Yebo, izinhlobo!
Inkolelo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo ibuyele emfundisweni yodokotela waseGrisi wasendulo uHippocrates. Wayekholelwa ukuthi "ingxenye yezinto ezine ezakhiwa umzimba womuntu inquma inkinga yokugula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo." Ngokusho kukaHippocrates, uhlobo oluthile lokuziphatha luxhomeke ekutheni umthamo omkhulu owenziwe emzimbeni womuntu (ubomvu ne-black black, igazi elishisayo, i-mucus ebandayo). Ngokuhambisana nalokhu, wahlukanisa abantu zibe yizinhlobo ezine.
- Uhlobo oluthile lwesimiso sezinzwa: okuqinile, okungalingani, okuhamba phambili, izici eziphathekayo eziphathekayo: umsebenzi nomandla, ukuhlakanipha, ukuzimisela, ukuzimisela, ukubekezela kanye nokuzibandakanya, inkulumo ekholisayo Izici ezingezansi: ukungazinzi kwesistimu yezinzwa, ukungabikho komqondo ukufutheka okusheshayo, ukuhlukumezeka, ukukhwabanisa, ukuguquguquka kwansuku zonke, ukugunyaza.
- I-Sanguine (evela kwisiGreki sanguis- .rock) Uhlobo lwezintandokazi ezinobungozi, ezilinganiselayo, ezihamba phambili eziphathekayo: ukusobala nokuhamba, ukujwayela izimo ezintsha, ukuthakazelelwa, isifiso sebhizinisi, ukuxhumaneka, ukuthokoza nokulindela, inkulumo evelele, ubuholi. : ukungabi nabasebenzi kanye nesobrannost, ukungapheli nokungaqiniseki, ukungabikho kwengqondo, ukuzithemba ezenzweni, ukuzinzela nokubekezela.
- I-phlegmatic (kusuka ku-Greek phlegma - "umcucu") Uhlobo lwesimiso sezinzwa: okuqinile, okulinganiselayo, okuyizithayo Izindlela ezihle: ikhono lokugxila, ukubekezela nokumelana nokucindezeleka, ukuthula, ukuqonda, ukuzibophezela, ukuzinhloso Izici ezimbi: ukungahambisani nokungahambisani nokuhamba, inertia , ukuhluleka ukwenza izinqumo, inkani nokugcina i-conservatism.
- I-melancholic (kusukela kuma-melika esiGreki - "abamnyama", i-chole - "bile") Uhlobo lwesistimu yezinzwa: ubuthakathaka, ukungalingani, inert. Izici ezihle: ukuzwela okuphezulu nokukwazi ukuzwelana, ubuhle nobumnandi bomlingiswa, ukuthakazelelwa. Izici ezimbi: ukusengozini ngokweqile nokwesaba, ukungazithembi nakwezenzo zabo, kugxeke ukuzethemba, ukuzihlukanisa, inertia nokungabi namandla ngokweqile.
Singazibona yini?
Isimiso siyisimiso esinesimo sobubele, kepha ukubonakaliswa kwayo kubonakala kuphela kusukela ngesikhathi sokuba umuntu endaweni yemvelo (by 3-4 years). Ngokujwayelekile kithi ngamunye kunezinhlobo ezine. Into esemqoka ukucacisa umholi. Kungenxa yesisekelo salo ukubunjwa komlingiswa nokuziphatha.
- I-Choleric
Isimiso sakhe esiyinhloko sithi "Ngifuna konke ngesikhathi esisodwa!" Ukuguquka kwemizwelo evamile nokungazinzi ngokomzwelo kuyimpawu eziyinhloko zomuntu we-choleric.
♦ Ngesikhathi esemncane, ubumnandi be-choleric bubonakala ngokukhala okungapheli kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo futhi ngaphandle kwayo. Iphutha eliphelele uhlelo lwesimiso esingaguquguquki nolungalingani.
