Yeka ukukhala lapho ufuna ngempela - ukuzivocavoca
Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukugxila ekuphefumuleni ngezikhathi zokuvusa ngokomzwelo. Kungenzeka ukuthi uqaphele ukuthi uma ufuna ukukhala ngenxa yokuhlambalaza, ukuphefumula kwakho kudidekile futhi kuphuthumayo, futhi ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka okukhulu noma ukwesaba ngeke ube nomoya okwanele okwesikhashana. Ukuze uziqede - udinga ukuzola ukuphefumula kwakho. Ingabe unomuzwa wokuthi usuzokhala? Phakamisa isikhuhlane sakho bese uthatha ukuphefumula okumbalwa ngekhala lakho, udlulise emlonyeni wakho. Ngale ndlela ungaqeda lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ihlumela emqaleni. Zama ukubala ukunyakaza kokuphefumula, cabanga ukuthi umoya ugcwalisa kanjani amaphaphu akho. Iphunga elimnandi emqaleni wakho lizosiza ukususa ambalwa amanzi noma itiye elipholile. Uma kungekho uketshezi oseduze: gwinya izikhathi eziningana. Futhi ungakhohlwa ngokuphefumula.
Uma izinyembezi sezivele zimboze amehlo akho, zikhanyise. Akufanelekile ukusula amehlo akho ngokucacile, yini enye into enhle ongayichitha ngayo ukwakheka kwakho! Bheka phansi, uphakamise amehlo akho phezulu, ubuke ngakwesokudla nangakwesobunxele. Phinda lo msebenzi izikhathi eziningana kuze kube khona izinyembezi. Ezinye izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukumboza amehlo akho imizuzwana embalwa.
Ungaziphazamisa emicabangweni engathandeki ngokwenza izenzo ezithile zomzimba. Ungakwazi, ngokwesibonelo, ukuluma i-lip yakho noma ukufaka isibhamu sakho. Kodwa, khumbula ukuthi akufanele uzizwe ubuhlungu, ukukhathazeka okuncane, okukwazi ukuhumusha. Uma kukhona umuntu osondela kuye, noma umuntu owazi isimo sakho sengqondo - isundu sakho singase sibe ukwesekwa kwakhe.
Yawn, ngendlela, futhi kusiza ukuzola! Ngaphandle kwalokho, awukwazi ukukhala nokugubha ngesikhathi esifanayo! Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kusebenza kakhulu futhi kuzoya ohlelweni lwakho lwezinzwa ngokuhle!
Indlela yokuphendula ngokufanele ukuhlambalaza, funda lapha .
Yeka ukuthi ungalili kanjani isikhathi esingafaneleki - ukuzivocavoca kwengqondo
Ukuze ungalili ngesikhathi esingalungile, cabanga ngento eyokuthatha yonke into. Kuthiwani ngokuxazulula inkinga yezibalo ekhanda noma ukuphinda itafula lokubuyabuyelela? Ngeke nje ugxilise kulo, ngakho-ke yenza umsebenzi wobuchopho obunxele, obhekene nokusebenza kwekhompyutha. Imizwelo - ilawula ilungelo; ukukhuthaza umsebenzi wezinhlangothi zombili zobuchopho, ungakwazi ukuvimbela ngokuphumelelayo ukugeleza ngokomzwelo. Uma ama-math engeyona ihhashi lakho, khumbula amagama wengoma yakho oyithandayo noma uzitshele yona. Ingoma kufanele ibe mnandi, futhi amazwi wengoma ayakha.
Indlela yesibili yokwengqondo iyinkimbinkimbi, kepha isebenza kahle. Udinga ukukhumbula into ehlekisayo. Yiqiniso, ukugxila ezintweni ezinhle, lapho izinyembezi zifika emehlweni akho - akuyona into elula. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ngaleyo ndlela ukuba zikhumbule futhi zikhumbule uhlu lwamahlaya avela kumafilimu noma ezimweni ezihlekisayo ezivela empilweni yakho oyozikhumbuza ngezikhathi zokuzizwa ngokomzwelo. Zama ukumamatheka!
Zikhuthaze ukuba ungalili! Isibonelo, "uma ngikhokha, umphathi uzocabanga ukuthi ngingumuntu obuthakathaka" noma "abantu abangajwayelekile bazobona ukuthi angikwazi ukuziphatha ezandleni zami." Zitshele ukuthi unamandla futhi manje kubalulekile ukufakazela!
Ungacabangi ngalokho okukucasulayo. Kuthiwani nge-movie oyifunayo isikhathi eside? Futhi mhlawumbe kukhona incwadi engafundiwe eshalofini - yisikhathi sokukuthola! Uma ukhetha ukuphila okusebenzayo - hamba ukuhamba noma ukuya enkundleni! Ukuzivocavoca umzimba kunomphumela omuhle kuwo wonke umzimba. Into eyinhloko akukhona ukuzithukuthelela ngemicabango ngalokho okwenza ukhale. Zitshele: isimo sinjalo futhi kufanele ngivumelane nayo. Ungazibeki icala nganoma yini. Ukumemeza emsebenzini - akusho ukuthi uyothola okuthile, mhlawumbe umphathi usuke enesimo sengqondo esibi! Indoda yathukuthela, ngoba yayinqunywe uhlobo oluthile lomgwaqo.
Manje uyazi ukuthi ungakhulumi kanjani, uma ufuna. Yiba namandla!