Ukungazitholi ngothando, kodwa akukho sizathu!

Uma indoda nowesifazane bexoxa futhi bethana ndawonye - kumele baqhubeke belele embhedeni - lokhu kungukuthi lo logic womuntu. Kodwa kusukela ohlangothini lwabesifazane kungukungabonakali ukukhanya ngothando, kepha akusizathu sokuqhubeka kwayo! Awukho eholidini iminyaka eminingana futhi manje, ekugcineni, ukhululekile. Kodwa esikhundleni sokuzilibazisa kwaba yingozi. Manje usuzibuza ukuthi ngabe wena ngokwakho ubulele kanjani lokhu? Ngakho-ke, waya ehhotela kuphela. Awuboni lutho oluyichilo kuwe.

Uma indawo yesoka lakho ingenamuntu okwesikhashana, ngaphandle uma ungavunyelwe ukujabulela ulwandle yedwa? Ihhotela lakwaziswa ngumngane owachitha lonke unyaka lapho. Indawo yokuthula - uthe, - hhayi ama-pathos, kodwa ocolile. Yilokho okwakufunayo ngemuva komsebenzi wezandla namahora angu-24 okukhulumisana kwemizwa. Ukuphumula kungabangela ukudlala ngothando ngokungenacala, kodwa akuyona ithuba lokuqhubela phambili ubudlelwane bomshado!
Usuku lokuqala lweholidini lakho owachitha isikhathi eside ngangiphinde ngiphuphe: Ngichitha isigamu ngosuku ngosuku olwandle, amahlumela, isigamu sosuku ngasechibini enencwadi. Ngosuku lwesibili ngahamba ukuzungeza idolobha, ngaphandle kokuhamba, njengawo - ukubuka futhi ngijabulele ukubonakala okusha. Lezi zinjabulo ezilula zikuphefumulele kakhulu kangangokuthi ngesikhathi sekuseni uzizwe unomusa nothando kukho konke okuphilayo futhi ngisho nokumomotheka akushiyanga ubuso bakho. Akuzange ihlale ingabonakali! Insizwa yahlala phansi kuwe, insizwa enhle kakhulu.

Uthande ukuthi ugqoke, hhayi ekhaya ngokungakhathali, njengoba ezinye izivakashi zihambela endaweni yokudlela, kodwa ngokucophelela, ngokucophelela. Wathokoza ngisho ne-interlocutor futhi wacabanga ukuthi lapha kuyindawo nje yokudlala ngothando nje kuphela, kodwa akuyona ithuba lokuba nobuhlobo obuseduze, futhi lokhu kwakunelisekile kakhulu kuwe. Ngakho-ke, ingxoxo yayiqhubeka ngendlela ehloniphekile nangokwemvelo, wayesanda kufika, engakaze ayibheke nxazonke, kwakukhona umoya okhethekile ... Uzinikezele ukukuphatha iwayini ebhasini, ngoba i-voucher "yayibandakanya konke" futhi akufanele lutho. Uma ngabe lesi senzo asizuzi lutho kumuntu, futhi ufuna ukwenza i-compatriot enhle mahhala - kungani ungavumelani? Ngaphezu kwalokho, iwayini elisendlini yayifana nokucubungula.
Okuqukethwe kwamacwecwe kanye nezihloko zezingxoxo zaziphephile, futhi umngane wakho omusha wangimemela ukuba ngihambe.

Kodwa ekuqaleni wawufuna ukuphela ngothando oluncane olungenacala, futhi, ukumomotheka, liphuthume ukuze lihlanganyele. Ikakhulukazi kusukela uzwa ukuthi lokhu kukhulumisana kuqala ukuqala ukukukhathaza kancane kancane, ufuna ukubuyela enjabulweni yokuzibandakanya. Kodwa kwakungenjalo, insizwa yakho yakulandela inombolo, ngaphandle kokuyeka ukukhuluma, ngenkathi uqala ukubamba izandla zakho. Awusalalelanga, kodwa wakhathazeka ngokukhululekile ukuthi wazivumela lo mdlalo ongenacala, obala. Wayegwema kakhulu, wagijima egumbini - wayesezwa sengathi ukhathele, njengokungathi uboshiwe emsebenzini kuze kube phakathi kwamabili. Futhi emicabangweni yami kukhona into eyodwa - awuzange umnike isizathu, kungani kwenzeka?

Kungani lokhu kungabonakali ukubonisana ngothando, uma kungabizwa ngothando, kumnikeza isizathu?
Lapho uvuka, ukhumbule isimo esingathandeki, kodwa wacabanga ukuthi uzoxolisa noma enze sengathi akukho okwenzekile. Kodwa futhi ngangihlukumeza! Akazange akhiphe phansi kuze kube sekugcineni, akazange nje anikeze idlule, ahlukunyezwe futhi abanjwe ukuhlukunyezwa kwakhe, wachitha ngokuphelele abanye. Usengakwazi ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ukungabi namlandu, okulula ukubonisa uthando kufanele kuphele nombhede? Uvele nje ufuna ukudlala enkampanini enhle.

Isiphetho. Uma indoda nowesifazane bexoxisana ndawonye bese bephuka, akumele baqhubeke bexhumana embhede. Kodwa-ke, uma owesifazane emva kwengxenye yehora lokuthandana eya ebhasini ukuyophuza iwayini futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo exudes endaweni "ubuhle nothando kukho konke okuphilayo", amadoda nje ahlelekile angenza iziphetho ezingalungile. Kodwa omaziyo omusha angasuswa ngokucacile. Ubukhulu bokuncoma kanye nokubonakala kokugqoka ngokucophelela isidlo sakusihlwa kubonisa, ngokuqondile, isiqondiso semicabango nezilindelwe. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, ngoba ukulahlekelwa kwalokhu kusongela izinkinga.