Abaningi besifazane bafuna ukuqhubeka nokwenza uthando ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ngaphandle kwemingcele, kodwa abaningi babo abazi ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nezinzwa ezintsha futhi bangalimazi ingane. Khumbula ukuthi ngaphandle kocansi oluphephile ngesikhathi ukhulelwe, kunezinye izinhlobo zokusondelana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane: isibonelo, imivimbo ejwayelekile noma imivimbo. Nika omunye nomunye uthando nomthokozi njalo lapho ufuna!
Abazali besikhathi esizayo, nazo zonke izinhlobo zezinguquko esimweni sabo sengqondo ngokuya ocansini - kusukela ekuthokozeni ngokweqile ekuboneni kwakho okuzungezile futhi ethululela isifuba emizweni kayise kanye nokwesaba ukulimaza ingane (okukwazi ukuphikisa ukukhanga). Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuxoxa ngokukhululekile zonke izinkinga ezikukhathazayo - kokubili ngocansi oluphephile ngesikhathi ukhulelwe, nangomzali wakho wokubeletha esikhathini esizayo. Ungakhohlwa futhi ukuthi, ngenxa yezinguquko emzimbeni wakho, i-caresses nezenzo ezithokozisayo namuhla zingabangela ukunganaki ngesonto.
I-Swallows yokuqala
Izimpawu zokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni, njengokugula kwasekuseni kanye nobuhlungu besifuba, zinganciphisa ukuqina kocansi. Ngaphakathi kwakho, ingane ikhula, i-placenta ikhiwa, ngakho ingxenye yamandla omzimba wakho isetshenziswa ekuhlinzekeni lezi zinqubo. Ukukhokhela lezi zindleko zamandla kuzokusiza ukuphumula okufanelekile, kanye nokuzivocavoca umzimba okujabulisayo, okubandakanya ubulili. Esikhathini sokuqala sokukhulelwa, imibhangqwana eminingi ikhathazekile ukuthi ukungenelela emlonyeni womama ozayo kungabangela ukukhulelwa kwesisu.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lokhu kungase kube kubi kangakanani, amanye amadoda asaba ukuthi ngokwenza lokhu "bangamshaya futhi bamlimaze ingane. Qinisekisa umthandi ukuthi ingane ivikelwe yi-cervix, futhi i-amniotic fluid idala igobolondo elithembekile elizungezile, lapho ngisho namabhaktheriya abakwazi ukungena khona. Ngokuvamile, ukuphazamiseka kokukhulelwa kungenxa yokungahleleki kwe-chromosomal noma ezinye izinkinga zokuthuthukiswa kwe-fetus ezingavamile ukuhlotshaniswa nemisebenzi yakho yezocansi. Kwenzeka ukuthi imibhangqwana esebenza "ngokubambisana" ngokukhulelwa kwengane, ngemuva kokufeza umgomo, ubulili bulahlekelwa ukubaluleka kwayo kanye nesidingo. Ngokwengqondo, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi umzimba udinga ukuphumula okwesikhashana kusuka kulowo "msebenzi".
I-Honeymoon
I-trimester yesibili ingasetshenziswa ngokuphepha ngokuthi i-honeymoon yesibili yabesifazane abaningi - isicanucanu sekusasa sekusasa, izinguquko esifubeni ziphuza futhi ziyeke ukuzwa okungajabulisi, ngokufushane, ujwayele ukukhulelwa. Ezingxenyeni zakho nakwezinye izitho zesistimu yokuzala, manje kukhona ukugeleza okuphawulekayo kwegazi, ngakho-ke i-libido yakho ingathuthuka kakhulu, kanye nekhono lokuzwa i-orgasm. Kodwa kukhona nokuphazamiseka kwengqikithi yemali: kulesi sigaba, ukuphuma kwe-post-coital encane kungenzeka. Uma umuntu evuselela umlomo wesibeletho nge-penis, inani elithile legazi lingaphuma, elihlala liphazamisa ozakwethu. Uma konke kuhamba kahle, ukuphuma kwegazi kuyisimo esingenasisindo futhi ngokushesha. Noma kunjalo, ngokukhishwa kancane okusolisayo kubalulekile ukubonana nodokotela.
