Inombolo ekhuphukile yokudiliva kwekwephuzile ayihlanganiswa kakhulu nokucaciswa kokuhlelwa kwempilo yomndeni njengokuphumelela kwemithi emkhakheni wokukhiqiza, okwavumela abesifazane abake baphathwa isikhathi eside ukuba babe nenjabulo yobazali. Futhi mayelana nalokhu, ukukhulelwa kokuphumula sekuyiqiniso, kuyisimangaliso okwakulindeleke iminyaka eminingi.
Inkinga
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, abesifazane eminyakeni engamashumi amane baba yi-hypochondriacal, hypochondriac, bavame ukuzibeka icala ngenxa yokuthi banempilo engafanelekile. Ungayeki umkhuba wabo wokuphila ngaphansi kokulawulwa kwezempilo okungapheli.
Isixazululo
Into ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni yengane nomama ukuthula nokuzizwa okuhle. Ngenxa yalokhu, uma owesifazane ekhulelwe eneminyaka engamashumi amane, umuntu kumele aqale ukulwa nokusola, ehamba esikhundleni somuntu ohlale ebuza imibuzo kwisigaba sabantu abafaka okuthile. Lokhu akumelwe ukwethuswe: "Kungani ngitshelwe ukuba ngilale futhi, ngibeke izinyawo zami emilenzeni, mhlawumbe konke kubi kakhulu?", Kodwa ukuchaza: "Kuzothatha amasonto amabili ukulala phansi, ngoba kuyoba ngcono".
Kubalulekile ukuguqula yonke imithwalo yemfanelo yomthwalo wempilo yakho kumaphethelo odokotela, ngokulandela ngokucacile imithethonqubo, emva kwalokho, lokhu kuwumsebenzi wabo! Akudingeki ukuba uzibuze impilo yakho futhi ucele okungaphezulu, ngoba ukungacabangi nokuyimfihlakalo odokotela abathanda ukuyiyeka, kukhulisa kuphela ukukhathazeka.
Ukuzalwa komntwana
Inkinga
Uthando lomama nokukhulelwa kowesifazane wesine cishe cishe kunamandla kakhulu. Ekugcineni kwakukhona ingane yami! Lapha ubona ingozi enkulu kunazo zonke zokukhulelwa kwabesifazane eminyakeni engamashumi amane nangomntwana: ingane, yebo, eyakho, kodwa hhayi impahla, hhayi into yomuntu siqu! Owesifazane ohlonipha ingane yakhe, owamvumela konke okusemhlabeni, elindele zonke izifiso, ukuqeda izithiyo endleleni, izingozi zokukhulela ingane encane, engapheli, othembekile.
Isixazululo
Umama onjalo, ephupha ingane enhle kunazo zonke emhlabeni, kusukela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe kufanele afunde ukwehlukanisa izifiso zakhe ezifisweni zengane, funda izimpawu azinikezayo, futhi ahloniphe izicelo zakhe, noma ngabe usuku, isonto, inyanga ubudala.
Inkinga
Lapho ukhulelwe owesifazane eminyakeni engamashumi amane uyeka ukuqaphela konke okuzodwa-indoda, abangane, iphonsela izinto zokuzilibazisa zangaphambili. Ugijima engozini yokuzizwa engenalutho noma ngisho nokuba yedwa.
Isixazululo
Ubaba oshiya umndeni ngeke enze ingane ijabule. Umama-hen ngeke abe umthombo wokuziqhenya ngomntwana osekhulile. Kudingekile ukuba uziphoqe ukuba "uphule" kusukela emntwaneni.
Inkinga
Abesifazane abadala bafaka ingozi "bathandane" nezingane zabo, ngisho nangenani lempilo yabo.
Isixazululo
Owesifazane udinga ukuthola umsizi ongeke nje athathe umthwalo oyisisekelo ongokwenyama ukuze anakekele ingane, kodwa futhi uzoba yisiphequluli emi endleleni yomthando wakho ochitha konke. Ingane kumele iqaphele ukuthi, ngaphandle kwakhe kanye nonina, kunezinye. Khona-ke angakwazi ukukhula ejabule. Futhi lena yinto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ithiphu
Nikeza ingane ikhefu ... kusuka kuwe! Njengoba kuzwakala sengathi kuyinkimbinkimbi, ngisho nosana lunesidingo sokuba yedwa. Uma ejika kuwe, ungahambi uhlangothi olubheke ngakolunye uhlangothi futhi uqhubeke "u-hoot." Umntwana nje ufuna ukuphumula! Ukunakekela ingane ngeke kukuvumele ulahlekelwe.