Ngingabatshela kanjani abaphathi bami mayelana nokukhulelwa kwami?

Futhi nangu-ke - imivimbo emibili ethandekayo ekuvivinyweni! Ugcwele injabulo nenjabulo, futhi ufuna ukuwabelana nawo wonke umhlaba. Kodwa emva kokucasuka ngokomzwelo, kunemibuzo yemvelo: impilo yakho izoqhubeka kanjani, kokubili umndeni kanye nomsebenzi? Abesifazane abaningi kakhulu bafuna impendulo, ukuthi bangakhetha kanjani umzuzu ofanele wokukwazisa abaphathi babo kanye nozakwethu ngokukhulelwa kwabo. Ngifuna ukunikeza iseluleko kwabanye omama esikhathini esizayo. Ubuhlobo bakho nabaphathi
Kuningi kuxhomeke kunjani uhlobo lobuhlobo obunakho nomphathi wakho. Uma ubuhlobo buhle kakhulu, ngakho-ke kunengqondo ukwazisa izindaba ukuthi yizindaba ezinhle kuwe. Lokhu kuzokubonisa ukuthi uyisisebenzi esinomthwalo wemfanelo esibi kakhulu kuzo zonke izindaba. Abaphathi bayoba nesikhathi sokukuthola ngesikhathi sokufaka esikhundleni sesisebenzi esisha, futhi uzoba nesikhathi sokudlulisa wonke amacala adingekayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, esimweni esinjalo, mhlawumbe uzothola ukunakekelwa nokuqonda okungaphezulu kusuka eziphathimandla: ungashiya umsebenzi ozoya kudokotela noma uhambe ekhaya uma usheshe uphile, ngaphandle kokucabanga ukuthi "ushiye" izizathu, ngoba ukhulelwe, unga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ubuhlobo obuhle nobuholi, mtshele ukuthi ulindele umntwana, kuzoba lula kakhulu ngokwengqondo.

Uma ungenalo ubudlelwano obuhle kakhulu nomholi noma uma kukhona ingozi yokuthi "ushushiso" luzoqala kuwe, kungcono, "njengokungathi bathi," uhlale emhlathini "futhi ubike izindaba zokukhulelwa kwakho kamuva. Noma ungabika kuze kube yilapho kubonakala izimpawu ezicacile - lapho ukufihla okuthile akusizi ngalutho.

Kodwa nokho kukhona uhlobo oluthile lwemithetho eyimfihlo (noma ikakhulukazi inkolelo-mlando) ukuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubuhlobo neziphathimandla, akudingekile ukwazisa mayelana nesimo sakhe esisha emsebenzini emasontweni angama-12. Lesi yisikhathi esiyingozi kakhulu sokukhulelwa, lapho izigameko zokukhulelwa kwesisu zingavamile. Noma kunjalo, kuwukuphela kwakho ukuthi uthathe isinqumo.

Isimo sokuphatha kwabesifazane abakhulelwe
Kuyinto engavamile ukuba imenenja yenkampani ihambisane kabi neqiniso lokuthi abasebenzi bakhe bakhulelwe. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abaphathi abakhulu bangaqondakala, ngubani ongayithanda uma umsebenzi omuhle ephoqeleka ukuba aphazamise umsebenzi wakhe wezisebenzi isikhathi eside. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhulelwa kuyisimo semvelo sowesifazane, futhi uma usebenzisa intombazane yokuzala ubudala, umholi kufanele aqaphele ukuthi angakwazi ukuhamba ngekhefu lokubeletha ngesikhathi esifanayo. Noma kunjalo, udinga ukubukela umphathi wakho njengoba ephatha abanye besifazane abakhulelwe emsebenzini wakho. Uma umholi akwanele futhi engahambisani nabesifazane abakhulelwe "abamnyama" noma aphatha into engalungile, khona-ke ungamtshela ngokuphepha ngesimo sakho esishintshileyo.

Okokuqala - umphathi, ke-ozakwabo
Noma kunjalo, kungcono ukubika ukukhulelwa kwakho kokuqala ngokuqondile kubaphathi, bese ungakwazi ukuxoxa ngalezi zindaba nalo lonke iqembu. Uma kungenjalo, kungabonakala njengokungathembeki nokungahloniphi iziphathimandla.

Izindaba zibikwa ngamuphi uhlobo?
Ngaphambi kokuvakashela ihhovisi lezinduna, kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela ngale ngxoxo. Ungakwazi ngisho ukudweba amaphuzu enkhulumomphendvulwano ephepheni. Qinisekisa ukusho ukuthi uyakwazisa umsebenzi wakho, uthanda okuthunyelwe kwakho, futhi ungathanda ukuqhubeka usebenza uze ushiye isimemezelo nangemva kokuzalwa kwengane emva kwesikhathi esithile. Ungakhohlwa ukubeka isimiso somsebenzi wakho, ngoba ngokusho komthetho, umsebenzi omningi osebenzayo, ukusebenza ebusuku nokuphela kwezimpelasonto umsebenzi, kanye nokuhamba kwebhizinisi kuyaphikisana. Kungcono ukuthi ucacise ngokushesha ukuthi uzohlala isikhathi esingakanani ngosuku lokubeletha. Ngempela, umphathi kufanele azi ukuthi zingaki izinyanga noma iminyaka ukukuqasha esikhundleni, noma angase angaqashi nhlobo, uma isikhathi se-oda sakho sizoba sesikhashana.

Ukukhetha umzuzu ofanele
Akudingekile ukubika izindaba zokukhulelwa lapho abaphathi benomsebenzi, hlola noma kubika. Kungcono ukulinda isikhathi esivumayo. Uma umuntu ezolile futhi ejabule lezi zindaba zizobonakala kahle futhi zithandeke. Ngaphandle kwalokho, inhloko ayisebenzi njalo ngomzuzu ngesikhathi sokugcina.

Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuhlanganisa isimo sengqondo ngaphambi kokuba ingxoxo nomphathi futhi ungakhathazeki, awukwazi ukuxoshwa noma kunjalo, ngoba umthetho uhlangothi lwakho.