Hlala ubuhle!
Ziqaphele, uziqaphele ngokukhethekile lezo zincenye zomzimba ezingencike esimweni sakho esisha: unakekele ubuhle bezinwele, uthuthukise isikhumba, u-manicure no-pedicure. Khetha ngokucophelela izingubo zangaphansi: kufanele kube ngekhwalithi ephezulu, ukusekela futhi ungasifaki esifubeni, kuyakhanya ukubukeka. Ngentambama, gqoka imikhiqizo elula eyenziwe ngezinto zokwakha zemvelo, futhi kusihlwa khetha i-sexy fishnet panties kanye ne-T-shirt - intandokazi izoyithanda!
Ziqhenye ngesisu sakho!
I-crumb ekugcineni iyabonakala - amafomu akho ahamba ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngesikhathi se-ultrasound kunamathuba okuthola ubulili bomntwana oqala ukufaka isisu sakho. Ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi ukuxhumana kwengqondo phakathi komama wesikhathi esizayo nengane kukhula ngamandla. Nokho, akufanele sikhohlwe ukuthi umama kufanele, njengoba ngaphambili, ahlale ecansi. Ngokuvamile abashadile bathola ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi okuhambisana nomqondo othi "owesifazane-umama" nethi "umthandi wesifazane." Phendula ngokukhululekile lokho okuhlangenwe nakho, futhi uma lokhu kungakusizi, cela usizo kochwepheshe. Abesifazane abaningi benqaba ukwenza uthando, ngoba kubo, ubulili buhambisana ngokuqinile nokuvumelana. Umphakathi uveza ezinhliziyweni zethu umfanekiso womzimba omuhle, osuvele ubuhlungu kakhulu kunamafomu akhona abomama abalindele. Khumbula: manje uthando lomzimba wakho luyingxenye yokunakekela ingane yakho yesikhathi esizayo.
Ukukhishwa kwesimangaliso
Okuseduze nosuku lokubeletha, ukugxila kwakho kugxile ekulindeni umcimbi futhi uzimelele endimeni yomama, hhayi kumyeni kanye nobudlelwane naye, njengangaphambili. Ngokuvamile, ubulili ku-trimester yesithathu yokukhulelwa kwenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo, ngoba isimo sengqondo esinjalo sishintsha kunzima ukubikezela ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngomzuzu. Ngenxa yokungabi nalutho lokuzijabulisa, abesifazane abahlupheki ngenxa yezinga eliphezulu le-progesterone nesipiliyoni se-estrogen ukukhangwa ngokobulili kumlingani wabo. Eqhutshwa yisifiso, ihamba kalula kalula ngesisu, ekhuphuka ngezindlela ezintsha zokuthola injabulo enkulu ngokusondelana. Ngezinye izikhathi, ngemuva kokwenza uthando, ungathola ukuzwela okuncane. Lokhu kuvamile.
Ngesikhathi se-orgasm, izivumelwano zakho zobulili, futhi i-hormone prostaglandin equkethwe kumuntu yenza izinkinga ezilula "zokuqeqesha". Inzalo ngokwayo iyanciphisa umlomo wesibeletho kancane, uyilungiselela ukubeletha. Cabanga ukuthi ukulwa okunjalo akufanele kube yisikhathi eside futhi kube nzima - kungenjalo kufanele uthinte ngokushesha umjozi wezifo zogciwane. Ubulili abukwazi ukuvusa ukubeletha, kodwa uma uzizwa ukuqala komsebenzi, ukwenza uthando kungasheshisa futhi kwenziwe lula inqubo ezayo. Uma ukhululekile futhi ujabulela ukusondelana, ngaphezu kwe-prostaglandin, i-oxytocin ikhiqizwa emzimbeni, okwenza ukuba imisipha iqhume, futhi i-endorphins yi-hormone yokuthakazelisa nemithi yemvelo yemilenze. Ngegazi baya emntwaneni, futhi ujabulela nonina.