Ukuthula, Yebo, kungaba abanolwazi: awukhulumi nomyeni wakho, njengokungathi awuboni. Indoda emva kwamahora ambalwa wokuzibamba ekuthumeni okuthulile. Kodwa nansi okuphazamisayo: konke kubonakala sengathi kuhamba ngendlela oyifunayo, kodwa usanda kumangala: uyabona ukuthi into ishintshile ebuhlotsheni, kubanda kubonakale, umyeni akanikeli lutho, uye wachitha isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini noma enkampanini abangane. Futhi wena namanye abesifazane abancane abalinganayo abafuna ukujabula emiphakathini yabo siqu kufanele bakhumbule iseluleko sabanokholo kwengqondo bomndeni: isiqinisekiso sobudlelwane obuvumelanayo, okokuqala, ikhono lokuqhuba inkhulumomphendvulwano nokunciphisa.
Uma ufuna ukuphila ngokuvumelana , kufanele uvumelane! Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi ubuciko bokunciphisa - ikhono lokunikela ezincane, ekugcineni uthole okuningi, umshado wabesifazane. Kumelwe sibe mncane, siguquguquke, sihlakaniphe, siphendule ngokwengeziwe. Vele uqaphele: konke lokhu akusho ukuthi abesifazane kufanele benze njalo ukuvuma futhi bavumelane nabathembekile babo kukho konke. Ukunikezelwa okunjalo okungahlanganisi ngeke kuholele kunoma yini enhle. Ngokushesha, i-party ephansi njalo, enganelisekile ngaleli qiniso, lizokhohlwa zonke izinhloso zalo ezinhle futhi libike: "Ngikhathele! Kwanele! "Ngendlela enokuthula, ukuvunyelwa kuyodingeka ukuya kwesinye isigamu. Kodwa nansi inhlanhla, usuvele ukhohlwe ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani, ngoba sonke lesi sikhathi samukelwa kahle kuphela. Ngokuvamile, isimo siba sekupheleni kokufa. Ukuze senze lokhu, kumele sisebenzise ukuyekethisa - ikhono lokunikela ezincane, ukuze uthole okuningi. Ukuze sishintshe lesi simo, kufanele sikwazi ukuthola ukuyekethisa futhi sinikeze othandekayo bethu ngesikhathi. Futhi uma ngesikhathi esisodwa ungenza umthande wakho amthande ukuthi lokhu kuyindlela yakhe, ukuthi uyikhanda elihlakaniphile, elikhanyayo nomyeni ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni - wanikeza indlela enhle ngaleyo ndlela, ngakho-ke lokhu kuyi-aerobatics ngokuphelele.
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Ukwehlisa (ngezwi elihle lezwi) ebuhlotsheni bomndeni ngokuphelele, "sebenzisa" abayidingayo, ngokulandela imithetho. Ukuze ufinyelele isivumelwano, bobabili abalingani kumele balahle okuthile. Isibonelo, ufuna ukuya ebhola, futhi uya ekhonsathini yomculi wakhe ozithandayo. Ngemuva kokuxoxisana ngazo zonke izinzuzo nezingozi, bona, ukuze kungabikho muntu okhubazekile, unqume ukuya ... ku-cinema yefilimu ukuthi bobabili bafuna ukubona noma bathole esinye isisombululo sokwehlisa. Ekugcineni, yena kanye naye baneliseke ngendlela abachitha ngayo kusihlwa.
Kunomthetho wokuthi lowo onikezela ukuyekethisa kumele azinikele kuqala kumlingani wakhe, bese nje ucabanga ngokuzinikela kwakhe. Futhi udinga ukwenza lokhu ngokuzithandela, ngaphandle kokuwuguqulela ube uhlobo lokuthungatha: Wena kimi - mina kuwe. Isibonelo, ufuna ukuya e-cafe ukuze udle dessert ushokoledi, futhi uphupha nge-pizza. Khona-ke usikisela: ake sihambe ngempela ku-pizzeria namhlanje, futhi ngizozikhawulela ngesaladi yemifino, futhi ngesikhathi esizayo sizohamba nakanjani ku-cafe. Siyabonga ngokuvuma. Ngisho noma othandekayo engazange alethe isithembiso kuze kube sekupheleni. Ake sithi umcele ukuba ahlanze indlu. Futhi nakuba lo mlingani enamanye amacebo, wavuma. Wathwesa izinto kwisigqoko sokugqoka, engavunyelwe, kodwa ukhohliwe ukusula uthuli. Musa ukukhomba "imisila", ngokuphambene nalokho, mbonge. Kubonakala sengathi ngemuva kwalokhu lozakwethu kuzoba nemiphumela engcono kakhulu yokuhlangana nayo. Futhi ngokujwayelekile ukwehluleka kuhle.