Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi emsebenzini uzungeza kuphela umphakathi womphakathi. Awu, akusilo yini iphupho labesifazane bonke - ingabe kukhona umuntu okumele agqoke, obani ozodlala ngothando noma obani abazobambisana naye? Kodwa ngeshwa, kunzima kakhulu owesifazane eqenjini lesilisa ukugwema ukunakekelwa okwedlulele ngokwakhe nokwethembela kwamathuba ochwepheshe. Uma uzothola umsebenzi endaweni enjalo, zilungele ukudlala ngokumelene nemithetho.
Ngakho-ke, uqale ukusebenza endaweni entsha futhi ngosuku lokuqala uthola ukuthi ozakwabo babheka nesithakazelo esiqondisweni sakho, futhi bezama ukunikeza usizo lwabo. Ekuqaleni, ukunakwa okunjalo kuyathandeka, kodwa ngemva kwesikhathi, iqala ukuthukuthela futhi ifinyelele emithanjeni yakho. Sizokhuluma ngesikhathi esisodwa, kulabo abodwa, abafuna umlingani wokuphila, le migqa ayisebenzi. Kodwa uma ungabaningi besifazane asebevele benamadoda noma abathandayo, ukukhathazeka okunjalo ngabalingani bayo kuzoba maduze kakhulu, ikakhulukazi lapho abasebenzi abaningana beqala ngentshiseko futhi befuna indawo yakho. Ukusebenza akusikho isikhathi, ngoba uphazamiseka ngaso sonke isikhathi izingxoxo, ezihlala zikhona ngezihloko ezisheshayo. Kaningi lokho kwenzeka ngisho noma osebenza nabo beba namakhosikazi noma ama-mistress okuhlala njalo futhi akukho lutho oluzoshintsha empilweni yabo. Kulula, bona ngokwabo, cishe ngaphandle kokuthanda kwabo, baba izisulu zesimo samanje. Akunandaba ukuthi ungowesifazane omuhle, u-coquette noma owesifazane onamahloni, okubaluleke kakhulu, nguwe kuphela wesifazane eqembu.
Amadoda amaningi akholelwa ukuthi owesifazane akakwazi ukuba isazi sezinga eliphezulu futhi enze izinqumo ezithintekayo. Futhi ungamangali uma uzizwa ukuthi amaphrojekthi athakazelisayo esuka ezandleni zakho, uhlale unikezwe imisebenzi yesibili, imihlangano ebalulekile izama ukubamba ngaphandle kwakho. Kuyadabukisa, kodwa iqiniso liyi-eqenjini lomuntu, owesifazane kufanele aveze ubuchule bakhe njalo ngomzuzu. Ngakho kufanele ulungiselele umzabalazo omkhulu wokusinda, kaningi ngaphandle kwemithetho. Impumelelo yakho yobuchwepheshe izoyithukuthelisa la madoda futhi yonakalise umuzwa wabo wokuziphendulela. Isiqingatha sethu esithandekayo sikhulu kakhulu ukuvumelanisa nokuphakama komunye umuntu kunokuba sihlukunwe yi "wesifazane othakazelisayo". Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abaningi, kanye kanye neqembu labesilisa, baqala ukuzizwa njengomuntu ofana nenhloli, abaphonswa ensimini yezitha. Ungathathi lesi simo ngendlela ephawulekayo, kanti futhi ezinye izinyathelo zokuphepha ngeke zibe yinto engafaneleki.
Ungaqhubi izingxoxo ezinde nabangani bakho efonini yomsebenzi, ukukhuluma ngomhlangano wezolo noma ukuxabana nomyeni wakhe. Qaphela ukuthi amadoda ahlakaniphile kancane kunabesifazane, futhi kufana nokuhleba. Ngokuvamile, kungcono ukugcina impilo yakho siqu ngeziqu eziyisikhombisa. Futhi ngisho nangaphezulu, ungaxoxani, ngisho nangesesehlakalo, nabanye osebenza nabo izinzuzo nezinkinga zabanye: ububambano besilisa buzoqhubeka budlula, futhi amagama akho azosakazwa ngokushesha kulolu chungechunge, futhi, cishe, ngendlela ephosakekile.
Ekulweni nokuqhathaniswa okuphoqelekile, zama ukungaqhubeki ngokuphelele - ukuze ube uhlobo lwe "isoka lakho": amadoda angalingani abasaqapheli, ngakho ngeke uhloniphe ngale ndlela. Zizwa ukhululekile ukugcizelela ubufazi bakho kanye nobuthakathaka lapho, uthi, udinga ukuhambisa ithebula noma ukuvula i-transom egxilile. Kodwa ukulungisa ukuzenzela phambi komuntu wonke noma ukubhekisela empilweni embi phakathi "nezinsuku ezibucayi" akuvumelekile neze. Akudingekile ukubuza kaningi. Osebenza nabo bangase babe nesithukuthezi isikhathi eside.
Izambatho ezinhle, ukwakheka okhiye okuphansi Njengokugqoka izingubo zansuku zonke, yiqiniso, ukukhetha kufanele kunikezwe isitayela sebhizinisi esiqinile. Ukukhishwa ngokwemikhakha yizigqoko eziqinile nezigqoko, iziketi ezifushane, yilokho okugcizelela ubulili bakho. Okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe manje kuhlanzekile futhi kunemba: izinwele ezihlanzekile, ukwakheka okuhle, kumbala we-pastel, iphunga elimnandi kodwa elingenamandla elinamakha.
Gcina indawo yakho yokusebenzela ihlanzekile futhi ihlanzekile.