Ukugcwaliswa kabusha emndenini - ukucindezeleka njalo, okungadluli i-nimamu, noma upapa. Kodwa umama owodwa, owathi izinyanga ezingu-9 wazizwa ukunyakaza kwengane, wayesejwayele, wafunda izincwadi ezikhethekile nezinkulumo zansuku zonke naye futhi - ubaba, oye wathinta isisu esithile, ngezinye izikhathi wachitha imisho embalwa. Ubaba wayengazange abe namandla akhe. Futhi lokhu kuvamile, iziphetho ukwenza kuqala.
Ukwesaba ukwenza okuthile okungalungile
Uma ubhekene nalesi simo, ungasheshi ukusola ubaba ngokuba engenacala, engenabantwana futhi engakwazi ukugcina izwi lakhe. Cishe, ingane yindoda iyakuthanda ngempela. Inkinga ukuthi abafana abasha badinga isikhathi esengeziwe sokujwayela ingane. Ukukhala, ukukhathalela njalo, umthwalo omkhulu, ngokuzumayo ukuwa phansi, kuzoncishiswa ekungenakusho, lokhu kufanele kuqondwe. Kodwa-ke, isizathu esiyinhloko esenza amadoda agijimise ingane ukwesaba ukwenza iphutha. Eyesaba ukucasula isidalwa esinesibindi esinezinsipho nezinyawo ezincane, ubaba omncane uhlala kude. Njengo-nikruti, lo wesifazane uzimisele ngokwengeziwe ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo ukubonakala kwengane - isisulu sokubeletha siyazizwa. Ubaba naye uthola ama-gamuts, ongamsiza ukuba abhekane nakho.
Indlela yokwenza nabangane nabo
Iphutha eliyinhloko umama enza kulezi zimo: ukucasula, ukuhlukanisa ingane nobaba komunye nomunye. Ukuvinjelwa okunjalo ku-obschenieene akuzuzisi ingane noma ubaba. Uma ukhuthaza umuntu ukuba asondelane nengane, ngokushesha uzokwenza "abangane". Akudingekile ukuthi ucele ubaba ukuba ashintshe i-diaper noma ukukhipha umntwana. Ukuze uqale, zifake kukhulumomphendvulwano yakho, unake ukunakekelwa kwengane kuyise, shayela indoda ukuthi yisekele ingane. Ngokushesha uzoqala ukubonisa umsebenzi, ezwa ukuthi uyaphumelela kuye.
"Wenza konke okungalungile"
Uma ufuna ukukhipha umyeni wakho ngokuphelele kusukela ekubelekeni kwengane, mtshele ngesibindi nangokuqondile ukuthi akabheki nemisebenzi yakhe. Ubaba osemncane angase abe mnumzane ekuqaleni, kodwa ungasheshi ukwenza amazwi abukhali futhi usongele ukuthi ungamniki ingane ezandleni zakhe. Khuluma ngokucacile futhi ubonise ukuthi ungabamba kanjani ikhanda, ukondla ebhodleleni, ushintshe idolo bese ubanga, ukuze ungaboni intshebe encane yengane.
Ingane idinga kokubili
Kuyiphutha ukukholelwa ukuthi umama ubaluleke kakhulu kunane osanda kuzalwa. Ingane ihlukanise amazwi akho isikhathi eside manje, futhi manje ifunda ukuqaphela ubuso. Yiqiniso, ubona kaningi umama wakhe, yingakho ejwayele ukuyijwayela. Ekuqaleni empilweni yakhe kubonakala ubuso bukapapa, izwi lakhe kanye nokuthinta, kuzoba lula phakathi kobaba nengane ukuba nobuhlobo obuhle nobungane esikhathini esizayo.
Uma ubuhlobo bukapapa nomntwana bungasheshi ukuthuthukisa, ungabi nongcolile. Mhlawumbe ubaba wakho udinga isikhathi esiningi ukuze athole umntwana ulimi oluvamile. Yiba ngumlamuleli ekusebenzisaneni kwabo, futhi izinto zizohamba ngokushesha.