Uma indoda nowesifazane bephilile, umzuzu osalinde isikhathi eside uzofika ngempela. Mhlawumbe umbhangqwana owazi nje ukuthi ungalala kanjani ukuze ukhulelwe.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukwenza okuthile, udinga ukuthola ezinye izikhathi zomzimba. Qala ikhalenda lapho uzogubha khona izinsuku zomjikelezo wesimiso. Lokhu kusinikeza thina? Uzobona ngokucacile ukuthi yiziphi izinsuku ongenawo oyinyumba, futhi uma kungenzeka ukukhulelwa. Izinsuku ezithandekayo zizovela ngosuku lwe-12-16 lomjikelezo, lapho kuqhutshwa i-ovulation. Ngemva kokuvuthwa, ukukhulelwa kungenzeka ukuphikelela amanye amahora angu-24. Eminye yalezi zinsuku owesifazane uphelele. Omunye kufanele futhi acabangele enye iphuzu elilodwa. I-Spermatozoa ikwazi ukusebenza izinsuku ezingu-2-3. Isikhathi sesikhathi esidingekayo, lapho isidoda singakwazi ukuhlangana neqanda, yizinsuku ezingu-3-4. Isikhathi sokuvuthwa singabalwa hhayi kuphela ngekhalenda, ungasebenzisa ishadi lokushisa, kodwa uma ungalinganisi ngokunembile, ngeke kusize. Ekuqaleni kwe-ovulation "uzoxwayisa" umzimba wakho. Uma unomuzwa wokukhangwa kocansi okwandisiwe nokudonsa ubuhlungu esifubeni esingaphansi, sekuyisikhathi.
Ukuze uphendule umbuzo: "Indlela yokulala ngocansi ukuze ukhulelwe", udinga ukuhlaziya ubuhlobo bocansi nokuphila komlingani osemusha kakhulu. Isigqi esinamandla sokuphila, ukucindezeleka, ukukhathala umzimba. Ngakho-ke, ukuthola ukulinda okulinde isikhathi eside, kudingeka ubuyekeze isimiso sakho somsebenzi nokuphumula.
Ekuqaleni, owesifazane uthatha ukuvimbela ukukhulelwa okungafuneki, okuyize, naphezu "kokubaluleka" kwakhe, kungathinteki izinqubo zemvelo eziphilayo, i-microflora yangaphakathi, izinguquko ezithinta "ubungqabavu" be-spermatozoa. Ukuze imvelo ihlelwe kabusha emjikelezweni ojwayelekile, kuthatha isikhathi.
Ukuze ucabange ngokunembile, udinga ukukhipha ngokuphelele ukusetshenziswa kwazo zonke izinhlobo zama-gel obuseduze, ama-sprays kanye namanye "amakhemikhali" azobhubhisa kalula umuthi. Qaphela ngokukhetha ama-gaskets, zama ukungazisebenzisi izinto ezithandekayo.
Enye yezindlela eziqinisekisiwe zokuthi "ugogo" unxusa abashadile ukuthi babe nobulili, "isikhundla somuntu phezulu", ukubeka umcamelo omncane noma umcibisholo ngaphansi kwezinso zomlingani. Ngakho-ke, umthamo othile womzimba udalwa, futhi isidoda singena emzimbeni wesifazane futhi sihlale sikhona isikhathi eside, okukhulisa kakhulu amathuba okukhulelwe. Futhi musa ngokushesha ngemuva kokuxhumana ugijime ekugeza. Umphumela omubi we "chemistry" usuvele ushiwo ngenhla. Kubaluleke kakhulu i-orgasm yesifazane. Uma kufika phambi kwesilisa, amathuba akho aphakeme kakhulu. Ukuze ukhulelwe, ungabi nobulili nsuku zonke, kusuka kulokhu kuvame ukwandisa inombolo yesidakamizwa esingenamandla. Khumbula ukuthi umzimba udinga ukunikeza ukuphumula okuncane, ngakho unesikhathi sokuqoqa amandla.
Uma unquma ukuba nomntwana nganoma iyiphi intengo, ubulili akufanele buphenduke into eyimpoqo. Yenza lapho uthanda, kungenjalo kuzoba "umsebenzi womndeni" futhi uzoyeka ukujabulisa bobabili. Ukuyeka ukuhlala isikhathi eside ngeke kwengeze inombolo ye-spermatozoa, ngokuphambene nalokho, ikhwalithi yesilisa izokwehla.
Kwanele ukuthi ulale ocansini kathathu ngesonto, ngakho ungaphuthelwa izinsuku ezincane zokukhulelwe, futhi umlingani wakho uzoba nesikhathi sokuphumula futhi athole amandla.