Indlela yokufihla ukuphinga

Konke kwenzeka, ngisho nabesifazane abashadile, bathwala umthwalo wokuphila emahlombe abo, banelungelo lokuphila komuntu siqu nenjabulo. Kodwa-ke, akudingeki ukhumbule amalungelo akho kuphela, ngoba ngaphezu kwamalungelo, wonke umuntu usenemithwalo yemfanelo - emndenini, emphakathini, kumuntu oshade naye ngandlela-thile. Ngakho-ke, ungathathi isisusa njengesizathu sokuhlukanisa, kungcono ukuhawukela umndeni wakho. Kungcono kakhulu ukwenza kanjalo ukuthi izihlobo noma umyeni ufunde ngeveli yakho, ngakho-ke kuvame ukufihla imizwa yabo yangempela bese wenza konke ukuze kungabikho muntu nento engacabangi. Ngakho kanjani ukufihla ukuphinga?
Ungamangazi ukuthi ucatshangwa ukuthi uzothengisa, uma kungazelelwe wena ngokwakho waqala ukwephula imithetho eyasungulwa. Yiqiniso, kuyoba mnandi kakhulu izihlobo zokwazi ukuthi yini eyakucasula ukuba ubuyele ekhaya, hhayi njengokujwayelekile - ngo-6, kodwa ngamahora angu-9-10. Futhi kungani wena, owabaluleka kakhulu ngeSonto futhi umeme izivakashi endlini yakho, manje awukwazi ukwenza lokhu futhi ushiye kwenye indawo ngaphandle kweveke ngempelasonto? Ngokuqinisekile ukucabanga ukuthi empilweni yakho yomuntu siqu kukhona okuthile okuqhubekayo, futhi lokhu kuyinto - ngokusobala akuwona umzuzu omuhle wokuphila komndeni. Kungenxa yalesi sizathu ukuthi udinga ukujwayele ukujwayele ikhaya lakho, ukuthi ungowesifazane wangempela, nokuthi nawe ungaba nezindaba zakho siqu, izinkinga zakho, isinqumo esingathatha isikhathi esiningi.

Ekuphileni kwakho, kufanele uhlinzeke konke, ngisho nokuhlubuka, futhi udinga ukulungiselela lokhu, futhi ngokugcwele. Ngisho noma lokhu kungalokothi kwenzeke empilweni yakho, futhi njalo uhlale uthembekile kumlingani wakho othandekayo. Konke, uma kwenzeka konke, bese ulalela izincomo esikunika zona, futhi ukufihla ukuhlubuka kwakho ngeke kube nzima.

Ubuqili emabhandlwini.

Futhi into yokuqala esingathanda ukusho yukuthi kufanele ube nolwazi oluningi. Futhi umyeni wakhe angakaze abone indoda yakho yomuntu, endlini yakho, njalo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha umngane wakho omuhle kakhulu ubonisa, ophethe izinkinga eziqhubekayo nokuhluleka ebusweni bokuthandana, futhi ohlala efuna usizo lwakho - umyeni wakhe udinga ukwazi ukuthi kungani ubalekela ekhaya ngo-8, futhi ubuyela ngo-12 ebusuku. Umakhelwane kaMama, ukuphunga ngemihlangano engu-10, umqeqeshi wokuzivivinya umzimba, i-yoga, - emndenini wakho, laba bantu kanye nezindawo ezikhona ngempela, futhi uzibona ngezikhathi ezithile, ngakho kulula ukufihla indawo yangempela.

Enye indlela yokudla isikhathi sakho kuyoba yikuphi ukuqeqeshwa noma imisebenzi ewusizo kakhulu futhi ethakazelisayo kuwe, futhi yiluphi usizo lokufihla ukuhlubuka ngokuphelele. Yebo, umyeni wami unamathele kahle, futhi, ufuna ukucabanga ngomsebenzi wakho, ngokuziphendulela, futhi awuwuthandi umsebenzi isikhathi eside kakade - kunzima kakhulu futhi kunzima, futhi ufanelwe kangcono. Yingakho usanda ukubhalisa ku-studio ukuze ufunde indlela yokudayela eyishumi, futhi uqaphele kakhulu ukuya kwesinye sezikhungo zokuqeqesha ukufunda ngokushesha. Yebo, kufanele ubuyele ukuze umlingani wakho angacabangi nokuhlangana nawe, ngoba kuye akukhathazeki ngalesi sikhathi.

Umngane uyindlela enhle, ikakhulukazi umngane ungenangqondo, angathokozi futhi, ngubani onjengomntwana okhulayo adinga ukunakekelwa kwakho, futhi ubani okulula kakhulu ukufihla ukuhlubuka. Akudingekile ukuba ukhethe ubuhle bangempela kumngane wentombazane, makube igundane elijwayelekile elimpunga elingathandeki umyeni wakho nhlobo futhi ngeke livuse izinsolo zakhe. Futhi-ke ungakwazi ukugijima ngokuphepha kumngane wakho ompofu okungenani phakathi nobusuku, ukumduduza kuphela ngenxa yokuthi elinye isithandwa-isosha limphonsa. Yiqiniso, phakathi nobusuku - kusho ngokuzwakalayo, futhi awudingi ukugoba induku, ikakhulukazi ekusebenzelaneni nomthandi wakho. Nciphisa imihlangano kusihlwa noma emini, ngoba umyeni wakho kuphela unelungelo lokufuna ubusuku obufanayo nawe.

UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo