Ngokuvamile, ngale ndlela, sixwayiswa nganoma yiziphi izenzakalo ezimbi okufanele zenzeke kithi. Yiqiniso, kukhona okuhlukile, konke kuxhomeke emininingwaneni eminingi yengozi yemoto ephupho.
Kungani izingozi zemoto ziphupha?
- lapho umphuphi ebona ukufa komngane engozini - lokhu kungasho isimo sengqondo esibi esifihlekile kulo muntu: ukuhlukunyezwa, umona, ukwenqaba ukuxhumana naye;
- uma kwenzeka ingozi ephusheni, ngenxa yalokho olimale - isibonakaliso ukuthi esikhathini esizayo ulindele ukudumala, inkathazo noma ukuhlupheka empilweni yakho;
- uma ukushayeka kwezimoto kwenzeka olwandle, ulwandle lusho ukuthi, maduzane, lihloselwe ukuthola uthando lwakho. Uma ushadile, ungahlukanisa ubuhlobo bamanje, emva kwalokho uzohlangana nomunye, uvumelane emoyeni;
- uma kwenzeka ushonele engozini, noma uma ubona ukufa kwabantu - ulindele izinkinga embuthanweni wezihlobo zawo. Kubalulekile ukuvinjelwa futhi ungabonisi ukucasula kwakho nokuhlukumezeka, ngaphandle kwalokho kungase kube nemiphumela emibi kakhulu;
- uma owesifazane elimale engozini - lokhu kungasho ukuwa ngokushesha kwecebo. Cishe amapulani owawakhela ngaphezu kwenyanga noma ngisho nonyaka, ngeke azaliseke;
- lapho intombazane ibona ingozi, kodwa ingabambi iqhaza kuyo - ibhuku lephupho lihunyushwa njengengozi eyokwenzeka komunye wabangane abahle. Mhlawumbe uzokulimaza;
- kodwa uma umphuphi evimbele ingozi - lokhu kuyisignali enhle esitshela mayelana nesisombululo esiseduze kuzo zonke izinkinga nezinkinga ohlangabezane nazo noma ohlangabezane nazo;
- Ukungena engozini lapho emotweni kwakukhona khona izihlobo ezilahlekelwe isikhathi eside - ukhuluma ukuthi ngendlela engabhekana nezinkinga. Ukuxazulula inkinga kuzothatha isikhathi esiningi, kodwa ngenxa yalokho, le nhlekelele ayenzeki, ungaqhubeka nomzila;
- Ukulimala okukhulu kwemoto okubandakanya izimoto eziningana kungaba yisixwayiso lapho umuntu exwayisa ngesidingo sokuthembela ekuxazululeni ubunzima kuphela kuwe. Ungabeki noma yimiphi imithwalo yemfanelo komunye umuntu, uzokwehlisa;
- uma ubhekene nomunye umshini wokungabikho kwengqondo - isibonakaliso sokuthi ungathola isiphetho sokuba uqaphele. Lokhu akusho emgwaqeni, kodwa emsebenzini, impilo yomuntu siqu, ngokuphathelene nezihlobo zakhe othandekayo noma ezithandekayo;
- ukulawulwa okulahlekile emotweni, kuhlulekile ukuphatha - ungaqhubeki ezindabeni zabo, ukuxazulula noma yiziphi izinkinga, hamba kahle, ungaphonsa yonke into;
- lapho ngenxa yengozi yemoto ephusheni imoto iqhuma - lokhu kungasho ukuhlazeka okukhulu emndenini;
- uma kwenzeka kungenzeka ukuba ugweme ingozi ephusheni - isibonakaliso esikhuluma ngobunzima obusheshayo obunqume ukuhlonipha futhi uzozuza kuyo.
Abaningi babo baphupha ingozi yemoto hhayi okuhle, njengokuphila kwangempela. Yilokho okwenzeka uma ungakwazi ukuqhathanisa kalula iphupho nezwe langempela lezinto. Izincwadi eziningi zokuphupha azitusa ukushayela noma ukushayela kwenye imoto ngosuku lophupho waphupha into enjalo. Uhlala ethembeni lokuhle, ngoba akuwona wonke amaphupho agcwaliseka.