♦ Izingane ezinama-cholera zisheshe zithukuthele, i-psyche yabo idinga ukubonakala okusha nokutholakala okusha, ngaleyo ndlela kudala umsebenzi ophezulu.
♦ Ungumenzi wokulimaza ongenakunqunywa futhi uhlasele, ehlela njalo amahlazo nokuxabana. Uvame ukuzama ukubeka umbono wakhe kwabanye.
♦ Ukukhuluma ngokuqinile, ngokusheshisa, ngokugwinya kwamagama ahlukene, kodwa okuvezwayo nangokomzwelo. Ukuhamba okusheshayo, okukhaliphile, okunamandla.
♦ Ulwazi olulula kulula ukuyithatha, kodwa ngokushesha ukhohlwe konke. Ivumelanisa kalula esimweni esingavamile.
♦ Unomkhuba wokudlala esidlangalaleni, udinga izibukeli, okuvela kubo okulindele ukuvunyelwa. Umbuthano wabangane bakhe ugcwele, ngenkathi edlala nabanye, futhi exoxa ngezinkinga nabanye.
♦ Ucabanga ukuthi umbono wakhe yiyona yodwa yeqiniso. Akakwazi ukubekezelela, ukulinda nokubamba imizwelo yakhe.
♦ Ulala ubunzima.
♦ Noma yisiphi isijeziso, siphendulwa ngokusondelana noma ukuhlukunyezwa.
Izenzo zakho:
♦ umzila amandla omntwana ngendlela efanele, usize ukuthola okuzithokozisa okuthakazelisayo noma isifiso;
♦ Ungagcini isimiso sezinzwa zomntwana;
♦ imisebenzi ehambayo ekhuthele futhi esebenzayo ngokuzilibazisa;
♦ ukuhanjiswa kwamalungu;
♦ Chaza ingane ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuletha icala kuze kube sekupheleni;
♦ Ungamemeza, ungavumeli ukukhwabanisa;
♦ Sebenzisa ulimi olucacile ekufuneni kwengane yakho;
♦ Ungavumeli ukuqubuka kwengane nokuhlukumeza. Ezimweni ezinjalo, ziphatha ngendlela elinganiselayo, uchaze ngokuzithoba ingane ukuthi ikhuphula kuphela ukuziphatha kwakhe;
• qiniseka ukuthi ingane iyazi ukuthi umbono wakhe ubaluleke kakhulu kuwe;
• Thatha ingane ezemidlalo: ukubhukuda, i-tennis, i-athletics. Ngakho amandla angenakuphulukiswa we-choleric azoqondiswa ekuthuthukiseni ngokomzimba, nokuhlukumeza ngokweqile - ukufeza umphumela wezemidlalo eliphezulu.
- I-Sanguine
Isimiso sakhe esiyinhloko sithi "Ngiyakholwa wena, futhi ungitshele?" Ingane yesondlo inobungane, ijabulise, kodwa kunalokho iyavumelana futhi inengqondo.
♦ Ukuhlalisana nokukhulumisana kwesondlo kuthatha abantu abasha nezindawo ezintsha, bazijwayele kalula.
♦ Ukungaboni kahle kwegazi kwesintu kuncike enhlanhleni yemvelo nobuhle. Kuphakathi kwabantu balolu hlobo ukuthi iningi labahambayo nabazihambelayo.
♦ Bathuthwa yizinto zonke ezintsha nezingaziwa. Ingane isilungele ukubhekana nayo yonke into ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngokuvamile ingayinaki izinga lokusebenza. Uvame ukuphonsa icala, engazange aqede, noma kunjalo, kalula futhi ngokushesha kufinyelela ulwazi.
♦ Umsebenzi nokuthakazelelwa kubonakala ezinganeni kuphela uma bethanda abanye. I-narcissism ephilayo.
