Into esemqoka okumele uyikhumbule ukuthi umthandi wakho uyindodana yabo encane, ozoba ngumntwana wabo kuze kube phakade, futhi uyisitha esingaba khona, ngoba uyithatha ingane eyitshale imali enkulu. Ngakho-ke, ungaphathwa futhi ungabi nobungane njengoba ulindele, kodwa udinga ukukhumbula imithetho eminingana ezofakazela ukuthi uyakufanelekela.
Okokuqala, lapho uvakashele, ukhohlwa ngobunye ubusuku ngazo zonke izihloko eziphathekayo nezingafuni ukugqoka izingubo zakho zokugqoka, kanye nokwakheka okucacile nokuzikhandla kwamanzi, futhi, ngeke kuhambisane nomhlangano onjalo. Okwaziyo okokuqala yisinyathelo esinomthwalo wemfanelo. Kodwa akufanele uhambe ngaphezu kwezingubo ezivamile. Gqoka i-blouse yakho eyintandokazi ne-jeans, noma i-sarafan, kodwa khumbula-akufanele kubonakale ingcolile! Udinga ukuzizwa uqiniseka futhi izingubo zakho kufanele zikusekele!
Okwesibili, kufanele ukhumbule ukuthi uya emhlanganweni wabazali bakhe, futhi kudingeka uziphatha kahle. Ngaphambi komnyango, bhala, bamomotheka futhi bathi "Ntambama! ", Emnyango, usho ukuthi ungabhala, futhi ungazithokozisa, futhi konke lokhu kufanele uzikhumbule ngokuziqhenya emuva, ukumomotheka, ukukhulumisana futhi ungakhohlwa ngemithetho yokuziphatha.
Okwesithathu, khumbula njalo ukuthi umngane wakho ukhethe ngokuqondile ngoba unguwe, ngakho-ke qhubeka ufanane ngalokhu kusihlwa. Uma usuvele uthandana isikhathi eside, uyazi izindaba eziningi ngomndeni wakhe, futhi ujwayele ukujwayele bonke abangekho, ngakho-ke ungakhathazeki - usuvele wazi okuthile ngabo, futhi lokhu kungakusiza uthole izihloko ezivamile zengxoxo! Kodwa into esemqoka ukuhlala uqobo, ujabule futhi ukhululekile, kulula futhi uqaphele, futhi impumelelo izofika ngempela.
Ngakho-ke, ume phambi kombundu wendlu yakhe, unombono omuhle futhi uhlelwe isikhathi esihle. Uma ufika wedwa, futhi umfana ulindile ngaphakathi, tholanelana ngokufanele! Lapho ebona abazali bakhe, bamomotheka futhi ake umfana akhulume nomunye nomunye. Ukwazi umama wakho futhi uyisinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu.
Ngitshele ukuthi ujabulela ukuhlangabezana nabazali bendoda enhle kangaka! Futhi uma isenzakalo somuntu owaziwayo singukuzalwa kwakhe - bekufanelekile ukuhalalisela umama wakho nezimbali zezimbali. Vumela umfana athole ukuthi uthanda ukuthini.
Ukungena endlini, ungacabangi masinyane zonke izinto ezincane, bese ubuza ukuthi kungani futhi kuphi. Kungcono ukunakekela lokho okukukhathalela ngempela, nokuthi yini oyiqondayo, uthi indlu iyathokozela kakhulu, futhi uma inhlobo yesilwane, yilesi isizathu sokubamba isihloko esisha senkulumo. Kodwa ungafaki ngokushesha konke okuphathelene nokuphila kwakho, impilo yangasese eyedlule ingcono ukudlula imigwaqo yeshumi ngokujwayelekile, futhi uma unina ebuza - kungcono ngokuzithoba ukweba ngokucacile, ethi kungakunaki ukuthi ukhulume ngalokhu futhi mhlawumbe lokhu kuzoba isikhathi esifanele. Ungacabangi ukuthi kuvele kumthakazelisa kuye, ubheka zonke izinhlangothi zakho, futhi kungcono ukubona into engeyona into enhle kakhulu, akufanele inikelwe.
Ukukhulumisana nabazali bakhe, khumbula ukuthi bakhulu kunakho futhi mhlawumbe abakuqondi ubuchwepheshe be-nano. Ungaqali ingxoxo ngesihloko sombuthano omncane kakhulu wokuqonda, ngoba lokhu kuyintandokazi yakho yocwaningo lwesayensi. Ungasebenzisi i-slang yentsha futhi ekhulunywe - ngeke ibe nenhlonipho kakhulu. Futhi futhi, noma ngabe unesifiso sokuqoqa izingcaphuno zabantu abadumile - ungabasebenzisi ukuze badle ukudla, cishe akunakwenzeka.
Ngeke kube kubi, ukukhuluma ngezinto ozilibazisayo, amaphupho ebuntwaneni, izindawo ozithandayo edolobheni nokuthi uthanda ukuchitha kanjani ngempelasonto, ngaphandle uma kungenjalo akuphumuli phambi kwe-TV. Ngitshele, ufunde kuphi nokuthi yiziphi imizi ezithakazelisayo ezazikhona, mhlawumbe uhambe, noma unayo emahlelweni. Abazali bathanda ukufunda ngezinhlelo ezizayo, ngoba uma umuntu enomgomo, uzobe ephila okuthile okufunayo! Kodwa ungathathwa, cela umama wakho ukuthi yini eyithakazelisayo ebusheni besoka lakho, futhi ungikholelwe, unezindaba eziningi ezihlekisayo! Futhi ungazitsheli ngokushesha abazali bakho ngezinhlelo ezimnandi zendodana yabo, ngisho nalapho evuma! Ngalesi sikhathi, yenza njengentombi yakhe nje, onakho konke okwenzeka ngaphambi kwendodana yakhe!
Etafuleni kunconywa ukuthi uzame ukudla ngalunye futhi isikhathi ngasinye ukuze udumise lowo wesifazane okhuluma kahle kakhulu! Akudingekile ngalesi sikhathi ukukhuluma okuthile emanzini "Futhi ugogo wami ...". Khumbula ukuthi ukuzwa izibuyekezo ezinhle mayelana nomsebenzi wakho kuyoba mnandi kunoma yimuphi umuntu!
Ekupheleni kwesidlo sakusihlwa, sinikeze ukusiza ukususa etafuleni, lokhu kuzobonisa ukuthi awuvila futhi uzwela, futhi lezi yizimfanelo ezibalulekile zokudala ubuhlobo nemindeni esikhathini esizayo.
Ukusho okuhle, ngiyabonga ngesikhatsi esimnandi esasichitha endlini yabo, sithi manje ubona ukuthi umfana wakho uhlakaniphile kangakanani, uhloniphekile, noma into enjalo. Uma bekusho ukuthi bakujabulile ukukubona - ungaqiniseka ukuthi uthande abazali bakhe! Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi ukuzijwayeza kokuqala nonina kwakuphumelele, futhi wenza konke ngokulungile! Kodwa zama ukungahlangabezane nonina okungenani inyanga, kuyosiza ekuzuzeni ukudala kwakhe umbono omuhle ngawe, futhi uzosekela ngisho noma kukhona okungahambi kahle emihlanganweni elandelayo.