Omama abancane eRussia bavamile kakhulu. Ziyaxoshwa ngokujwayelekile, nakuba ngokuvamile kungenjalo. Ungacabangi ukuthi intombazane esemncane ayilungele ukukhulisa ingane yakhe. E-Russia, isimo sezomnotho sibi, ngakho-ke, akusekho ukusekelwa okuvela kuhulumeni. Kodwa konke okufanayo, omama abancane ababa abazali abahle kakhulu. Bathanda izingane zabo, bezama ukubanika konke abalahlekelwe empilweni yabo.
Izizathu zokuvela komama omncane.
Okokuqala, ukugcina impilo yakho siqu. Owesifazane akufanele aphazamise ukukhulelwa kwakhe kokuqala. Manje eRussia kukhona odokotela abahle kakhulu abakwazi ukwenza kahle ukusebenza, nakuba kuhlale kuyingozi empilweni yabesifazane. Umama, ukwenqaba ukuzalwa kwengane, ubeka ingozi yokulahlekelwa ithuba lokukhulelwa esikhathini esizayo. Ngokuvamile, intombazane encane ayifuni ukuba nomntwana wayo, ngakho wenqaba ukumyisa.
Okwesibili, isifiso sokungena kumuntu omdala. Ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nangenkathi encane intombazane ifuna ukuzizwa "impilo yangempela". Ngokuvamile, amacala anjalo avela emishadweni yomphakathi namadoda amadala. Sebezimisele kakade empilweni futhi nje kulindeleke ukuthi iminyaka yobudala ingene ebuhlotsheni obusemthethweni. Kulesi simo, umama osencane uba umzali omuhle kakhulu, welula ingane yakhe.
Okwesithathu, akunakwenzeka kokuqeda ukukhulelwa. Ngeshwa, kunezimo lapho intombazane ingazi ngokukhulelwa. Bazizwa kuphela ezinyangeni zamuva nje. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akusakwazi ukunqaba ukuzalwa kwengane. Ngakho-ke, kukhona omunye umama osemncane eRussia. Kodwa-ke, kanengi kunalokho, kanqabe izingane noma azidlulisele kubazali bazo.
Umama omncane waseRussia akanzima kakhulu ukuhlangabezana naye. Ngenxa yokubonakala kwabo njalo, inani labantwana abangenamakhaya ligcwaliswa. Ngokuvamile bayenqatshelwe ekuzalweni, nakuba lokhu akulungile. Noma kunjalo, umbuzo obalulekile uhlala, ungumama omncane onamandla okukhulisa ingane?
Umama omncane futhi ekhulisa ingane
Lona omunye wombuzo onzima kunazo zonke izixazululo eziningi zengqondo zixazulula. Inani lezingane ezizalwa ngaphandle komshado likhulu, futhi iningi lazo liwumphumela wokungabikho. Ubuhlobo bobulili buqala eminyakeni encane cishe njalo, kepha izindlela zokuvimbela ukuvimbela izisu azisetshenziswa njalo. Ukukhulisa ingane akulula, ikakhulukazi uma umuntu engakaze anqume empilweni. Nakuba izibalo zibonisa ukuthi umama omncane angaba umzali omuhle kakhulu . Akakwazi njalo ukuphatha kahle ingane, kodwa ufihla wonke amaphutha akhe, enikeza uthando oluphezulu.
Akuwona wonke amantombazane afuna ukukhulisa izingane. Kodwa-ke, akudingeki ukuba ucabange ukuthi inani lamama "omuhle" lincane. Ngisho naseRussia, bahlangana kaningi, bengatholi ukwesekwa okwanele emphakathini. Abazali abangaphansi kweminyaka bayakwazi ukufundisa ingane yabo, besebenzisa usizo lwabantu abaseduze. Futhi ukwenqatshwa kwezingane, kunalokho, kungenxa yokulahlwa okuvamile okufaka ukucindezela kubantu. Phela, isifiso sokukhulisa ingane yakho singanyamalala ngokushesha njengoba sibonakala.