♦ I-sanguine yengane ikhathazeka kalula, ihlangabezana nokuhluleka kalula. Ngaphandle kwezinkinga, ujoyina noma yiliphi iqembu futhi uguqulela endaweni engavamile. Inkulumo yesondlo iveza ngokucacile, ehambisanayo, ehambisana kahle.
♦ Ukulala ngaphandle kokukhathala nokulala, njengoba bethi, ngaphandle kwemilenze.
♦ Ukujeziswa, ingane iphendula ngokuthula, ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngokweqile nokuthambekela kokuxabana.
Izenzo zakho:
• Into esemqoka ukufundisa ingane ukugcina izithembiso zakhe nokugcina izwi lakhe;
• Buka ukuziphatha nezenzo zengane, ungabi nobuvila ukumkhumbuza ibhizinisi elingapheli;
• ukuqapha ukuqhubeka komsebenzi, qaphela ikhwalithi yengane kanye nokunemba kwezenzo;
• Thola umsebenzi wezingane;
• Ngomntwana wegazi, umuntu kufanele aqaphele futhi ahlolisise ngokudumisa, uma kuncibilikiswa ngokuncoma, izingane ezinjalo zikhula ngokushesha ukuthambekela kokuzihlonipha ngokweqile;
♦ Ungazami ukuba nkulu kakhulu. Ngokukhethekile isimiso sokuxhumana okulinganayo;
♦ Zama ukubeka imigomo yokuqondisa nokuqondakala kwengane yakho. Ingane yakho kufanele ihlale inokukhetha ekutholeni izindlela zokuxazulula imisebenzi eyabelwe yona;
♦ ukhethe ngokucophelela le midlalo kanye nesifiso somntanakho - okokuqala kufanele kumthakazelise futhi kumjabulise. Izigaba ezicacile kumidlalo yezemidlalo nemibuthano yemidlalo.
- I-Phlegmatic
Isimiso sakhe esiyinhloko "Ngizokwenza konke, kamuva kuphela! Izingane ze-phlegmatic zihlukaniswa ngokuzinza nokuzinkani. Kungenakwenzeka ukumkholisa.
♦ Ingane enjalo ingapheli njalo futhi ihlaziye. Ukuba khona kwezinye izingane kuye akuyona impoqo.
♦ Ngokuphathelene nokudla nokushintsha kwendawo yokuhlala, izinsana zibonisa i-conservatism. Bajwayele kakhulu ukuzisebenzisa bese bezama ukudlala izitsha ezintsha ngokungazami, bengalali endaweni entsha. Awuvumelani neze enkulisa.
♦ Amazwi ashoyo kanye nezenzo. Kunzima ukungena oxhumana nabo. Khetha ngokucophelela abangane bakho.
♦ Imizwa ye-phlegmatic ihlale iqinile, ingapheli, kodwa ngisho. Ukukhathazeka, ukuvutha, intukuthelo, umhawu - zonke lezi zimfanelo ziholele izingane ukuba zidideke futhi zidale ukudideka.
♦ Ingane enjalo ngokwemvelo kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyashesha, kodwa ukukhumbula ukufaneleka, ukubamba iqhaza, ukubamba iqhaza, ukukhuthazela, kuyashintsha ukuze kube nezenzo zokuziqhenya nokuzikhohlisa. Ngokuvamile esikoleni, lezi zingane zibizwa nge-zubrilkami, zonke zihamba kancane kancane.
♦ Izingane ze-fhlegmatic azizona abaholi, abathandi ukwenza izinqumo ezizimele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo baqaphela kakhulu futhi baphikelela. Abashintshi izinqumo zabo, banenkani kakhulu.
♦ Abantu basePhlegmatic abazi ukuthi bangaqamba amanga futhi babe nokukhalipha, ngenxa yalokhu bavame ukuzitholela ezimweni ezihlazozayo.
