Ukungezwani ezintathu
Emibuthanweni yezokwelapha nezengqondo, igama elithi "ukungabi namandla" alisebenzisi neze. Isimo. Lapho lo muntu engakwazi ukuziphatha ngokocansi, namuhla zivame ukubizwa ngokuthi i-erectile dysfunction. Cishe wonke umuntu wesithathu okhononda ngengozi ezinjalo, udokotela akadingeki. Ziyingozi ngempela. Inkinga nge-potency ivame ukuhlala engqondweni. Ukungasebenzi, ukuthuthuka ngokuvumelana nalesi simo, kuvamise ukuphazamiseka futhi kusabela komunye umcimbi ekuphileni. Umehluko wukuthi ukungabi namandla okungokoqobo kuhambelana nokukhula kancane kancane futhi kancane kancane.
Ukukhubazeka kwe-Erectile yisimo lapho kuqhubeka khona ukuvinjelwa kokuhlwa nokusa, kukhona ukusabela okuhambelana nokubukela amafilimu we-porn noma ukubuka izithombe zokuqukethwe okwezithombe. Uma izinkinga zobulili zingokwemvelo, ukusabela okwanele akubangelwa izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, noma ukuphakama kwamazinga e-testosterone ekuseni.
Ukufisa ukukhishwa
UMTHETHO. I-Sexologists iphawula ukuthi eminyakeni yamuva nje, abameleli bobulili obunamandla baye baba namandla okunciphisa ukungabaza kwabo ngamakhono abo ngokocansi ... ngenxa yokubona okungalungile nomqondo we-orgasm wesifazane. Njengoba ethonywe amafilimu lapho le nkosikazi ibubula khona emzuzwini oqede kakhulu, i-sobs futhi ikhuphuka odongeni, le ndoda ilindele ukuphendula okunjalo kanye nomlingani wakhe. Kodwa njengoba ukubonakaliswa okunjalo kwe-orgasm kungakwazi ukuziqhenya yilowo nalowo wesifazane, indoda igubha ngomcabango wokuthi nje akakwazi ukwanelisa umlingani wakhe. Futhi manje indoda ejwayelekile ngokocansi manje iqala ukugwema ukulala ngokobulili noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, "iphula", iqalile konke kanzima. Kodwa nje kuphela umphumela - umqondo omkhulu nakakhulu wokungaphansi, ngoba ikhanda lahamba phambili futhi ukulahleka kwaphela kwalahleka.
Phuma. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi indoda ilindele kuwe ukuveza imizwa engavamile embhedeni, zama ukumchazela ukuthi i-cinema iyinto yokuzijabulisa, umbukiso ongahambisani ngaso sonke isikhathi nokuphila. Eqinisweni owesifazane, uma ekhululekile ngemuva kokuphela kwesenzo socansi, unelisekile, uyathula futhi ethule ngokuphambene nalokho. Wathola i-orgasm, ngisho noma engayikhulumi ngokububula, amemeza nokuziphathisa kabi. Kuyoba ngcono uma lo muntu ezogxila ezintweni ezibucayi zokuzwa kwakho futhi ubheke izimo nezenzo ezenza ube nenjabulo enkulu. Izinzuzo zalokhu zizophindwa kabili: futhi uzothola imizwa emisha, futhi lo muntu uzophazanyiswa enkingeni yakhe ngokulungiswa. Abashadile abakwazi ukufunda ukuthi owesifazane angayithokozela ubulili futhi ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa kobudlova kwe-orgasm, abhekana nenjabulo yokuthola usizo. Indoda ayidingi ukuphishekela umphumela ongelona iqiniso, futhi owesifazane akudingeki abonise ukukhathazeka okubuhlungu nokuzizwa.
Yonke inengozini
UMTHETHO. Kukhona umbono wokuthi owesifazane kuphela emva kokuphikisana nokuhlambalaza nokuhlambalazana okungazange kube khona ngaphambi kokwenza uthando. Ukucaciswa komuntu ngokushesha kobudlelwane, ngokuphambene nalokho, kuyothokoza kuphela. Mhlawumbe, ngezikhathi ezithile, kwezinye izimo, kunjalo. Lokho akukhona ngaleso sikhathi lapho umlingani oshayisana naye ehamba emanzini akhe. Ngezinye izikhathi owesifazane, ukuze "alume" owesilisa osolwa ngokuhlubuka kakhulu, uyabuza: "Uma usuphethe nekosikazi yakho, uma wena namandla ambalwa anganele kimi? Uma ulahlekile futhi ungatholi lutho olulele embhedeni? "Noma uphonsa izwi elicasuliwe:" Omunye uzama ukukutshela ... "Noma, efuna" ukucasula "umlingani, uthi:" Yebo, uya kuphi na idatha yakho? " Ezwa ukugxekwa okunjalo, kungenzeka ukuba indoda ingabuyiselwa umoya nomzimba wakhe. Lapha, ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile nokungabi namandla kuvela ngokwabo. Mhlawumbe, uzoqala ukungabaza amathuba okubhuka kwakhe futhi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, angase azame ngisho nokukholelwa ukuthi usephelile.
