Ngikholelwa ukuthi lesi silingo asisekelwe ubuhle, ukuhlakanipha noma "izwe eliphansi elicebile", kodwa likwazi ukumangala. Uma ucabanga ngakho, wonke amathiphu wencwadi namagazini wokuthola nokugcina amadoda ahloswe ngalokhu: hook, intrigue, phuma.
Abesifazane abasemnyanini oqinile banamathuba anjalo. Ikhanda elisha elisha, i-lingerie, ubucwebe, isenzo esisha, i-timbre yezwi noma ngisho nokuthengwa ngami, othandekayo wami, izimbali ziyizo zonke izindlela ezivivinywe futhi ezivivinyelwe ukuthi, udumise amazulu, ungayeki ukusebenza. Nokho, ukufeza umphumela udinga indoda ebona lezi zinto.
Uma ekhombisa i-myopia yobugebengu, Angasebenzisa amaqanda okuphuza ngokweqile, ukunyamalala okungazelelwe kusihlwa, i-SMS-kam engaqondakali ngisho nokuhlubuka kwangempela. Ukudubula kusuka emanzini angokomzwelo yizintuthwane ezimpunga zokuphila kwansuku zonke ngokuvamile kuyindlela yamathandwayo eyintandokazi yamantombazane enhle.
Ngokungangabazeki, abamukeli bayasebenza, kodwa banezinselelo ezimbili ezibalulekile. Owokuqala - kulo mdlalo udinga amabili, futhi amabili kuphela. Okwesibili - ukuthathwa, kulula ukuwela umgwaqo phakathi kwe-riddle and vulgarity. Njengoba ukuzithiba akuwona ubuhle obuvame kakhulu besifazane, kunengqondo ukubheka ezinye izingwegwe ezivikelekile nezinye ezingasebenzi.
Ngiyaqaphela ukusho ukuthi enkampanini enkulu, kulula kakhulu ukuba owesifazane avele futhi aziqaphele yena, ebonisa isithakazelo sakhe kwenye indawo "yezidalwa" zesintu. Yenza ngomqondo.
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ezombangazwe, intela, imithetho kanye nezinye izihloko "eziyingozi". Ekhishwe ngesitatimende sombono wakhe, ubeka ingozi yokuba yingxabano, futhi ubulili bakho buzokhohlwa, ngisho noma i-decollete isondela esihlalweni.
Omunye uzohlasela, othile uzovikela, kodwa noma kunjalo uzoba "isoka lakho" futhi "ilungu lethimba." Ungasebenzisa ukuhamba okunjalo kuphela uma ubala ngokunembile zonke izikhundla.
Isibonelo, "isihloko" sakho singumshayeli wanoma yimuphi umgomo. Ngemuva kokucubungula ingxoxo, makakhulume ngaphandle, asekele ngobumnene - ngakho uzocela isihloko ngenkulumo ethule, lapho ezokubona ekhaya.
Okwesibili, akudingeki neze ukwakha uchwepheshe lapho ungakwazi khona lutho. Izinto ezinjalo zitholwa ngokushesha, futhi zihlala zihlazo njalo. Uma ungakaze ubone umdlalo webhola empilweni yakho, ungahlukanisi amakamu ovela emnyango, ungazi ukuthi kukhona umshini wezimoto emotweni nge-injection, ubuze imibuzo noma uhlale uthule.
Esesibili sinokwethenjelwa kakhulu, kodwa akubandakanyi ukuxhumana kwabantu. Isifiso somuntu sokufundisa owesifazane, ngendlela, futhi asinomkhawulo, ngakho-ke akusizi ukuthi uyabuza imibuzo enempilo kakhulu ("kodwa ngebhola elimhlophe, yebo?").
Okwesithathu, qaphela inzuzo yakho. Ungowesifazane, okusho ukuthi ungakwazi ukukwazi ukubona izwe elikuzungezile, kufaka phakathi "amasilisa" akhe, ngokuhlukile kancane.
Isibonelo, owesifazane unokwethenjelwa ukuba abe fan of football kanye eminyakeni emine, lapho Cup World. Uma ungabiza okungenani umdlalo owodwa okhanyayo noma isibongo somlobi wanoma imuphi umgomo omuhle, impumelelo iqinisekisiwe.
Into esemqoka isho ngokushesha into ethi "Angiyena ngempela fan, kodwa ngithanda ukubona umdlalo omuhle." Futhi ukumomotheka ngokumnandi, ngakho-ke, uNkulunkulu akavumelani, abazange bathathe i-tiffozi, bezolala netafula lomqhudelwano futhi "i-rose" (lena igama lesikhwama somshayeli).
Isihloko esivame ukukhuphuka futhi esiphephile esingahle sikhulume ngenkampani yamadoda yizimoto. Ezinkulumweni ezinjalo zonke izinhlobo zamaqiniso ezimangalisayo mayelana nezimoto zizoba usizo, okuzokuvumela ukuba okungenani ugcine ingxoxo, uma ungaqali izingxoxo ezibucayi.
Ukusebenzisa ulwazi olunjalo oluthe xaxa noma oluncane mayelana nemikhiqizo edumile, ungenza ingxoxo yomuntu inothi lokuthakazelisa, umusa, wesifazane , nhlobo. Isimiso sesithathu sisebenza lapha - unayo iphuzu lakho lokubuka.
Owesifazane akudingeki ukuthi azi ukuthi mangaki ama-bolts atholakala ku-BMW, kodwa angabona ukuthi "Oh, yebo, kusukela emotweni encane engiyithandayo i-BMW Isetta, ehlaba umxhwele kakhulu." Ngangathi ngizwa ukuthi bazovuselelwa. "
Ngendlela, kungase kube khona amazwi athi "Bush / Medvedev / Timati / Pamela Andreson" ushayela imoto enjalo, "futhi imoto enamasiko amaningi e-USSR namanje" ipenny ", njll.
Kumuntu wesifazane, umshini ngokuyinhloko into yokuhlelwa kwemicabango kanye namasiko, ukulingiswa kwesithombe, yilokho esizokukhuluma ngakho.
Ukukhuluma namadoda ngezihloko zemoto, ungacela imibuzo eningi ewusizo, kusukela ekukhetheni isikole sokushayela nokuqedela ngobuqili bomklamo womshuwalense.
Into ewukuthi akufanele yenziwe ukuxoxa ngokujulile ukuthi ubani ohola kangcono, abesifazane noma amadoda. Lo mbuzo ungokwesigaba "sokuphakade", nokuphikisana nabantu abangaphansi kwezinxabano ezombusazwe. Ukuxabana emisebenzini yethu akufakiwe. Ibhizinisi lethu lenzalo futhi kumangala. Mayelana nalokhu bese ukhuluma ngesikhathi esizayo.