Izintshisekelo ezihlukahlukene
Indoda nentombazane ingaba nesithakazelo esihluke ngokuphelele ekuphileni. Isibonelo, emva komsebenzi kungcono ukuhlala okungenani amahora ambalwa kwikhompyutha, ukudlala i-DotA, bese ufunda kancane incwadi enzima. Futhi intombazane, ithanda ukutadisha imidanso yase-oriental kanye ne-fayerom. Imisebenzi yabo ibonakala ingeyona indlela enkulu komunye nomunye futhi ihlukumeza, kodwa ekugcineni, kunoma yikuphi ukungqubuzana, intombazane iqala ukuthukuthela i-popolov ukuthi le nsizwa ayishiyi ikhompyutha, futhi ithukuthele, ucabangela ukuthi izifundo zakhe nazo zingenasisekelo. Kulesi simo, umehluko osesithakazelweni uholela eqinisweni lokuthi lo mbhangqwana, nganoma yiluphi ithuba, uqala ukwenza izinto zokuzilibazisa zibe ngukuqeda. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, lokhu kubonakala kungeyona isizathu sokuhlukanisa, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, izinto ezincane ezinjalo zikhula kancane kancane njenge-snowball, ngenxa yalokho ungabe usabheka ubumnene ngalokho umuntu okwenzayo akwenzayo. Kulesi simo, kudingeka ufunde ukuqonda i-halves halves. Ukuqonda. Akudingeki umthande, akudingeki ukuthi ubhekane naye ngale ndaba. Kufanele nje uyiqonde. Futhi yilokho konke. Esimweni sewayini, izingxabano ngesisekelo sezinto ezincane ezinjalo zingakwazi ukufinyelela izilinganiso ezibanzi kakhulu, futhi kakade awukwazi ukuhlangana ndawonye ngenxa yokucasula okufanayo.
Izinhloso ezehlukene
Wonke umuntu unenjongo ekuphileni. Omunye ufuna ukwenza umsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, ngoba umuntu obaluleke kakhulu ukudala imindeni nokuzalwa kwezingane, kanti abanye bafuna ukuhlala ngokuthula, ikakhulukazi ngaphandle kokucindezeleka, nokuthi akukho muntu okufanele abathinte. Uma umbhangqwana udalwa abantu abanezinhloso ezahlukene, lokhu kungabangela ukungezwani okuphakade. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma kuqhathaniswa kakhulu nendiza eyodwa yomgomo, isimo sibucayi. Isibonelo, uma indoda ifuna umndeni kanye nezingane, futhi owesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, akafuni ukucabanga ngalokhu isikhathi eside, njengoba ephethe indawo yokuqala emsebenzini, kulokhu kunzima kakhulu ukugwema ukuxabana nokungaqondani okungafani. Kuzuzisa ukuba ndawonye, ngoba bayomane bahlukunyezane. Phela, umgomo uyinto ebaluleke kunazo zonke esinazo ekuphileni. Futhi uma othile ezama ukukhipha kithi, futhi akunandaba, ikakhulukazi hhayi, khona-ke siqala ukuzonda lo muntu kancane kancane. I-Vitoga iveza ukuthi owesifazane owayefuna ukufeza okuthile empilweni yakhe futhi anikeze umndeni wakhe, emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabili inzondo ibheka umyeni wakhe ovilaphayo, osebenza konke ukuphila kwakhe, njengoba kudingekile futhi lapho kunesidingo, akazange azuze lutho, futhi ngenxa yokuthi wayehlala njengoba ayefuna, ngaphandle kokuzihlupha. Ngakho-ke, uma ubona ukuthi wena kanye nensizwa yakho awunayo imifu ehlukile, engafani ngokungafani nayo empilweni, uzobe usuhamba kahle. Yiqiniso, lokhu kunzima futhi kuyabuhlungu, ngoba manje kukhona uthando phakathi kwakho. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, cabanga ukuthi emva kweminyaka eyishumi ngeke ukwazi ukubuka ama-arcs futhi uzozisola ngokuthi ulahlekelwe isikhathi esiningi ngokungenalutho.