Phuma. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ucasula kanjani kumuntu wakho, uma uzohlala naye, ungalokothi ubhale indawo engcupheni kakhulu. Uma wenze iphutha elinjalo, yenza konke ukulungisa isimo: bhala incwadi yothando, yisho amagama amathenda kakhulu owaziyo kuphela. Nika le ndoda ukuba iqonde ukuthi wena ungoyena ...
Ukuhamba okuphazamisayo
UMTHETHO. Isikhathi sakho se-candy-bouquet siphelile, ungumuntu omdala futhi uyaqaphela ukuthi maduzane uzolala embhedeni. Nina bobabili ulinde lo mzuzwana. Futhi nansi ukukhanya okufakwe ngaphakathi ekamelweni lokulala, umculo othulile, ukhonta futhi ... akukho lutho. Lokhu kuvame ukukwenzeka: indoda efuna kakhulu ukuba ocansini nowesifazane, ugxile ekunqobeni, ukuthi iba yisithiyo sakhe endleleni yokufeza uhlelo. Ukwesaba ("Anginamandla!"), Ugijimela kude nomthandekayo wakhe.
Phuma. Udinga ukuzama ukumgcina embhedeni. Zama ukusho into efana nalokhu: "Ngikhathele kancane (ukuzwa kabi) namhlanje, asibuyisele emuva." Vula i-TV, bheka izithombe. Ngisho noma engakwazi ukukhipha ukukhohlisa kwakho, ngeke kube kubi nakakhulu. Ngokushesha nje lapho umuntu ephazamisa isidingo sokuba phezulu, konke kungenza indlela engcono kakhulu. Abakwa-Sexologists banokwelapha okunjalo ukungaziphathi kahle: udokotela inyanga ivimbela i-coitus. Ngesikhathi esifanayo kuvunyelwe ukwenza konke okunye - ukukhathazeka, ukuwanga. Ngokuvamile emva kwesonto lazo zonke izinkinga ezakhiwe njengoba zikhona.
Ingabe uyothanda imbuzi futhi?
UMTHETHO. Uyabona ukuthi othandekayo wakho ufuna wena kancane kancane. Kwenzekani? Kulesi simo, kulula ukuzinaka wena. Mhlawumbe unamafutha, uyeka ukuvakashela i-beauty salon, ujikeleze indlu nge-T-shirt elele? Ungakhohlwa ukuthi indoda ithanda ukuthandana ngamehlo akhe, futhi i-mascara evuvukala emathunini akhathele noma amaqabunga amafutha angagqwanga futhi angahlanjululwa izinwele - indlela ephumelela kakhulu yokwesaba.
Phuma. Zama ukuzibheka ngokweqile esibukweni. Awuzange ukhohlwe ukuthi ugcine kanjani ukuma, ugqoke lapho ufuna ukuwina le ndoda. Ngakho-ke, umehluko phakathi kwakho nomanje, namhlanje? Bheka izithombe lapho uqala khona ubuhlobo. Zenzele ngokugcwele ukulungela ukulwa futhi ungachithi futhi.
Ilahlekelwe ngokuphila ...
UMTHETHO. Ube wenza uthando iminyaka eminingi ezinsukwini ezithile zeviki, ngehora elifanayo, uyazi ukuthi umyeni wakho uzomanga nini kuqala, lapho uzobe eshaywa khona kamuva. Uyiphendula ngokunyakaza okufanayo okufundiwe. Ngokusemthethweni, bobabili nisuvele nikhathele yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi "ukufeza umsebenzi wokushada komshado" - ukungabi nandaba, ngaphandle kwemizwelo, ngaphandle kokubonakaliswa okungalindelekile kwesifiso nethando. Kodwa kubonakala kuwe ukuthi kuyadingeka kumyeni wakho, ujwayele ukucabanga ukuthi ubulili kuyadingeka kuwe. Futhi uma ubuhlobo obuseduze buyanyamalala empilweni yakho, kokubili bobabili uzwa umuzwa wokukhululeka. Kodwa ngolunye usuku isifiso siphume, umyeni wenza umzamo wokwenza uthando, futhi ... akakwazi nje ukukwenza. Nonke nishaywa luvalo: "Lokhu kusho ukuthini lokho?"
