Abantu abaningi banesithakazelo kumbuzo wokuthi isikhathi sokuxhumana kocansi sincike. Ubude bokulala ngokobulili kuncike ekutheni ubukhulu bomuntu budala kangakanani. Uma ukuzwakalisa komuntu kungakafiki umkhawulo, esikhathini sokuphelelwa isikhathi esingaphelele, isenzo socansi singase sibonakale side kakhulu. Endaweni ethile eneminyaka engama-22 ubude besenzo buyancipha, futhi emva kweminyaka engu-26 isikhathi sokuxhumana kocansi sikhula kancane kancane. Lokhu kubangelwa ukuthi uma uneminyaka yobudala, ukuxolisa ngokocansi komuntu kwehla.
Yini enquma ubude bobulili
Ubude obuhlobene kakhulu obuthintana nabo bocansi buhlotshaniswa nesisindo somsebenzi wezocansi, kanye nemvamisa yokukhishwa kwegazi, ngoba ngaphezu kwezenzo zocansi, umuntu kufanele acabangele umsebenzi wokushaya indlwabu kanye nokungcola. Isikhathi sesenzo sincike esimweni somuntu (ukudakwa, izidakamizwa, njll.) Ubuhle budlala indima ebalulekile. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi ngokulala ocansini okuphindaphindiwe emini, ubude besenzo ngasinye esilandelayo singama-1.5-2 izikhathi eziphakeme kunaleyo eyedlule. Futhi ngokuzithiba ngokocansi, isikhathi sesenzo sincishisiwe. Ngokusho kwemiphumela yezifundo, ezimweni eziningi, kusukela kumaminithi angu-1.5 kuya kwangu-2, i-coitus ihlala, kuyilapho indoda ikhiqiza izifo ezingaba ngu-250.
Akusiyo imfihlakalo ukuthi ukuhlangabezana nabaningi besifazane lesi sikhathi asikwanele, ngoba ngokwesilinganiso kuthatha imizuzu eyishumi kuya kwemihlanu yokuvuselela izindawo eziyingozi. Kodwa kufanele kuqashelwe ukuthi abesifazane abathandekayo bajabule ngokushesha.
Ukwandisa ubude bobulili, kunconywa ukuthi uyisebenzise ekuseni. Iqiniso liwukuthi ngemva kokuvusa injabulo yendoda ayikhuli kakhulu. Amanye amadoda ayeke isikhashana ngesikhathi socansi, ukuze i-excitability ilele. Futhi, amadoda agqoka ikhondomu - kusiza ukunciphisa ukucasuka kwekhanda lepenisi, thatha isikhundla kusuka ngezansi ukuze uphumule futhi uphazamise. Kodwa amadoda kufanele azi ukuthi akudingekile ukwandisa ubude besenzo, kwanele ukulungiselela owesifazane ukuba asondelane, ngosizo lwe-caresses yokuqala. Ngokubambisana okwanele, bobabili abalingani bafinyeleleka kobulili lula futhi ngokushesha, ngoba bayakwazi ukuthola "ukhiye" komunye nomunye.
Kusukela kulokho okunciphisa ubude bobulili
Isenzo esithatha amaminithi angaphansi kuka-1.5-2 kubhekwa ubulili obufushane. Lokhu kubangelwa ukujula okusheshayo okusheshayo. Lokhu kungenzeka ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Intsha eningi ezinyathelweni zokuqala zobulili ibhekene nenkinga enjengoba i-ejaculation engakafiki. Ubude bokuxhumana nocansi bujwayelekile uma impilo yobulili iqiniswa. Izimo umuntu azibangela ukwesaba nokukhathazeka nazo zivame ukubangela i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Lokhu kungaba: ukuziphatha okungenele komlingani, izimo ezingalungile, njll. Ukujula okusheshayo kungenzeka futhi kungabikho komkhuba, kuvame ukuxhumana nomfazi obandayo okungeyona into ethandekayo ngokobulili. Ngenxa yokwehla okukhulu kwemizwa emadodeni, ubulili bungaba bufushane njalo. Ngesikhathi eside sokuzilahla ngokocansi, ukulala ngokobulili kungase kube mfushane. Ukwehlisa okwesikhashana ubude bobulili kungenxa yokuntuleka kokulala, ukukhathala okujwayelekile. Emadodeni akhathazekile futhi acabangekayo, ukwehluleka kwangaphambilini kwe-psyche kungagcinwa, okuholela ekulindeni kokuhluleka. Ukwehluleka okuningi, ngokushesha ukuthi bafuna ukuqaphela. Ukwengeza, hhayi njalo, kodwa imbangela ye-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi ingase ibe: ukukhushulwa kwezifo ezingelapheki ezikhukhulayo kwi-prostate gland nezinye izinkinga, ilungu elincane le-frenum.
Ukwesaba ukuzithengisa, ukwesaba ukwehluleka, ukucindezeleka ngokomzwelo kubangelwa ukuthi kuhlale kusenesikhathi sokuqala. Lezi zinhlangano zenza ukungalingani kwesimiso sezinzwa, okudambisa izindlela ezingahle ziphuze ukujula. Ngokuvamile, amadoda abhekene nokuhlukumeza okunjalo angeke alawule futhi alindele ubude besenzo. Ezimweni ezinjalo kunconywa ukuba uthintane nochwepheshe.