Isimo sengqondo esihlukile kokuphila
Akumangalisi ukuthi bathi ubuhlobo bubulala i-bytovuha. Eqinisweni, yizimo zengqondo ezihlukahlukene zokuphila ezivame ukudala ingxabano phakathi kwempi. Isibonelo, intombazane yakhula emndenini, lapho ngisho nangomunye owodwa ongayitholi udoti abazali bakhe base bevele bemshayela ukuze akhumbule kuze kube phakade umbuso: gcina indlu ngokuhlanzeka okuphelele. Insizwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, ibhekisela ezintweni ezinjalo ngokunganaki futhi ingasula ngokuphephile ubhiya ngethawula etholakala endlini yokugezela. Noma le nsizwa yakhulela endlini lapho ukuhlanza kwenziwa khona cishe nsuku zonke futhi zonke izigqoko zinenani elihlukile, kanti le ntombazane yahlala nomndeni wayo, ongazange akhokhe isikhathi sokuhlanza okuningi. Lapho abantu abanjalo behlangana, abakholelwa ngisho nokuthi ukungafuni kungase kuqale ukuchitha indlela yokuphila. Kodwa ukuhlala endlini eyodwa, kukhona izingxabano nokuhlambalaza njalo, ngoba umuntu akakwazi ukubekezelela ukuhlanzeka okuhle, njengamamyuziyamu, nenhliziyo yomuntu iyeka lapho ebona ukuqala okusheshayo ukusula ngethawula lesbuso. Kulesi simo, konke kuxhomeke enkanyeni yamadoda nabesifazane. Uma umuntu ebona ukuthi usenza okuthile okungalungile futhi enquma ukuthi angathuthukisa, ngakho konke kuhambisane. Kodwa uma endlini eyodwa wonke umuntu eqala ukusungula imithetho yakhe, ngakho-ke kule nkinga, izinkinga zansuku zonke ziba izingxabano nezigameko ezihlala njalo. Yiqiniso, ungamane uyishaya indiva ukuthi ingxenye yakho yenzani futhi wenze ngendlela yakho, kodwa ngeshwa, cishe akekho ongakwazi ukumelana nezinto ezifakelwe kuye kusukela ebuntwaneni njengoba engamukeleki. Ngakho-ke, uma ubona lokho okungahambisani nhlobo ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, cabanga ngempela ukuthi ungayimisa kangakanani. Cabanga ukuthi uzofundisa kanjani izingane uma upapa enemithetho ethile, nomama - ehluke ngokuphelele. Futhi usuvele uqala kukho konke lokhu, unqume ukuthi uthando lwakho luqine noma lufanelekile nokuba yingxenye futhi uthole labo bantu abangapheli amandla kulokho abakubona ekhaya lakho.
Ezinye imizwa yamahlaya
Futhi umehluko owodwa phakathi kwabantu, okufanele uwakhumbule umqondo wokuhlekisa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kumnandi ukungavumelani ngoba ungaqondi amahlaya omunye nomunye. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, inkinga yukuthi ubuhlobo abukwazi ukwakhelwa kuphela othandweni olulodwa kanye nocansi. Uma abantu bengenabo abahlakaniphile, lo mdlalo wesikhathi sinobunzima kakhulu. Vumelana, ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo, amahlaya omfana enkampanini yabangane futhi wonke umuntu uhleka futhi intombazane yakhe ihlabezela "votidiot". Futhi ngimbheka ubuso bakhe obubi njalo, indoda iqala nokuzwa imizwa. Yiqiniso, le nkinga ayiyona imbi kakhulu kunabo bonke abadlule, kodwa kulokhu, ungakwazi ukweluleka esikhundleni sokuphikisana, uzama ukuqonda amahlaya omunye nomunye noma okungenani ungabonakali ukunganeliseki kwakho okuvulekile, ikakhulukazi uma ubona ukuthi abanye abantu bathanda konke futhi bayajabula .
Umuntu akasoze athi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi kufanelekile ukuya kubantu abahlukile. Konke kuncike ekutheni unesineke nokuthi ungabheka kanjani ukuziphatha okungamukeleki kuwe. Kulokhu okudingeka uqale ekuqaleni uma wenza isinqumo.