♦ Abantwana banobungane kakhulu futhi banokuthula, zama ukungena ezimweni zokuphikisana futhi, uma kungenzeka, ukuhoxisa empini. Abafuni ukuphikisana nokuphikisana.
♦ Khetha kuqala ukubala konke ukuhamba nokuphuma. Ukuze izenzakalo ezizayo zilungiselelwe isikhathi eside, zilungele isenzo futhi zihlehlise njalo izinto zonke kamuva. Wonke umuntu uyakwenza ngomzuzu wokugcina, ngokuvamile ngenxa yalokhu kuvela ngandlela-thile.
♦ Inkulumo yengane ye-phlegmatic ingenasithukuthezi, ithule, ngaphandle kwemisebenzi nesimo sobuso. Engxoxweni, akalisebenzisi i-epithets, amagama akhe alula futhi aphindaphindiwe. U-Krosha ulele ngokushesha futhi ephansi, kodwa akavuki ngaso leso sikhathi. Ukuze alulame, udinga isikhathi, lapho angahlali enganelisekile.
Izenzo zakho:
- emfundweni ye-phlegmatic idinga ukugxila ethempelini elithandana nengane yakho. Ngokuvamile, lezi zingane zidinga isikhathi esincane sokuqedela imisebenzi. Yiba nesineke, ungasheshi ingane;
• Ngesikhathi esifanayo ungavumeli ukuthi i-crumb ihlehlise ibhizinisi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imfundise ukusebenzisa isikhathi sayo isikhathi esifanele;
• ungabeki ngaphambi kwezinhloso zomntwana kanye nemisebenzi edinga isivinini kanye nesivinini, ungamphoqeleli ukuba ancintisane nezingane ezisebenzayo noma ezindala kakhulu;
• Ungalokothi uhlasele imvuthu (ikakhulukazi emphakathini) ngokuqapha ngokweqile noma ukuphuza;
• Khuthaza isithakazelo somntanakho kunoma yiliphi imidlalo ephathekayo, imisebenzi yomzimba kanye nezenzo zokuzilibazisa, njalo umdumise;
• Ungavumeli ingane yakho ukuba ihlale amahora amaningi, umcele ukuthi athathe amakhefu noma ashintshe isiqondiso samakilasi akhe ngezikhathi ezithile:
♦ Ukujwayela ingane ukwenza izinqumo ezizimele, gcina leli gama bese uthatha isinyathelo ezandleni zabo;
♦ zama ukufaka ingane yakho amakhono okuxhumana eqenjini - vakashela izifundo zokuthuthukiswa, inkulisa, ngokuvamile uhambe endaweni yokudlala;
- I-Melancholic
Isimiso sakhe esiyinhloko sithi "Angijabuli, ngoba ngidabukile!" Amahloni, amahloni yizinto eziyisisekelo zomlingiswa.
♦ Kusencane, lokhu kuboniswa ekuthuthukiseni izimfanelo ezinjengezinyembezi, uthando, ukwesaba. Esikhathini esizayo, bengezwa amahloni, intukuthelo, ubungozi.
♦ Ngenxa yokungahlali kahle kwesimiso sezinzwa, umntwana uyamcasula futhi aphonse into encane.
♦ Ngama-melancholics, kudingeka ube mnene, uhlale uphile, uqaphele, ulawule amazwi akho nezenzo zakho. Izinyembezi ezinganeni ezinjalo - isici esibophezelayo, zihambisana nanoma yiziphi izikhalazo zazo. Ububanzi bezinto ezihlangenwe nakho - kusukela ekuziqhakambeni kuya ekungabikho lutho.
♦ Laba bantwana bahlakulela izici zobuntu ezingokomzwelo, obonakala ekuphenduleni, ububele, ukuzwelana. Izingane zisengozini, zikhuthazelela noma yikuphi ukushaywa isikhathi eside.
♦ Lawa angamahloni ngempela, ayesaba konke. Abazibandakanyeki futhi bazivumelanise kanzima eqenjini elisha. Abaholi, ngokuvamile bavaliwe ngaphakathi kwabo.
