Umbono ovamile wukuthi ngemva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu kungenakwenzeka ukuba uhileleke ngokomsebenzi. Kodwa-ke, amaqiniso akhombisa okuphambene nalokhu: iminyaka engu-30-35 iyisikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu emsebenzini. Eminyakeni engama-30, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufike ezindaweni eziphakeme kakhulu noma nje uqale ukusebenza kulo myalelo, kufanelekile ukuthatha umphumela ophakathi nokucabanga: kodwa kuphi ukuhamba ngokulandelayo? Yilapho isifiso sokwenza umsebenzi, ukufeza impumelelo yomuntu siqu sisebenza kahle. Futhi yenzeni, kholwa mina, akukaze kube sekwephuzile kakhulu ...
Isimo somsebenzi "kuze kube ngu-30" sibonakala sisaziwa kusengaphambili. Ngokujwayelekile cishe eminyakeni engu-22 sithola idiploma. Ngemuva kokusebenza iminyaka emibili noma emithathu, sivame ukuqonda ukuthi imfundo eyodwa ephakeme ayanele. Ngezela kulokhu isikhathi sokuphila komuntu siqu, umshado kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane, futhi kuvele ukuthi eminyakeni engama-30-35 kuphela singafaka indawo "ye-chocolate" ngenhla ephakeme. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukukhula okuqondile" ...
Ephakeme nangaphezulu ...
UTatyana, eseqedile esikhungweni, waya emsebenzini njengendlela yokuthumela ibhange elikhulu. Kubonakala sengathi lesi sikhundla asizange sithembise ukukhula kwakhe komsebenzi, kodwa emva kwezinyanga ezintathu uTatiana wasukuma waya enobhala, waba ngumsizi enhloko, eminyakeni emine kamuva - iphini likamqondisi, futhi eminyakeni eyishumi kamuva wahola umnyango wezokuthuthukiswa.
Ukuze ushiye "ukukhipha", noma kunjalo, akuyona nje esemncane. Manje akekho omangazwa ukuthi eminyakeni engama-30 yomsebenzi, ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane, sekuqala nje. U-Eugene washada ngomnyaka we-19, ngomnyaka wesibili we-Faculty ye-Economics yaseMoscow State University, kanti iminyaka yokuqala eyisikhombisa yokuphila komndeni yayibanjelwe ezinganeni, ngenkathi esebenza isikhathi esithile emsebenzini wokuzimele. Lapho bobabili abantwana beya esikoleni, sekuyisikhathi sokuhlaziya okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho. "Ekubuyiseni kwami kwakungekho lutho lwekhonkrithi - isethi yemisebenzi engahleliwe. Kodwa, ngemva kokuzindla, ngabona ukuthi into engcono engayenza kwakuwukuphatha abantu, - kusho u-Eugene. - Nginemfundo ephakeme yesibili futhi ngineminyaka engu-29 ubudala ngathola ukulungela umsebenzi wami wokuqala ekukhethweni okukhethiwe. Manje sengineminyaka engu-32 ubudala, ngisungulwe kakade enkampanini, futhi abaphathi bangibona kimi amandla amakhulu omphathi. "
"Ngiyakhumbula izikhulu zezindaba ezinjalo," kusho u-Elena Salina, isazi sezinsiza zabantu. - Kubalulekile ukuthi kulesi sikhathi lapho abesifazane bavame ukukhula ngokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu, bahloniphe isithunzi sabo, baqonde umgomo futhi benze amaphutha ambalwa kakhulu endleleni yokufezekisa. Ngakho-ke kulula ngabo ukufeza impumelelo yomuntu. "
Ngaphandle kokushintsha indawo
Akubona bonke abafuna ukuba ngabaongameli yiqiniso. Kuthiwani uma uthanda umsebenzi wakho futhi ungawuthengisisi nganoma yisiphi isikhundla sobuholi? Ukuze ube nesithukuthezi ngesikhathi, njalo unesithakazelo kwizifundo ezintsha kanye nokuqeqesha esihlokweni sakho, wandise ububanzi bemisebenzi yakho, ngokufushane, ukhule "ngokuqondile". Ngokukhulisa ulwazi lwakho namakhono ezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu, uzoba isisebenzi esibalulekile, abaqashi bazokwehla, futhi ungakwazi ukubeka imithetho yakho yenkampani, hhayi ngokuphambene nalokho. U-Elena Salina uthi: "Abasebenzi abanolwazi oluningi bahlale behlonishwa ngaphezu kwezifiki, ngisho noma imisebenzi yabo ingabandakanyi izinkinga eziyinkimbinkimbi," kusho u-Elena Salina. - Umqashi angacaciswa: abantu abasha abakaqambi amakhono okuthiwa amakhono. Ngokuqinisekile bazofunda emaphutheni, okuvame ukuholela ekulahlekeni kwenkampani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, esemncane (iminyaka engu-20-26) izinkinga zomuntu zinesithakazelo esikhulu kunomuntu kunenqubo yomsebenzi. Abasebenzi abaneminyaka engu-29-35, ngokuphambene nalokho, banokwethenjelwa, banakekele umsebenzi wabo futhi balwela ukuzuza kahle ukuze basekele umndeni, njengomthetho, osemisiwe. "
U-Alina, umhleli weviki elikhulu, oneminyaka engu-34, uqiniseke ukuthi akafuni ukushintsha umsebenzi wakhe: "Umphathi wami uphakamise kabili ukuphakamisa ukhetho lwami lokuthunyelwa komhleli-inhloko yombhalo omusha, kodwa ngenqabe. Ngiyathanda ukubhala, futhi angifuni ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo eyengeziwe ... Kuyinto engathandeki! "U-Alina ujabulela zonke izinzuzo zenkosi yangempela yobuciko bakhe: uthunyelwa phesheya ukuze aqeqeshe, njalo uphakamisa umholo kanye nobukhulu bamabhonasi. "Uma ngishintsha noma yini, kuyoba yincwadzi, hhayi okuthunyelwe," kusho u-Alina.