Phuma. Ukuzikhohlisa, ukushayisana nokulala ocansini kuholela ekuqothulweni kwezifiso. Akudingekile ukuletha isimo esimweni esibucayi. Akukho okunye okuthakazelisayo kunokungalindeleki, ukuzenzekela. Shintsha inhlangano, lapho wenza khona uthando, ukukhanyisa, ukugqoka izingubo zangaphansi zokungcolile, noma ngabe yikuphi okungaveli phambi komlingani ngokuhamba kuwo wonke ama-curlers okhombisayo. Shintsha indawo (hhayi ikamelo lokulala, kodwa, isibonelo, umshini phansi egumbini lokuphumula), isikhathi, kubonakala. Nikeza impilo yakho indawo nokulala "ngokusheshisa," futhi "kancane, gourmet." Uma umuntu engapheli ngokuphelele kumlingani wakho, uzothola masinyane "ukungabi namandla."
Ubulili obunzima kakhulu
UMTHETHO. Ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-Erectile kungenzeka kumuntu lapho ehlala ezwa ukukhathala isikhathi eside, idosypaet engapheli, ehlala ekucindezelekeni okuqinile kwengqondo, ubhekana nezinkinga eziningi emsebenzini. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, kukhona into enjenge- "manager's syndrome" - nayo umsebenzi wezocansi uphulwa ekuqaleni futhi ubuyiselwe endaweni yokugcina. Ekuqaleni, kunezinkinga ezimbalwa ezincane zokwakhiwa, nanoma yini efika engqondweni, nje ukucabanga ngezocansi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuba nzima ukuthola ukulungela ukulala. Uma umuntu engakwazi ukuya ocansini ngaphezu kwezinyanga eziyisithupha, umzimba ungangena "esimweni sokulinda". Inqubo yokuyisusa kulesi simiso isikhathi eside futhi isikhathi esiningi.
Phuma. Phakathi nomthwalo onjalo emsebenzini, abashadile ngezinye izikhathi bafika esinqumweni sokulala ngokwehlukana komunye nomunye. Ungenzi lokhu njalo! Uma indoda nowesifazane behlala ebusuku embhedeni owodwa, ubulili buyenzeka ngisho nalapho "bengayilungisi". Yebo, umyeni wakho ukhathele, akalali, kodwa kusukela ekuhlungeni okukhululekile angase angapheli. Futhi-ke indaba yobuchwepheshe. Ungasho ukuthi: "Ngiyaqonda ukuthi ukhathele kakhulu. Uyakhumbula uma ngizisiza? "Qala ukuzikhathaza. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzojoyina.
Isifo se-Sailor
UMTHETHO. Isifo somkhumbi sithinta amadoda, umsebenzi wabo uhilela ukungabikho kwekhaya elide. Uma umuntu ehlala ethembekile kumkakhe ngaso sonke isikhathi, umzimba wakhe uphoqeleka ukuvimbela ukukhiqizwa kwe-hormone yesondo. Kule ndaba, indoda inezibonakaliso zokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile lapho ebuya kumkakhe othandekayo.
Phuma. Zama ukuzikhumbuza ngawe ngesikhathi sokuqala. Shayela le ndoda uma engaseduze, tshela ukuthi uyamthanda kanjani nokuthi uyakukhumbula kanjani. Ngitshele ukuthi ulindele ukuthi abuyele, ukuthi uyamlangazelela kanjani, ukuthi uthanda kanjani ukusondelana naye. Sebenzisa iseshini "ngocansi ucingo" naye. Imizwa ejabulisayo ehlotshaniswa nezwi lakho, izolungiswa ekucabangeni kwakhe futhi ngokushesha inikeze ukuphuma uma nje uzithola ndawonye.
Ukwesaba owesifazane
UMTHETHO. Owesifazane utshela lo mlingani ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi unzima kangakanani ukubeletha, yiziphi izinkinga ayenaso ngokuya esikhathini, ukuthi yikuphi ukuvunguza okwakunakho emzimbeni wakhe. Ngakho-ke, isibonelo, uxwayisa umuntu ukuthi wayeqaphele ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba awuwamukeli izisu zokubeletha (ungathola amafutha!), Uyesaba ukukhipha izisu, kodwa awufuni ukuzala okwamanje. Khona-ke uyazibuza ukuthi kungani indoda igcina kude nawe. Amalungu amaningi obulili obuqine kakhulu asaba konke okuhlobene nokuphathelene nokugula kanye nezindaba zezempilo zebesifazane. Bayazi kahle (futhi bayazi) besaba ukulimaza owesifazane. Lokhu kwesaba kubulala noma yisiphi isifiso sokwenza uthando kuye. Isikhathi sokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile nokungabi namandla, okungekho umehluko kulokhu. Umphumela uba nomusa olinganayo. Amanye amadoda, ngendlela, nje esaba ukuthi lokhu kuvuleka ngeke kulimaze futhi kumlimaze ubudoda bakhe.
Phuma. Akudingekile ukuxoxa ngemininingwane yomzimba nendoda. Vumela udokotela enze lokhu. Zama, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukugcizelela ukuthi indoda nowesifazane badalwe omunye nomunye futhi ubulili buwusizo kubo bobabili abathintekayo.