♦ Ukujeziswa kubonakala njengengozi. Ngisho nasencane kakhulu, lokhu kungaholela ekungalingani emqondweni wabo. I-little melancholic iyaqaphela kakhulu zonke izinguquko. Emisha, ikakhulukazi izimo ezingezona ezijwayelekile zilahlekile, eziningi zingaphikisana, zizama ukungena emthunzini.
♦ Uma kwenzeka izingxabano, amakhono akhe engqondweni nangokwenyama anciphisa kakhulu, yena, ngokungazelelwe, uqala ukuwasebenzisa amandla akhe emvelo. Ukukhumbula ulwazi olusha lwe-melancholic lunikezwa ngobunzima. Ngenxa yokuphazamisa ukunakwa, ingane iphazamiseka njalo ngezinto ezingaphandle futhi ayikwazi ukugxila ebhizinisini iqalile. Izingane ezincibilikisayo zikhathele nganoma yiluphi umsebenzi - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyadlala, ukufunda, noma imfundo yomzimba. Kungenxa yokukhathala ukuthi bavame ukushintsha imizwa yabo. Yonke isonto elibheke phambili ekuhambeni kwezilwane, kepha ekhathele ngenkathi uhambo, i-melancholy ingaba yinkimbinkimbi futhi ishiya ngokuphelele ukuhamba.
♦ Inkulumo yokuxubha iyathula, ivikelekile, kodwa ifundela futhi icebile.
♦ Zonke ukunyakaza nezenzo ziyizinkinga futhi zincane, njengokungathi zivivinywa.
♦ Kunzima kakhulu ukulala, futhi uvuke nobunzima.
♦ Naphezu kwalowo mlingiswa, izingane ze-melancholy zihlala ziyingxenye yamandla okudala nokuqonda. Abakwazi ukulalela enye yezinkinga zakho, kodwa bazobonisa ukuzwelana kweqiniso. Banezinambitheka ezimangalisayo futhi bezwa kahle. Kulezi, ubuciko be-aesthetes buzokhula ngokuqinisekile.
Izenzo zakho:
• Into eyinhloko emfundweni yezingane ezincibilikisayo akuyona ukukhuphula imizwa yabo yokulahla njalo. Uma ukhuluma nengane, ungasebenzisi izinkulumo ezinzima nezihlazo. Ungalokothi ujezise ingane enjalo futhi ungamemeza, imizwelo yakho kanye nemigomo ephezulu ingenza umgwaqo ube yi-"stupor" noma umvushele isimo esicindezelayo;
• indlela engcono kakhulu yokuxhumana kuyoba ukubonakaliswa njalo kothando lwakho, ukunakekelwa nokubekezela, induduzo ekhaya kanye nokufudumala;
• Ungagcini amagama anothando futhi anomusa, udumise futhi ukhuthaze ngisho nempumelelo encane;
• Zama ukuchazela ingane njalo ngangokunokwenzeka ukuthi umhlaba awuwona wonke ompunga, njengoba kubonakala kuye. Ake sibe nesizathu sokuhleka, ungagxila ezintweni ezibuhlungu nezesabekayo;
• Ungabizi ingane yakho i-crybaby noma i-whiner. Ungammangaleli phambi kwabanye abantwana noma abadala;
• Khuthaza noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kokuzethemba, isinyathelo esisebenzayo nokuzama ukwenza izinqumo zabo. Nika izinyathelo ezincane, ezilula kalula;
• uma ukhetha izinhlelo zokuqeqesha, uqondiswe ngamakhono aphezulu okuqonda amacucu;
• Ingane cishe ngeke ibe ngumdlali, ngakho-ke noma yimiphi imisebenzi akufanele ibe umthwalo. Izifundo ezifanele kakhulu esikoleni somculo noma yobuciko.