Kuze kube manje, ukwethulwa kobuchwepheshe obuhlukahlukene ekusebenzeni sekufake ukuxoshwa kothando kumpilo yansuku zonke. Noma yonke inothando ibuyele ehlathini le-Inthanethi enamandla onke, noma kunalokho emakhasini okuxhumana nabantu kanye namasayithi. Ngenxa yewebhu yonke ye-inthanethi, imibono emisha nezindlela zokubona othandweni zivele. Uma ngaphambi kokuba amantombazane angalali ebusuku, athole amagama afanele ukumbona umfana ngendlela abazizwa ngayo, futhi abafana balwa ngama-duels ukuze bathole inhliziyo yenkosikazi, manje kusanele nje ukukhetha isayithi oyithandayo ukuhlangabezana (futhi kakade kukhona umuntu oyithandayo) - bese uvula nje umphefumulo wakho! Ngendlela, nansi ukutholakala okubonakalayo, emva kokuzwa ukuthi into yakho yokudumisa ngeke ihlale ingenandaba futhi izophindaphinda ivuselele.
Isimo - isikhali esiyinhloko kunethiwekhi
Iningi lokuxhumana nomphakathi linikeza ithuba elihle kakhulu lokuveza imizwa yakho, imizwelo ngisho nokucabanga komuntu othize ngesimo. Ngakho-ke, ukuqashelwa okubonakalayo othandweni kungenziwa 'kubekiwe' kubha yomumo. Isibonelo, ungahamba ngendlela elula futhi ubhale ukuvuma okujwayelekile ngesimo esithi "Sasha, ngiyakuthanda!", Futhi ungahamba ngenye indlela futhi ufake isimo sakho sonke "u-ode othanda", uqondiswe entweni yakho yokudumisa. Ngendlela, le migomo ngothando ingathathwa nakwevesi elithandwayo noma enye ingcezu yenveli, okubaluleke kakhulu - ungakhohlwa ukufaka igama labathandekayo bakho / abathandekayo kulo mbhalo. Kodwa uma ukhathazekile ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthi lesi sakhiwo singaboni ukuvuma kwakho, ungakhohlwa ukubeka "uphawu" emgqeni "Tshela abangani bakho." Uma ngabe isithasiselo ngokwakhe engaboni ukuthi uzimisele kangakanani ukumtshela ngemizwa yakho, khona-ke abajwayelene nabo ngeke bakwazi ukugcina lokho abakubonile ekusithekeni.
Vula futhi ujabule
Futhi, imizwa yangempela inelungelo lokuqondisa ukuvuleka, okungukuthi ukubekwa komculo noma isithombe ku "udonga" lokhethiweyo ngokubhaliselwe: "Nguwe kuphela!", Njll. Ukuhlaba umxhwele kakhulu kuzobukeka njengomdwebo, odwetshwa nguwe (ngokuqinisekile, uma ungumculi omkhulu kusukela ekuzalweni).
I-Electronic Dove isendleleni
I-imeyli enye indlela enhle futhi enomusa, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi iyinqobo ukusho ngothando lwakho. Uma sicabanga ukuthi i-Inthanethi isinika amathuba amaningi okwenza ukuthi izinto zethu ezibonakalayo ziyingqayizivele futhi zikhunjulwe, kufanele nakanjani sizisebenzise lokhu. Isibonelo, ungathatha ukuqashelwa kwevidiyo enhle noma wenze isiqeshana sothando, bese unamathisele leli fayela levidiyo e-mail futhi usuqedile. Noma uye endleleni endala i-Pushkin Tatiana bese ubhala enhle (ungabhala efonini ifomu), elivuma imizwa yakho. Khumbula ukuthi ukuqashelwa okuthandwayo akuyona nje ithuba lokuvula umphefumulo wakho kumuntu othandekayo, kodwa futhi indlela enhle yokubonisa konke ukucabanga futhi ubonise isimo sakho sothando.
Ukusiza abathandi be-romance
Ikakhulukazi kubathandi be-intanethi kwakukhona amasayithi okuvuma ngothando, okuyinto eyenza kakhulu ukuphila kwabathandi. Manje akudingekile ukubhala amagama othando ngaphambi kwamafasitela ku-asphalt, kwanele ukuya kwenye yalezi siteshi bese ukhetha isigaba esibizwa ngokuthi: "Isimemezelo sothando." Lapha ungazijwayeza nemfundo yokuthi ungayenza kanjani kangcono.
Njengomthetho, ngaphambi kokwamukelwa kwakho kuzobona umuthi wakho wesibili, kufanele uhambe ngezigaba ezintathu. Okokuqala, kufanele ugcwalise amasimu ambalwa ngomuntu wakho, bese ubhala isimemezelo sothando, esibonisa ikheli le-imeyili lomuntu omthandayo. Ngendlela, lonke ulwazi kulawa masayithi lugcinwa yimfihlo, futhi akukho ogaxekile okufanele kukukhathaze noma kusongele izinhloso zakho ezinhle.
Esigabeni sesibili, kudingeka ukhethe isithombe noma ulayishe isithombe esilungisiwe - kuncike kusifiso sakho kanye nezintandokazi zakho.
Futhi, njengesigaba sokugcina, ngaphambi kokuqashelwa kakade, okudingeka ukwenze kusayithi elikhethiwe.
Le ndlela yokuqaphela uthando ayithathi isikhathi esiningi futhi ikukhulula ikhanda elibuhlungu, indlela yokukhuluma ngemizwa yakho kuwebhu. Kumelwe ulinde impendulo kusukela engxenyeni yesibili futhi uthemba ukuthi imizwa yakho iyoba yinto eyodwa!