Yiqiniso, umndeni awunikelwa njengesinamathisela othandweni olukhulu noluthandako, kudinga ukwakhiwa. Futhi lokhu kufanele kufundwe. Futhi akukhathaleki emndenini abashadile abakhulayo, nokuthi yini isimo sabo sengqondo. Kubalulekile ukuxhumana phakathi kwabo manje emndenini omusha.
Ngesikhathi sethu sokusheshisa okusheshayo, sisuke simatasa kakhulu futhi sihlale sisheshe. Ithelevishini igcwalisa isikhathi sethu sokuzilibazisa, saqala ukukhulumisana kancane. Wonke umuntu uwedwa, usebenza ngezinto zakhe siqu, ngemicabango yakhe.
Futhi abantu babuthana kusihlwa ukuthi bangabi ndawonye, bakhulume, futhi ku-TV bavale ndawonye. Yile ndlela ukugqwala kokuhlukanisa kuqala ukuhlukumeza ubudlelwane bomndeni . Iphutha ulimi olukhulunywa nsuku zonke. Futhi lokhu ukungakwazi ukuxhumana komunye nomunye kuholela ekubhujisweni komndeni.
Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ukungabi nokuxhumana okuholela ekuhlukaniseni abashade. Ukukhulumisana okufanayo, kancane kancane baqala ukuqondana kangcono futhi kangcono. Izakhi eziyinhloko zenkambiso yokuxhumana yilezi: ukuzwelana, ukubekezelelana, ukuthobela, ukubekezela. Futhi lokhu akuzona izihloko ezibalulekile zokuxoxa, futhi kubalulekile ukuzwa umuntu futhi uzwakale.
Isiko lokukhulumisana phakathi kwendoda nomkayo sithinta kakhulu imvamisa yokungavumelani nokungaqondi emndenini. Esinye sezizathu eziyinhloko zokwahlukana kobudlelwane ukungakwazi kwamalungu omshado ukuziphatha ngokuzikhandla ezimweni ezinzima. Kuzo zonke izimpikiswano, faka isikhundla sakho ngaphezu kwesinye.
Ikhwalithi esemqoka ekukhulumisaneni ikhono lokubona ukubaluleka komunye, noma ngabe izikhundla azihambisani. Zama ukuqonda nokwamukela lokho othandekayo wakho akutshela khona. Mhlawumbe kubaluleke kakhulu kuye manje.
Izazi zengqondo ziphikisana ngokucacile ukuthi ukungqubuzana emndenini ngokuvamile kungumphumela we-elementary egoism wabashadile, ukungathandi kwabo ukucabanga ngomthandi. Izintshisekelo zakhe futhi uzimisele ukubeka phambili.
Ukungabi nokuqonda okufanayo emndenini kubangela ukucindezeleka, ukuhlukanisa, ukuwohloka kwesimo sengqondo nesokwenyama, ekunciphiseni okukhulu emandleni omuntu womuntu. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, ukuwohloka kobudlelwano, ibanga elivela kumlingani. Futhi lokhu kuholela ekubhujisweni komndeni.
Futhi lezi zingxabano nazo ziholela ezinkingeni ze-neuropsychiatric, manje abashadile abakwazi ukugodla, ukuhlukumezeka noma ukukhala. Futhi, lapho bekhuluma ngamazwi amaningi angakhethi, baphoqeleka ukuba balandele lokho okushiwo. Kodwa kwakhulunywa emoyeni, futhi kungacatshangwa ngaphandle. Yileyo ndlela abaziphoqa ngayo ngokwenza izenzo ezingenele, zona bona ngokwabo bazizisola kamuva.
Kodwa kwakufanele uqale ukulalela inkinga yothandekayo - bese ungadingeki ukhokhe ngezinzwa zakho, impilo, ukuwohloka kwenhlalakahle, isimo sengqondo nesimo sangokomzwelo emndenini.
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