Qala kusuka ekuqaleni!
Umthetho wegolide: ukwenza umsebenzi, udinga ukukholelwa kuwe. Futhi akunandaba ukuthi ungakanani ubudala. Ungesabi umsebenzi omusha, noma ngabe umsebenzi odlule awuhambisani nalokho okwenziwe ukukwenza manje. Izazi zezenhlalo zikholelwa ukuthi ezimweni zanamuhla abantu kufanele balungele izinguquko ezinkulu ezinhlanu noma eziyisithupha emisebenzini yabo ngesikhathi sokuphila kwabo. "Inani lezinguquko endaweni yangaphandle liye lakhula izikhathi eziningana eminyakeni engu-15 eyedlule, ukuqonda kwethu amathuba okuzibonela kuye kwanda futhi," kuchaza uchwepheshe ka-Human Resources u-Elena Salina. - Namuhla, umbuzo othi "Ubani osebenzelayo?" Abantu baqhubeka bephendula: "Kuwe." Ukhetha indawo yomsebenzi kuye ngezimo zomuntu siqu nesimo sezomnotho samanje futhi uyazi kusengaphambili ukuthi lo msebenzi awuyona impilo. "
Isibonelo sokuphefumulelwa yindaba ka-Olga Lakhtina, owayengesabi ukushintsha umsebenzi wakhe eminyakeni engama-35: "Ngangihlale ngifuna ukuba ngososayensi, kodwa ngaleyo minyaka lapho ngena kuqala eyunivesithi, ukucabanga kwengqondo eRussia kwakungadingeki, futhi abazali bami bangiqede isinyathelo esingenangqondo. Ngaphumelela eSikoleni. U-Plekhanov wasebenza iminyaka eminingi njengomhlaziyi wezezimali, ngesikhathi esifanayo efunda umsebenzi wengqondo. Ngama-35, ngiqhubeka nokusebenza, ngena kwi-Institute of Psychology ye-Russian Academy of Sciences. Sekuyiminyaka emithathu manje sengisengumqondo wezengqondo phakathi nendawo yokuzivumelanisa nomphakathi nokuthuthukiswa kwentsha "Perekrestok". Ngisebenza nezingane, ngiyeluleka imindeni esesimweni esibucayi, yenza umsebenzi wokuvimbela ezikoleni, yenza izifundo ngabanye, ngezwi, wenze lokho engikulokhu ngiphupha ukwenza. "
Yiqiniso, ukuguqulwa okuphelele emkhakheni wezenzo kuyindlela ephumelelayo kodwa eqondile yokuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo. Ezimbonini eziningi, ungashintsha ngempumelelo ukukhethekile, uhlale esakhiweni senkampani lapho usuvele waziwa khona.
Into esemqoka akufanele igijimele!
Khumbula, ebhayisikobho "UMoscow akakholelwa izinyembezi," i-heroine kaVera Alentova yathi: "Eminyakeni engamashumi amane, ukuphila sekuqala nje - manje ngiyazi ngokuqinisekile!" Ukuhumusha lokhu ngolimi lomsebenzi, singasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi: kulabo abangamashumi amathathu sithatha isisekelo sokuphumelela kweqiniso. Ungazami ukugijima ngaphambi kwenjini, usebenza amahora angu-24 ngosuku. Ngesifiso sokwenza umsebenzi, ukufeza impumelelo yomuntu kubalulekile ukungaphuthelwa impilo ngokwayo. Ekugcineni, sinikeza umsebenzi empilweni yethu eminingi, futhi akufanele ukuletha imali kuphela, kodwa nokunethezeka kokuziphatha. Ungesabi ukushintsha ukuma kwakho kobuchwepheshe ngokuvumelana nezifiso zakho nezifiso zakho. Ngisho noma ulahlekelwa yilokho osekutholile, ngokubuyisela uzothola okuningi - ujabulele umsebenzi.