Baxhumana amahora amaningana ngosuku, bengaboni isikhathi. Khona-ke kwakungenakwanela nabo. Futhi ngeke neze akhohlwe okokuqala "hello" efonini. Kuye kwadlula izikhathi eziningi kusukela ngaleso sikhathi. Wabona ukuthi konke akuzwayo kuyithando. Lokhu kuyamangalisa futhi akuqondakali. Kodwa nokho uthando. Uzizwa kanjani? Wayecabanga ngalokhu kaningi, futhi nakuba ingqondo yesilisa yabesifazane ingento encane eqondakalayo, kodwa ngesizathu esithile ucabanga ukuthi uzizwa efana. Yini eyesabeka naye? Umhlangano wokuqala uyethusa. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi sekuvele kuhamba isikhathi, ngoba kunezinkulungwane zamakhilomitha phakathi kwabo. Kodwa nokho uyamesaba, ngoba uqonda ukuthi bazobukeka kanjani empilweni yangempela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wesaba kakhulu ukubona ukudumazeka emehlweni akhe. Futhi njalo uhlushwa umbuzo ofanayo - ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani?

Isikhathi esisha sichaza izimo ezintsha. Manje, uthando lungabanjwa ngobuningi be-intanethi. Futhi akumangalisi-kulula ukuxhumana ku-intanethi, lapha awusabi ukubeka iqiniso ngawe, ngoba abantu abakwazi, futhi akusizi ngalutho ukugqoka imaski phambi kwalabo ongenakuphinde ubone. Kodwa kunemishayo eminingi. Okokuqala, ayikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi lowo oxhumana naye empeleni nguye omele lokho. Kunezimo eziningi zokukhohliswa nemidlalo emibi eminye imizwa yabantu. Okwesibili, ngisho nokuzijwayela kwe-intanethi ephumelele kakhulu lapho ukuhlangana empilweni yangempela kungadumaza kakhulu. Futhi ngeke njalo kube yinto yangempela. Phela, phakathi kwama-interlocutors kungaba yindawo ebanzi, futhi akuwona wonke amabanga ahluka khilomitha. Futhi nakuba kunezimo ezaziwayo zokuzijwayeza okujabulisayo kuyi-intanethi, kusadingeka ukuba ulinganisise konke kahle ngaphambi kwesinyathelo esinjalo, ukuze kamuva ungapheli ukuthi lobu buhlobo abukho ndawo empilweni yethu yangempela.